Collins Odhiambo – Assessments

As A Man Thinketh
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?

Man is basically what he is in the mind, his character being the complete sum of all thoughts. The result of his actions are the product of his thoughts, whether negative or positive. We are also responsible of the direction we want to take in our lives. Every thing is in our mind disposal. I will always get what I want if I only have the right and determined focused mind.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

Our Character
One can choose to be master of his/her own thought, the molder of character, and the maker and shaper of condition, environment and destiny. One’s character should be built on the right thinking and right application of thought. Thought that is conceived should be used to transform one’s character. But always take caution that every thought conceived can make or break you.

Our Thoughts
That our thoughts are like a garden which must be cultivated always or else their will be weed which bring forth useless results. In all the circumstances one has to know and plan all his/her activities in mind. A number of times in my life and work I may think and see things as completely impossible because of the challenges they are posing to me. In such a case one must choose and select his/her words/actions carefully so that one emerges a winner.

Tranquility of Mind and personal organization
Tranquility of mind is a trinket of wisdom which translates into long and patient effort in personal organization. This is challenge that we do encounter and in reaction we do fret, grumble, curse, and reek about everything that doesn’t turn out to our expectation. Occasionally it occurs when you feel that you’ve given a task your all. But at the end of the day the outcome isn’t what was anticipated. I therefore subscribe to the tranquility of mind being the answer to such kind of situations. In everything that we do, we need to fully comprehend plainly the interior relations of them and the resultant causes and their effects.

Reason in accomplishment
One confronted by the reason that all that a man accomplishes and vice-versa is the direct result of his/her own thoughts. To me this is a very powerful message, because oftentimes we haven’t managed to accomplish most of the tasks that we set out to do. Perhaps its for the reason that I engage in a task once and I let go if it doesn’t work, sometimes the stamina is lacking for me to keep on trying the same. In the course of action I give up and leave things the way they are. Later on carp that I was not in the best spot to act. Some other times we also see that others are better placed for the task than us. This leaves me feeling awkward that things have happen as a direct consequence of my own thought. This makes me consider myself challenged that I should grow, defeat, and accomplish by elating up my thoughts and spirits.

Thought and purpose
Up to that time when thought is allied to purpose there is no sharp success. Many a times the things we do are at cross roads, that is a part I think I have to work tirelessly hard towards. Therefore after moments of reflection I resolve to make my supreme duty to develop my self to the accomplishment. This therefore makes me see the world differently i.e. see an opportunity in every difficulty.

Our Dreams
That dreamers are the saviors of the world. If i continue dreaming it shows what I will be somewhere one day, or one day unveil what I have always dreamt. Those who dreamt before us had a dream, we are enjoying the dream they had. It serves as an encouragement me to work and strive for what i aspire even times are as bad as turbulent waves. Dreaming keeps us animate because we know somewhere in my subconscious i have what i want and this dream are the realities of the seeds planted.

Our Will Power
One can change through always altering what is in their thoughts, this eventually brings transformation and this gives rise to rapid effect in the material and spiritual conditions in life. Because of the will power to strive on, every thought is transformed into a physical action.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?

This aids in determining one’s aptitude and my thinking faculties of how to decide what I want achieved through the effect of thought and purpose in my life. Also consciously in everyday life that am the results of what I am in the mind (thoughts). Enabling me appreciate the fact that I am myself and always the master and controller of personal destiny even in my weakest and most abandoned state. Making it my principle and ultimate duty so that I dedicate myself to its realization, preventing my thoughts from wondering away into transient oblivion, yearning and ideas. That I can find every true link with my life form if I only delve profoundly into my soul to see, that I am the creator of my character, the molder of my life and the builder of my destiny. I ought to learn how to be in charge of my thoughts, outlining its upshot upon myself, leading others and on my life’s state of affairs, akin to grounds and effect by being unwearied practice and examination by making use of every experience even those of minimal consequence or worth. Through practice of patience and not ceasing I can conquer the doors of knowledge and wisdom.

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.

A man only begins to be a man when he ceases to whine and revile, and commences to search for the hidden justice which regulates his life. By and large while confronted with challenges daily I should stop cranky, cursing and concluding that life is not flaxen. I have concluded that it doesn’t help. Probing deeper for what you want in your life is contained by your soul. One should acclimatize his/her mind of not complaining. And this should guide you to search for the veiled abilities.

What a man thinks, so he is; as he continues to think, so he remains.
It shows that the thought of a mind of man has all the ability a mankind has ever sought to have, its what you want to decide and do through the thought that determines the final result of what one wants.

Man is made or unmade by himself.
It was vital because being I have always thought that some circumstances are as a result trends of the world. This makes strong point to start practicing what am able to accomplish.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

Yes there was especially the language used by the other was not the kind of contemporary English that we use everyday.

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?

The answer is no.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

It was pleasant reading except the wordings that were way above the average reader which tried to slacken the pace of reading and understanding for the reason that I had to make pauses in between reading and try to understand them through using a dictionary.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 9
C. How easy was it to understand? 4
D. Would you recommend it to others? 9
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 7

Jonathan Livingston Seagull

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea the author of this book is conveying is that practice makes perfect. The more one practices, the better one becomes in whatever field. However, practice must be coupled with a desire to learn in order to excel in one’s preferred field.

2. What are the seven ideas which were personally important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important?

i) “One is not born a genius, one becomes a genius,” Simone De Beauvoir once said. If one, sets one mind to on something, however difficult the road, to achieving that goal may be, one will certainly get there in the long run. Obviously, there are many challenges, and each task undertaken presents its unique ones, but these challenges are the building blocks that are held together by one’s resilience. In this book, the main character – (Jonathan Livingston Seagull), eyes are fixed on the price in learning to fly by practicing. This sentiment is echoed several times in the book starting with the mention of Jonathan’s heart desire in the opening paragraph of the book.

“For this gull, though, it was not eating that mattered but flight,” the author states.

ii) “What you can achieve is only limited by what you can dream.” This poignant declaration by Richard Buton, best illustrates Jonathan’s yearning to fly.

“The subject was speed, and in a week’s practice, he learned more about speed than the fastest gull alive.” Quite often, one is driven by an inner passion to succeed or achieve something. That desire which makes one unsettled, is the driving force of one’s unfulfilled dream in life.

iii) Humility is one of the ingredients of a good student on the one hand, while “Arrogance is the proclamation of one’s littleness,” on the other hand, someone once said.

iv) Setting Goals. Once Jonathan identified his innermost heart desire to fly, he set himself up for higher stakes to fly.

“It’s all pointless … deliberately dropping a hard-won anchovy to a hungry old gull chasing him. I could be spending all this time learning to fly,” said he.

It’s not uncommon for anyone to aspire for better things in life. A man, any man has set goals in life particularly with regard to what he ultimately wants to achieve. Sometimes, the set goal may be too ambitious, like in the case of Jonathan Seagull. But with self-discipline and determination, he got his wish, to fly better, faster, and do all kinds of maneuvers in the air.

“Flying out to his lonely practice area, folding his wings for a dive eight thousand feet, he set himself at one to discover how to turn.”

v) Fear is inevitable in life. “Jonathan Seagull exploded in mid air and smashed down into a brick- hard sea,” Bach writes. “His wings were ragged bars of lead, but the weight of failure was even heavier on his back.”

The biggest challenge facing Jonathan Seagull and indeed all human kind is failure. Sometimes the fear of failure is o great one dare not try to attempt any thing new. Fear of failure or failure itself plagues every last one of us young, old rich or poor. But failure does not change how one feels about achieving one’s life’s goal for example. It merely proves the point, which one is yet to give the matter his/her best shot. It is only by allowing yourself that you succumb to failure the failure syndrome. One’s eyes must constantly be kept on the price no matter the prevailing circumstances in life. To borrow words from the good book,

“…Let us lay aside every weight …and let us run with patience the race that’s set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith,” (Heb. 12:1-2). One must continually fix their eyes on the price.

vi) Overcoming Limitations: The greatest hindrance to making any headway in life is one’s failure to over come limitations.

vii) Making A Breakthrough

“And with that, Jonathan held in thought an image of great gull- flocks on the shore of another time … and he was not bone and feathers, but a perfect idea of a freedom and fight, limited by nothing at all.”

Not all in life is gloom as Jonathan finally discovered that he could be anything he wanted to, and nothing would stand on his way to achieving that goal if he wanted and chose to. Once we have pure good thoughts, become masters of our circumstance, the body subdued by the mind, have a clear defined purpose with a sharp focus on ideals; nothing can stop us from attaining the impossible.

3. How will these ideas or lesson help you in a practical way, both in your personal life and in helping to create a better world? If so how?

Everyone is unique, and is endowed with skills and special talents. But not everyone reaches their full potential in developing and using their skills and special talents, due to varied factors in life, some of which are beyond one’s capability. However, greater percentage talents remain untapped as a result of our own individual doing.

Certainly, the world would be a better place, than it is today, if everyone (within reason of course) would be part of the process of tuning the wheel of development in every little community in a country. Instead, the “hands off attitude” of so many that do not produce but are consumer is hurting the world’s economy. World food shortage is more an artificial man made catastrophe than it is a natural one. By and large, whenever global politics creeps into any sphere of development, the downside is ripple effect that spreads and affects the domestic market. But suppose every country produced enough to feed her population (which is very possible), these countries wouldn’t be held hostage by the global price benchmark that sets the tone for global food pricing and shortage.

Perhaps, a more practical example such as the world food crisis would help shed more light on this point.

4. Are there any statements, which the author made that particular got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.

I) “…till a crowd of a thousand seagulls came to dodge and fight for bit of food.”

In this sentence in the opening paragraph of the book, the author paints a gloomy picture of ‘survival for the fittest’ theory. This phrase cuts across all boundaries of life species. Particularly the word “fight” used here in juxtaposition to conquer, subdue and become a winner. This is true with all living creatures, plants, birds, and animals. But man because of his ingenuity has practiced and perfected unique and innovative ways for survival in a harsh climatic environment, among fellow human beings, plants and animals. Bottom line, only the ‘fittest survive.’

ii) “I don’t mind being bones and feathers, mum. I just want to know what I can do in the air and what I can’t, that’s all.” There is a price to pay to achieve something in life nothing comes easy. In some cases, the price is higher than others, and its self-dedication, determination on the part of the individual that counts. But the ultimate remains the same – achieve one’s ambition in life.

iii) “Why is it so hard to be like the rest of the flock, Jon?” In life, more often than not, heroes stand-alone. Some may mock them, while others ridicule them. Only a relatively small percentage of people will cheer them on. But a majority will brand them all kinds and manner of negative names like ‘Lone Ranger’, simply because they’re daring to be different like Jonathan to develop and to achieve what once one viewed as mission impossible.

“His thought was triumph, Terminal velocity! …folding his wings for a dive from eight thousand feet.” Like all human beings, once Jonathan made the breakthrough, sky was the limit as they say. He continued to gain fulfillment and happiness of his heart desire flying, faster and further away from other seagulls.

“You can go to any place and to anytime that you wish to go.” This quotation summarizes the whole storyline, echoing similar sentiments expressed by Richard Buton I noted earlier.

“What you can achieve is only limited by what you can dream.” I couldn’t agree more. Knowing and reading about the lives of other people who have made history in achieving the impossible in different fields. Time and space would not allow, but I could lift one sentence after another in the book and match them word for word with practical human experiences

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

“No Jonathan, there is no such place. Heaven is not a place, and it is not a time. Heaven is being perfect.” The above statement raises serious several questions in my mind that don’t resonate with the spiritual sphere of life, I was brought up in. Categorically stating that ‘Heaven is not a place’ casts a huge expanse of doubt on those who have little or no faith in God as the Supreme Being and His abode is heaven. Secondly, ‘Heaven is being perfect suggests that living creatures can attain perfection here on earth. This isn’t just impossible, its also impracticable. I have yet to come across in history books or any literature save the Bible where perfection is achievable in reality in this life. If it were, then how come no one is referred to as perfect? Even among devout religious persons, other than Christians, ‘perfection is a far cry, a pie in the sky sort of thing for mortals like you and me.

It is for these two reasons, that I disagree with the allusion,”there is no place. Heaven is not a place.” Unless someone presents me with believable facts on the subject, I stand by my word that perfection is a utopia on planet earth.

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them useful?

Yes there are six questions including this one that I have answered based on the book for this assignment.

The exercises are very useful as a guide to tackling everyday life problems.

Ratings

a) How interesting was the read? The reading proved very interesting to in that it brought back the passion of reflection in my own life with personal values and beliefs that I’ve had since childhood.

b) How helpful were the contents? the contents teachers us the virtues of perseverance in life especially when focusing on the goals that we set in life.

c) How easy was it to understand? Well to say the truth one had to go back memory lane and bring back the artistic and literary mind to understand the books otherwise reading through them like any fiction /non fiction would only leave you completely blank.

d) Would you recommend it to others? Yes I would definitely recommend the books to my like minded friends that I hang out with and a share the same values and beliefs.

e) What is the overall rating you would give it? In a scale of one to ten I would award eight over ten.

Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude, the title of the book by Napoleon Hill is also indeed the main idea the author coveys in more ways through different individual life experiences.

2. What are the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

In his book, Success Through A Positive Mental, Napoleon Hill explores individual circumstances in life, all of which stand out

i. Positive Mental Attitude and Negative Mental Attitude
Two opposing forces within every individual Positive Mental Attitude (PMA), and Negative Mental Attitude (NMA), play an important role in the life of every last individual. On the one hand, PMA is raring to go, to achieve one’s dream of a better life. On the other hand the NMA casts doubts, procrastinates and if allowed control, the mind drifts towards failure to realize one’s potential.

Personal Experience
For years I remained trapped in my thoughts of inadequacy to pursue a writing career, simply because of the Negative Mental Attitude I had harbored of inadequacy. Deep inside, I felt really passionate about creative writing, but my childhood upbringing and educational background stood in the way. Instead of viewing that as a challenge, it became a stumbling block for my heart to run away with the idea of creative writing. Only much later in life would the idea hit me like a ton of bricks reading that I can be anything I want to be through reading the self improvement book I came across.

However, although these two forces seem to contradict each other in many ways, they can be harnessed to work out for the attainment of one’s goal in life so long as the individual recognizes the imbalanced of one over the other, particularly NMA over PMA

ii. “What one can achieve is only limited by what one can dream,” to quote Richard Rutan. This thought pattern is true in the physical as well as the spiritual realms of life. In the Bible book of Hebrews, this is illustrated through the definition of faith in a Supreme Being – God

“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for the evidence of things not seen.” This verse, (spiritual) mirrors the above sentiment expressed by Richard Rutan (physical). But the common denominator in either case is the adoption of A Positive Mental Attitude to address life’s challenges.

Personal Experience
Several years ago, I applied and had been accepted to college, but my financial status stood on the way. Simply, I had no money to meet the cost of tuition let alone travel to college. But I believed beyond any shadow of doubt this was what God would have me do at the time. Constant prayer without ceasing had brought me thus far, and I was convinced nothing would stand in the way of prayer not even financial setback. Finally, I did go to college because of a firm belief in God keeping my dream in sharp focus.

iii. Definiteness of Purpose
In Chapter two, in the section entitled “Definiteness of Purpose is the Starting Point of All Achievement,” stands out like a sore thumb in the book, and for a very good reason. In relation to a cliché that’s doing the merry-go-round in business circles,

“No one plans to fail, but many fail to plan.”

Lewis Carol in Alice in Wonderland best illustrates this sentiment. “Would you tell me please, which way I ought to go from here,” Alice asks. “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the cat. In each of the above sentiments, the underlying principle hinges on “Definiteness of Purpose.” The reason so many people are disillusioned in life isn’t the lack of what needs done, but rather the lack thereof of “Definiteness of Purpose.” One must have or set realistic achievable goals in life and go about achieving them or nothing gets done and life becomes a drag.

Personal Experience
For years all I ever wanted in life is to put pen to paper and share my thoughts with others in the form of writing. But it wasn’t until I set out to writing that I was able to slay the dragon and venture out into writing instead of drowning in a sea of worries and fear and stop drifting like a canoe in a sea of troubled river of life without a definite purpose. I may not yet be a prolific hand at writing award winning magazine articles yet, but the light at the end of the tunnel is shining brighter now than before. For some, that turning point in life may not be dramatic for others like me it was. But no matter the circumstances that bring us face to face with making a definite turn around, one thing remains certain ‘Definiteness of Purpose,” is a must for success.

iv. Mental Cobwebs

“There are mental cobwebs that clutter up the thinking of almost everyone, even the most brilliant minds.”

Reading and meditating over this sentence and the illustrations that amplify the thought in the book brought back to memory a story I heard many years ago. A church deacon who was known for his intercessory prayer extravaganza was also fond of repeatedly asking God to clear the cobwebs that cloud the minds of believer to have full fellowship with God. On this one occasion, one of the members of the congregation who had gotten sick of the phrase interjected, when the deacon once more recited this favorite line,

“Clear the cobwebs…..” The member took the liberty to add the words, “…and kill the spider.” Until one is able to put to rest the NMA thoughts that stand in the way of achievement, one will continue to have his mind clouded by NMA cobweb thoughts. The sure remedy for cure, although drastic are the words of the church member, “…kill the spider.” Perhaps not literally, but blocking NMA by replacing them with PMA is the way to go about this challenge.

The biblical account of St Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians sums up this point beautifully in my life,

“For we see in a mirror, darkly; but then face to face; now I know in part, but then shall I know even as also I am known.” This verse echo the sentiments by Napoleon Hill about mental cobwebs so well I can almost hear him say them. The one and only time, we are able to see clearly though the maize of mental cobwebs is when the “mental cobwebs” are gotten rid of. For some, it takes a short time, for others like me it takes decades to clear the “mental cobwebs,” but however long it takes, there is no short cut to success with “mental cobwebs” hanging over ones mind.

v. Thought Pattern

James Allen in his book, ‘As A Man Thinketh’ reiterates, “A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of his thoughts.” These words are further explained by Napoleon Hill in the book ‘Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude,’ through the use of illustrations of certain individual persons life. The life of Bill McCall is one such example, of one who purposed to become rich and went out of his way to find rules for acquisition of wealth. By reading the inspirational book, ‘Think and Grow Rich,’ McCall got his big break to wealth creation.

vi. Extended Imagination

“Everyone has some creative ability, but most people haven’t learned to use it,” Alex Osborn. In his book, Osborn refers to these creative abilities as ‘Applied Imagination,’ I prefer to call them ‘Extended Imagination.’

One of the ways man learns to adapt to the environment, harsh or friendly is through imagination. Every last one of us faces challenges in life and the only escape route is through extended imagination. Sometimes the solutions to a problem may take several attempts and failures. But resilience will see one through it as they romp home and dry.

Over the past little while I had to change careers a number of times. Each time it was in the premise of extended imagination that I was able to adjust and cope in the new career.

vii. Action speaks louder than words.

The biblical equivalence of this well known adage is “Faith without works is dead”. It is not enough to have a positive mental attitude, one must take action upon or breath life to ideas for them to blossom and that’s action.

Once I accepted joblessness as a no laughing matter, I set alone to study creative writing in anticipation for a change in career. That action has paid off in many ways than I cannot count already.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your personal life and in helping to create a better world? If so how?

Positive Mental Attitude is like taking a breath of fresh air. Life has taken on more meaning and purpose as I apply PMA to the challenges that come my way daily. One instance of particular interest has been to look back over the failures in a previous business engagement and turn the tides of events to success in one am envisaging operating next year.

Reading and re-reading this book has given me hope beyond compare and a desire to succeed this time round in all things regardless of the challenges. All seem so very clear in my mind that I sleep walk, watching the playback of my life on the big screen of my mind everyday and its grows sweeter than ever. Then there’s the creative writing. But more importantly, I am beating down the path to doors of opportunities for service to society on a voluntary basis.

4. Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.

Several quotes stand out in this book, some more than the others in particular are the following.

“Anything in life worth having is worth working for,” Andrew Carnegie’s Motto. To this one can only make reference to yet another with a similar ring to it. “There’s no gain without pain.”

The great Danish philosopher and religious thinker Soren Kieerkgard’s , “It is the sign of a good book when the book reads you,” quote really caught me off guard, never though about books in that line but Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude’ is such a book.

“Do it Now!” one of the favorite quotes in this book is now emblazoned on the wall on top of my reading table. So powerful has this quote become that I unconsciously verbalize it every time I think of putting doing something off.

“Every adversity has the seed of an equivalent or a greater benefit,” in another mans’ words, “What life does to us all in the long run depends on what life finds in us.” The Bible is more direct and emphatic on this idea “There has no temptation taken you but such as is common to man; but God is faithful who will not permit you to be tempted above that ye are able, but will with the temptation also make a the way to escape that ye may be able to bear.”

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 9
B. How helpful were the contents? 9
C. How easy was it to understand? 8
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9

The New Dynamics Of Winning
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo

I. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea, the author uses to set the tone and tempo of the book, The New Dynamics of Winning is the mindset of a champion for success in whatever field or discipline one is engaged.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

Each chapter of the book explores an important idea for self improvement; however the seven following stand out like a sour thumb.

The Drive to Win

Peak performers in every field are passionate about success. Drive is what sets winners apart from losers.

“Quitters never win,” one once said. Peak performers are motivated by a desire to change the circumstances around them and in their lives therefore, endeavor to do something about it.

Personal Experience

In the local community where I live, poverty is like a second nature to the locals. Folk in this rural surrounding have tons of excuses justifying their poverty state. The stories told across the board center around political incorrectness, poor family background and non existent financial base among others. Their mind is set on being poor now and for eternity. Only a small percentage of the majority population, think in terms of improving their lifestyle. Kids are born and they grow up with these same skewed notions. There’s no drive, motivation is at a record low and the result is predictable failure even in activities that don’t require high level of education like small scale farming. Instead of poverty eradiation, poverty tradition is the catch word in this local community.

Paying the Price

“No gain without pain,” is an accepted phrase in modern social circles. The Bible in the New Testament is more emphatic and direct on this issue. In the letter of Paul to Galatians 6:7 “Be not deceived, God is not mocked, whatever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.” Although this verse refers to spiritual sphere of life, one can glean and draw parallel lessons with whatever God given natural talent or ability.

In the Parable of the Talents, another Bible reference depicts three characters who were entrusted with different share of talents. Two of them made good use in multiplying the amount, one hid and returned the one talent as it was. Each of them was rewarded according to what they brought back except for the one of one talent, whose natural drive locked on neutral or reverse experience, hence no pain in working hard to multiply the talent, therefore had no gain for even the one talent he was given was taken away from him.

In Romans 8:18, we read, “For I reckon that the suffering of this present time not worth to be compared with the floor which shall be revealed. All these scripture references have relevance albeit from a spiritual perspective, but can serve as pointers to gaining success.

The Olympian Within

Years ago, certain musical lyrics stroke a chord in my heart. Little did I know these same lyrics would have an indelible effect on my life. One such is the song title ‘Hero’ by Mariah Carey. This particular song’s lyrics tie in well with the sentiments echoed in the book ‘The New Dynamics of Winning. Perhaps I enjoyed melody more than the lyrics. Today, it’s the reverse as life has taken on more meaning and has a different ring to it. Reading about the examples of champion personalities cited in this book has triggered and given more meaning to Mariah Carey’s song ‘Hero.’ Today, the lyrics speak volumes, “There is a hero, if you look in your heart…”

Not only do the words resonate with the dynamics of success in whatever activity one engages in life; they also sit pretty well in bringing out positive self image as a key ingredient to achieving success. But over and above all, Dennis Waitley, the author of this book also echoes similar sentiments in gaining the mind set of a champion for unlimited success in life.

Integrity

Success is relative. To one, it’s the acquisition of wealth, to another, its fame. But real success is the fulfillment of one’s heart desire in life whether its riches, fame in the various disciples. Bottom line, doing what one loves to do best. In the book, the author gives examples of peak performers in the sports by exploring their personalities. It is this common denominator found in these champions that Dennis uses to draw conclusions that have culminated in the publishing of this book – that of ones integrity.

Personal Experience

Nearly a decade a go, due to circumstance beyond my ability, I was forced to consider a change in career, and opt for creative writing. Once the switch was made albeit with a lot of difficulty, suddenly, I realized that I this is something that satisfies, truly satisfies my heart desire. Ever since, then writing has become a ritual. I may not be there yet, but am working on it, and am confident that success in this discipline is beckoning.

Visualization of Victory

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step,” A Chinese proverb says. This proverb best illustrated visualization of victory. Unless and until one can visualize the end result of ones toil in activity, it will be impossible for one to get to the preferred destination. It doesn’t have to be earth moving activity; one can draw examples from simple everyday life like in traveling. Creating a mental picture of the end result of a journey is key to making it to the destination.

Personal Experience

In my everyday writing hobby, whether am writing an article, drama for a radio or television program, the scenes of the drama or article for example must play in the memory of mind to get the dialogue on paper for the characters. Each character then becomes alive and takes over to write their own subsequent dialogue lines, once life has been breathed into them. They also walk and talk their way through a conflict seeking a solution to problem at hand.

Self Confidence

On a daily basis one juggles around with a number of things in life. My life revolves around writing, formal employment, writing and reading. While its easy to sit write, it is not the same with all other activities in life. The head gets tired at some point and so does the body. It is at this point that reading comes handy to help me shed off fatigue and inject new blood into the system. It has taken a while to fall into the routine of these events but with time my self confidence has been boosted with each passing moment doing one or the other activity.

“This is the first day of the rest of my life,” is phrase I recite every morning to get me going through the new day.

The Quality of Leadership

‘No man is an island,’ someone once remarked. Whether one is a leader or a follower, one finds oneself in one or the other position. Therefore, it’s crucial to understand and be sensitive to the need of other people a round whose lives touch or rub off yours, whether they are being led or leaders, to create an enabling environment conducive for one to succeed in life. This is more entrenched in the chapter in the book dealing with quality leadership and how it helps to forge success in one’s life.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way?

Several things come to mind, thumbing though The New Dynamics of Winning book. One is the magnitude of resilience. Unlike before when I so easily gave up pursuing a goal, I have now learnt to stick with it until the end, and the results have been greatly encouraging. It started with creative writing. Recently, I had to complete and hand in a business plan something I had never done before. It’s about the time my focus on the end product than the challenges of the moment took on more meaning.
This book is a God send.

4. Quotes

A number of quotes stand out in this book. Here are a few of the many

“Motivation is motive in action.” Reading this definition of the word motivation the book has given it more oomph from a practical point of view. This definition goes beyond the simple dictionary. By breaking down the word into its two constituents, crystallizes not just the meaning but also lays emphasis on the end result.

“The best way to motivate people is to put them against one another…” This quote from Thomas J. Watson, Jr former CEO IBM almost always produces negative results. In the words of Waitley, the author,”the effect is to stagnate or penalize the will to achieve.” I couldn’t agree more.

“Don’t wait for the miracle or that break or the right time. Today is your day. “ In Bible talk, the word is procrastination is used in stead in putting off a decision to make a commitment to follow the Lord Jesus Christ. The book of Revelation 3:20,
“Behold, I stand at the door and know; if any man hear my voice and open the door, I will come in to him and will sap with him and he with me.

Although, the verse is usually lifted out of context, nevertheless, it serves the purpose of warning for the emergency of heeding the call of salvation. Needless to say same applies in every day real life. Now is the time. Remind one of the priceless quotes from Mother Teresa. “Don‘t wait for someone, do it yourself.”

“…I needed someone pushing me.” This quote from Mary Lou in chapter two titled ‘Paying the Price’ is relevant to us all. Cultivating the desire to win may take the form of a nudge from a friend or a family member. We all cherish those moments of encouragement to take a step forward towards achieving our goal in life. It was true of Mary Lou and its true in my case although in a different field and way.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 9
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9

Pschocybernitics 2000
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea that runs through the book is Self Esteem

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

(a) Self Image
Nearly every one of us at some point in time suffers a set back of one kind or another. The loss a loved one, poor health, or career change. Any of these can set one back ages resulting into poor self image and esteem.

“It’s your ‘desert’ experience’ – a time of feeling barren of options,” explains Dr. Del Zoppo a psychologist and bereavement specialist. “The important thing isn’t to allow yourself so be stranded in the desert, he adds. Such was case of a lady friend who turned to me for help at hour of need came to see me for words of wisdom. She narrated the following story.

I had just discovered that mum and dad abandoned me in my infancy. About this same time, Alf came into my life. From gram’s explanation of the volatile situation I entered into this world, I needed someone to talk to about the feeling of rejection bottled inside of me … In a short while, Alf and I got romantically involved. … But the relationship didn’t last very long. Alf began to make excuses for not wanting to be together. What I didn’t know at the time is that I was his second violin. He had his first love kept a secret the whole time we went out together. After Alf ditched me, I had trouble adjusting let alone coping because I had invested my whole life into this relationship.

Shortly after this encounter, I met Andrew and within three months, it seemed every piece of the jigsaw puzzle I had in my wish list for the man of my dream came into place.

“This is too good to be true, something bad is bound to rip us apart” I thought. As a result of such negative vibes, I developed s poor self image of my self that would later greatly affect my love life.

These excerpts taken from unsolicited, unpublished manuscript book ‘Distant Dream’ Daphne and I are working on formed the basis of our sharing together. Although these parts of the book were done earlier, reading Psycho-Cybernetics book has helped crystallize the importance of a positive self image and I intend to pass the same to the main character of this book.

(b) Societal Status Quo

Tribalism is the number one bone of contention in Africa, particularly Kenya with as many as 43 different ethnic groups, speaking different languages and ascribe to different cultural practices and belief. Adding the minority ethnic status quo and individual person’s personality conflict is a recipe for disaster. Deep gaping political wound exist between tribes in Kenya that will take generations to heal, if a positive conscious choice isn’t made for the good and future national development of this county. Maltz words in chapter twelve – Removing the Glitches from Your Personality on the sub heading Emotional Scars, beautifully summarize the current political upheaval and animosity between the tribes in Kenya.

(c) Career Change

For some building a career takes a life time, others it takes a short time. Career change is therefore the last thing anyone would think of considering the many challenges it posses. But people do change careers every now and again for some reason or another. The more opulent reasons for changing one’s career have nothing to do with it being fashionable. More often than not, one is forced by circumstance beyond ones scope like disability, deprivation or promotion and/or demotion.

Such has been the case lately in Kenya; many people particularly young people have had to shift gears with the advent of Information Communication Technology. That shift has impacted for some old folks negatively while others positively. Those old folk have also been forced to change for them to remain on course. The government too has stepped in to stimulate and promote wealth and employment as the following piece appearing on one of dailies reveals.

“People in rural areas will soon be accessing internet, thanks to a partnership that seek to bridge the digital divide between urban and rural areas.” These words screamed from the daily newspaper and jumped right out of print demanding readership. ‘Now there’s something to write home about,’ I thought. The title of the write up had long grabbed me by the throat.

“Rural areas lined up to access cheap Internet.” But that is only the tip of iceberg, it gets better and better, as one thumbs through the article to note two giant reputable firms, Equity Bank on the one hand, and Safaricom, the success story by the run away local mobile company on one hand and another financial institution on the other are behind this intervention.

Such changes mirror a society on the move and the prime movers are individuals who must first look at themselves squarely in the eye and, adjust to a new style of life, cope and live. This takes a positive mental attitude, and the emphasis is on the individual.

(d) Setting Goals

WEBSTER defines enthusiasm as “an intense, profound, and eager interest with a liveliness of imagination for object believed to be worth.” This in effect mirrors goal setting.

“One who aims at nothing, will always hit it,” is a cliché that provides profound truth on goal setting. But the goals must be in the words of the author SMART for one to succeed. In using the analogy of the acronym outlined by the author, a reader does not fail to find these simple steps easy to follow and adapt to.

(e) CRAFT

One can change not just the individual but the surrounding society and have an impact on the world if one wants and chooses to use the five simple steps outlined in Psycho Cybernetics in the acronym CRAFT.

Cancel – Those who have been or are sick know that the recovery proofs depends more on how one feels. Many times on my walk on this road I felt like giving up. “What is the use?” I frequently asked myself as the negative thoughts would come flooding the mind. The same would block the brightness of the day in my life. Realizing the hardship of coping with negative thoughts and condition of my frail body, I decided to cheer myself up every morning by canceling them and instead,

Replacing – the negative with positive thoughts. “This is the first day of my life alive, I will make the most of it, including being happy that I am alive.” This has since then become the talisman that I invoke whenever fear and doubt assail. Reading this book has engraved these positive sentiments in my mind.

Affirm – Collins Concise Dictionary defines the word as “to declare to be true”. The biblical definition of salvation hinges on a declaration of ones beliefs in A Supreme Being – God. This declaration is based on truth, which the apostle John in the New gospel quotes the words of Jesus “…And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free. Without sounding preachy, declaration has to do with proven facts – the truth, and that truth has the power to transform ones life and set one free in all spheres of life.

Focus – Once one’s mind is locked on a purpose, the focus becomes sharper. I began sharpening my writing skills though study and engaging in writing on a daily bases five years a go. Since then, these efforts have not only become my second nature to read and write about anything and everything I lay my eyes or hand on; these efforts have paid off beyond my wildest dreams even though I had no grammar school background and never hardly touched literature books before.

Train – A donkey is my favorite domestic animal and for a very good reason. A donkey is versatile, resilient and obedient most of the time anyway unless mistreated. A lady in the neighbourhood who retails and sells maize in small quantities to individual families, maintains her supply and stock, by hauling in two or three bags of maize on her donkey. Of interest in this context is the story that gets told, how this donkey will walk back home on its own because it has been trained and has mastered the route The story gets better, the donkey also carries a pack of money in notes form inside a manila sack wrapped around its neck. This is a safety precaution incase some guys get smart to rob the woman.

We too can reprogram our servomechanism to Positive Mental Attitude. However, one must also take safety precautions walking that road that the measures taken do not become stumbling blocks instead of blessings. Changing the routine may be difficult, but not impossible. In the same way, changing our negative self attitude to a positive self may take time but it is possible, if one desires and choose to train in that line.

(f) Nature show the way

I stood waiting for public transport to our home town the other day as a teenage mother of three walked by. There was reason to believe the three little bundles of joy were hers. But I had to ask,

“Tell me, are these kids yours?” said I. In my culture, such a question is as normal as breathing fresh air. In a different community and culture I’d be hesitant to ask a similar question, even though it may sound harmless and legitimate. “Yes indeed they’re” she enthusiastically replied. But the next thing happened, which literally garbled and held my attention for quit a bit. Shortly after the three kids walked by, the mother carrying the youngest, the other two boy and girl aged around 3 and 5 trotting along, the way. The little one seemed anxious to get down and do some of her own walking instead of enjoying the free piggy back all the way home, a hundred yards from the main road. It is only logical that the mother carry and protect the little one along a busy road. She also could use some breathing space heaving the young girl all the way from the nearest shopping center nearly two kilometer away.

The moment the souls of the little girl’s feet touched down, she was floating with excitement to walk. In that ecstasy, she stumbled and fell. Institutively, the mother reached out to lend a hand, which the young kid flung away suggesting she needs her space to do her own thing, alone unaided.

Watching these events unfold with curiosity and interest, the search engines of my memory sprang into action spooning something I read earlier by Joyce Meyer in the column ‘Living Well’ in our local dailies entitled ‘Stay Positive, Refuse to Give Up’ “When a baby is learning to walk, he/she falls many times… wrote Joyce. However, the baby is persistent. He/she may cry for a while… but he/she always gets back up and tries again.

On this mid morning, nature showed me a practical side of life, which is not only true of kids but also adults as well. Without overstating the obvious, adults could learn life’s simple lessons to strive to have a positive mental attitude to combat challenges, we would live stress free lives and in a clean environment.

(g) Failure Vs Success

Failure isn’t necessarily a bad thing in itself. However, that depends on what is one’s perception. If one lets negative thoughts ride him through the storm of doubt, failure stares at one on the face through and through. However if failure helps one to shift through the rubble of confusion that was his or her life and find a footing then success comes into sharp view. Either way it boils down to one’s self image. Negative feeling and attitudes towards self and others, lead to failure are always going to be a part of life, it how one handles these emotions that makes the difference in the long run

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both

In the day to day interaction with people particularly members of my local community, I have come across and know people whose lives can change for the better, if they had a good self image and esteem of themselves. Below are a few that I have earmarked to try and make contact with a view to helping see the need for a positive self image.

a) The wife of a pastor in a local congregation church, where I live has too much weight problem. This is causing a lot of friction between the two and I have often been called to help smooth things over as a friend of the family. I’d like to try and get the wife to read one of these books if that would help restore effective communication for the two to discuss the issue and try and work out a solution because their communication on the subject with husband has hit a dead end.

b) A friend and a colleague in the ICT sector has a problem with alcohol that’s literally wrecking his life and has caused him two marriages already. I have been at pains trying to talk him to take drastic steps to change his life without little success. Now that the books are here, I can use some of the principles and examples to help guide him out this mess. He genuinely wants to but he keeps going back because of bad company.

c) Communication – A friend and I have recently started a blog on the internet for a local community meet up to share problems and challenges that face the region. We trust this will help bring the young people to a round table discussion where they can express their opinions without fear of victimization.

d) These two last books have literally transformed my personal life. Since I started reading them, the light at the end of the dark tunnel of my life is glowing brighter everyday as I practice the principles suggested in the book. I would like to share some of these thoughts either in writing or verbally giving local examples to the young people in this local community they can identify with. The ultimate is to encourage and challenge a few youths at a time, who in turn would do the same to create a ripple effect of transformation of other young people’s lives in this region and beyond to bring healing in a country torn apart along tribal line.

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.

A number of quotes stand out that have been of great help and inspiration to me reading this book. Particularly of great interest were the quotes on the servomechanism: the Mind. Here are a few of them and they are many

Maltz Wrote, “each of us carries a mental blueprint or picture of ourselves. In fact it may not be consciously reconcilable at all. But its there, complete down to the last detail.” I couldn’t agree more, one’s self image, which originates from the mind determines his actions and shapes the future. This is the hidden personally of the human anatomy clothed in a body, the one and only one real one. Life vicissitudes can and may put a dent on the body but it won’t crush a person’s mind if the person chooses to think positively at every step of life.

“The Mind: Automatic Guidance System…” This is one part of the human body that never takes a break, goes to sleep or on vacation anytime. However, tired one is, the brain continues to churn out and synthesize myriad thoughts in trying to make sense of the world around and how one can cope. We just don’t use it well enough particularly in bringing the left and the right side of our brains to work together.

“Anything that has been learned can be re-evaluated and challenged. Anything that has been challenged can be “relearned” with a new data to replace the old.’ This further indicates the superiority of mind over everything else in living a successful life.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

“Fake it till you make it,” this is one phrase that I have a problem with in the whole book. The word fake conjures a notion of unreal. How can such transforming life principles be faked, I have difficulty with that word within this context of importance of Psycho-Cybernetics. However, to help me assimilate the concept without negativism on my part, every time the phrase comes up its canceled and replaced in my mind with a more pragmatic one’ Believe it until you make it.’ Perhaps its just me, but I would rather believe than fake these principle.

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 7
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9

Giant Steps

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea of the book is expressed and summarized through the book’s title ‘Giant Steps – Small change to Make a Big Difference. Anthony Robbins, the author of this book explores each of these ‘Giant Steps in each of the twelve chapters starting with ‘Dreams of Destiny to the ‘Ultimate Gift in one’s achievement of success in lire. In between, different chapters act as the building blocks.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

A number of fundamental ideas to achieving one’s ambition in life leap out, grabs ones attention a drags one to read through the book. Here are seven of the many that were of immense importance rant to me.

Dreams that wont go Away

These were triggered by the author prompting to take a moment and dream about what I really want in life. In response, I couldn’t think of anything in the whole wide world I’m passionate and at home doing then creative writing. Perhaps that’s because there are no gurus in this field. Every last creative writer sets his/her own goals then follow through to achieving them. Oh there is the usual grammar, spell check, and principles of communication to take into consideration. But all these pale in comparison to the heart fulfillment one derives from the exercise. As far back as I can remember, all I ever wanted is to put pen to paper and share my thought, experience with others and make sense of the world around through creative writing.

Shooting for the Stars

On decisions and goal setting, the author presents one of the most exciting and challenging exercises to stimulate the readers in asking the all important question,

“If you had no financial limitations, what are some of the things you’d like to have and experience?”

Instead of the five minutes set time for the exercise, I got lost in a world of my own imagination and fantasy.

If I had no financial limitations, I’d travel; see the world as I write drawing from past and present expereices and dreaming of the future. I’d also have a local rural community fm radio station on air run by a team of trained dedicated self motivated staff reaching homes and hearts of thousands of the local folk with simple messages of hope for self improvement and personal development. Then I’d love to live a comfortable life with a little extra money to spend on others without feeling awkward. I’d definitely continue doing volunteer work like there will be no tomorrow. This provides me with relief from stress and opens the gate valves of my skin to breathe liquid air and make my heart pump so loud.

But above all else, I’d diligently study to sharpen my wring skills devour every page of the Bible, journals, good novels and every last self improvement book, I lay a hand and eye on.

In one phrase, I’d shoot for the stars.

Improving My Serve

Another one of contribution goals set out in the book which greatly ministered to me is the existing opportunity to make a mark by creating a difference in other people’s lives.

Taking up public speaking engagement for example to motivate young men and women in this county to think talk and walk success is one area of priority am considering improving my serve. High school is the best place to motivate the youth as they prepare to enter a harsh world of cut throat competition in every sphere of life, where only the fittest survive.

Kenya youth could certain do with a little motivation to steer clear of tribal inclinations and animosity to build a united nation where citizens live and work in harmony for the good of the country, instead of the being incited by tribal chieftains and village heroes/heroens to engage in acts of violence as the country witnessed during post election violence of 2007 over disputed presidential election results. The youth don’t to be need reminded by song lyrics to wake up; they need to be self motivated.

The ultimate success formula discussed in the book brought to mind memories of the steps to good writing as a career.

a. Precise – There is no better place or field in which precise is an essential ingredient as in creative writing. The economy and choice of words that create a mental picture in the mind of the reader cannot be over emphasized. Such is true in writing and other disciples.

b. Actions
“Actions speaks louder than words, the old adage goes. The Bible’s admonition in James 1:22 is more precise and to the point.

“But ye be doers of the word and not hearers only.” It is not enough desiring to success in one’s preferred field, one has to take action to practice, read and practice some more particularly in the case of creative writing to sharpen one’s skills, stay relevant, and widen one’s scope of understanding. The same is true in business, athletics and all other spheres of life.

c. Planning something to finer details is part of my old man’s teaching I remember him for.

“Son don’t work harder, work smarter,” dad always reminded me. In writing as indeed business or athletics one has to plan every detail. It took me awhile to get the hang of things, am still working on ways of organizing my writing materials, but the result of dad’s distilled wisdom of planning things to finer details, is paying off hugely. In writing, one must be absolutely clear in mind and see the article in its final; cop sometime before putting pen to paper.

Beliefs –

Observing human behaviour is one of my most fascinating pass time activities these days. Although for no other reason, other than trying to find reasons for and against certain human behaviors; I do it to make sense of the world around. Until one takes a hard long look at oneself, one will not understand others. This is what I had to do first by embarking on observing others.

Traditional cultural beliefs are at the core of most African progress. Our system is choking with don’ts with a few odd do’s here and there that are no match for the don’ts. Individual lives have been hampered and sometimes ruined because of paying too much attention to these beliefs. Some of these practices are retrogressive like widow inheritance. Time and space wouldn’t allow an exposition of one or the other in this paper. But reading ‘Giant Steps has helped me take a fresh look at the so called traditional beliefs that have shaped my life and to a large extent determine the way we all turn out in life. In my own way, I shall not let these good for nothing, outdated beliefs stand in the way to achieve my ambition in life.

Questioning Society Status Quo

Equation and questions are supposed to yield answers, like one plus one in marriage equals one. It doesn’t matter what system of calculation one applies, whether one is using new math of Spike Abacus or the logarithm of Carey Francis. However, most society status quo questions have no answers. This is the greatest undoing in one’s determination to achieve in the African traditional society. Kids grow up with skewed notions of what’s expected of them, no questions asked. By the time one is old enough to make one’s decisions, usually, one’s worldview is so impaired by society’s status quo, one can’t think straight. Until we old school generation come to a time of prayer and fasting to encourage the next generation to ask questions, however irrelevant and stupid the question may sound, we shall have made no indelible mark on the lives of the next generation.

Celebration of life

“Celebration of Life: is a catch phrase doing the merry go round on our local dailies in the obituary column of the departed loved one these days. Relatives and close family members in this county will go to great lengths to put down exemplary qualities their departed beloved one had or what he did. I find this rather disturbing (no pun intended), that we should spend time and resources on a supplement to eulogize someone, who may have badly needed that kind of money before and no one would give him to improve his/her life. This got me thinking of the question of one’s identity posed by Anthony Robbins in chapter 10 on the keys to an expanded life.

“What makes you different from all other people on this planet?” Perhaps the best person suited to write his/her own obituary is the dead person. He alone knows what he/she has seen heard, that is tucked away in his/her brain/soul more than anyone else. This also calls for a concerted effort from every last one to keep a journal.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way.

The ideas expressed in ‘Giant Steps’ have revolutionized, changed my world view on things and prompted me to take action to commit to put every last one of these ideas into practice (one’s I have not started using already).

The illustration of the honeybee on day twenty five is priceless and sums it all up for me.

“…the bee unknowingly gathers pollen on its legs, flies to the next flower and sets on motion a wondrous chain reaction that results in a hillside awash with color.” Once the issue of many years of dented self image and esteem was put on the shelf through Positive Mental Attitude, great doors of opportunity swung open. It isn’t so much the monetary gain that drives, though that is a good side to any undertaking; rather the real satisfaction of my heart comes in serving others. Two moths ago, a friend and I created an enabling environment for the rural youth to discuss through the internet. Today the number of members has risen to thirty nine and more are joining. This is truly encouraging. We are also discussing engaging the youth in the possibility of taking a stab at local video drama production; the first production is due in April. All these are as a result of the encouragement from reading self improvement books to create linkages and a ripple effect in the local community like the bee.

4. Quotes

A unique characteristic of this book ‘Giant Steps is in its use of pivotal quotes from renowned individuals. These quotes are really spot on.

“Nothing happens unless first a dream,” by Carl Sandburg sets the tone and tempo of the book in pointing out the importance of decision and goal setting. Perhaps to put it mildly, a dream is like a vision – the ability or instance of great perception especially of future development. To paraphrase McDougal in expressing similar sentiments, ‘One’s achievement is only limited by one’s dream’. That’s is where it all begins, like the Chinese proverb,

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step,” that first step in this case is the dream.

“Every great and commanding moment in the annals of the world is the triumph of some enthusiasm,” Ralph Waldo Emerson.

WEBSTER defines enthusiasm as “an intense, profound, and eager interest with a liveliness of imagination for object believed to be worth.” It is this eager interest that sets apart achievers in life. Today’s youth culture obsession with self consciousness seems a world away. Fundamentally, things have changed so drastically for the youth in the last forty year that it’s hard to pinpoint one thing as the main cause of these changes.

Social, economic, and political upheavals have ushered in a new dispensation in youth orientation, in which fashion, music, social behaviour and media hype focus attention on the youth as never before. But the one thing that has revolutionized youth culture more than any other is the advent of ICT. Any youth worth his/her salt has at least a mobile phone, has access to the internet, is a member of several groups (face book being one), and is a regular contributor to in one of the blogs. In a world where the youth are enthusiastic of this new technology therefore make full use of it. This is one cheque the youth are cashing in every bank around the globe.

“Imagination is more powerful than knowledge,” Einstein. I can only speak candidly of my own situation, it wasn’t for imagination, I’d be at a loss in creative writing.

“One can’t help but be in awe when one contemplated the mysteries of eternity of life, of the marvelous structure of reality,” Albert Einstein. This quote by Einstein probes the mystery that’d called ‘life.’ One could devout page upon page by breaking this statement into segments and looking at the word contained therein to get more insight into the true meaning of this statement. A quick glance reveals two key sections ‘eternity of life (future) and ‘marvelous structure of reality’ present. But without the past, there would be no present, and without the present, the future would be non existent. One thing comes across fairly strong, the existence of a supreme being (God) who spans the eternity of life, the one who put together the marvelous structure of reality.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 9
C. How easy was it to understand? 8
D. Would you recommend it to others 9
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8

How to Win Friends & Influence People
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

I. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea expressed throughout this book is Human Relations and its effects on success.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

Reading Self Improvement alongside Spiritual Devotional book, has not only been a double blessing but the challenges each poses compliments than contradict one another as many would have us believe. Human Relations affect every sphere of us like from family, finance to politics and economy of a country to name a few. Listed below are just some of the many areas human relations tend to affect if most but more than the others. Here’s an example:-

i. Finding Fault
In Selwyn Hughes Devotional Book, ‘Everyday With Jesus – Treasure for the Heart,’ a whole chapter running over sixty days period is devoted to the Lord’s prayer. There are a number of intriguing points in this priceless little book, but the one in connection with Dale Carnegie’s second principle in the book ‘How to Win Friends & Influence People,’ is pegged on the word “Our,” in the prayer. In the words Hughes,

“We will never get far in prayer unless we come to it prepared to sacrifice self interest…” how so true this ties in with the numerous examples Dale gives. Giving honest and sincere appreciation to others than finding fault goes along way to making and maintaining a health and hearty human relations in any field or sphere of interaction.

Recently, a young man came round to where I was laboring typing away filling a form for a youth group am involved with for a grant. John glanced at one section of the form and kindly made a suggestion that sounded so intelligent, I thought for a moment he should have been a genius. He then literally blew my mind away by his insights into the subject of dealing with young people which I thanked him profusely for. But that’s even before I read this book. Now in hindsight, I can see how the simple sincere thank you is dolled out to John made such a difference. He was more than willing and sit through hours with me to help fine tune the document, all because none of his suggestions was on fault finding.

ii. Power of Praise

“Don’t Criticize, Condemn or Complain.” These words lifted off one of the authors principles to win friend and influence people are invaluable. Several years ago, an article I wrote entitled ‘Dialogue of the Deaf’ for a local magazine was published, in which I emphasized three hindrances of communication in common everyday life. Here one statement in the three paragraphs,

“Anger has a great power of destruction…more hurtful than the injury that prompted it.” Today, if I were to rewrite this article, I’d change a lot of thing in light of Dale’s principle: “Don’t Criticize, Condemn or Complain.” Not only does the alliteration works out beautifully in this trio, there a lot more to learn from these three stooges. Instead one would be wise to replace these words with a simple word “Praise.” Praise is the magic word in human relations. Benjamin Franklin, one of America’s great leaders put thus,

“I will speak ill of no man…and speak good of a everyone,” that is distilled wisdom

iii. Superior Smiles

Once I had an appointment with a staff member of a local NGO working with farmers in the local community. One Monday morning I arrived for the appointment and had to wait for the man for a while. I always carry a book or something to read while waiting to be served or queuing in line for something. So I put my head around the next office to explain my mission and kindly ask if there is a place to sit on as I while away time. Two things happened that day. One Christine, the lady seated behind the computer table had such a smile on her face that could light knock off one’s socks. Not only did she enthusiastically welcome and find me a place to sit, she actually brightened my day with her smile. I made sure I told her so before leaving. On my second visit, she must have heard or noticed my presence and she came around to say hallo. She is not only a smiling face she does have a heart for and patience to serve. This is something Dale greatly encourages for business persons in one his chapters. This is what I have chosen to call – Superior Smiles.

iv. The other Person’s Point of View.

“It is the individual who is not interested in his fellow men who has the greatest difficulties in life and provides the greatest injury to others.” Adler.

“If there is any secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see something from the person’s angle and as well your own.” Whichever way one looks at human relations, bottom-line, the other person’s point of view countless a great deal in every life interactions, the basis of Dale principles in ‘How to Win and Influence People.’ Henry Ford,

v. Talk of Other People’s Interest

“Talk to people about themselves,” This quote from Disraeli one of the leading lights in England has a lot to say about human relations. If one wants to generate a lively and hearty conversation with a friend or influence others to see things in a different light for change, the secret is to engage the other person’s interest on the subject matter. This kind of approach will work wonders in a short time and has long term effects on friends and other people.

vi. Leadership

“We Lead Others Follow.” This is the catch phrase on the rear windscreen of one of the local transport bus companies in Kenya. Rummaging through the last chapter of the book brought a fresh memory to this phrase. It also got me thinking which kind of leadership the bus company is advertising.

One only hopes that the company’s kind of leadership isn’t autocratic or laissez faire, but democratic in nature, both on the road and in the office management. Only democratic kind of leadership is characterized by consultative decision making in which the leader plays a guiding role. Carnegie devotes a huge chunk of the volume on leadership because it is the cog that turns the wheel of fortune in business and oils the rusty joints of human relations in everyday life.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way.

Making other people feel important is a key cornerstone in winning friends and influencing people. One can’t go wrong using this principle in al spheres of life. In the Bible this principle is summed up in Jesus’ teaching,

“Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.” This is a simple straightforward statement, yet one that least practiced in real life situations, one that I intend to use to the maximum to bring change to this tribal ridden country of Kenya, starting from the local community I live in.

4. Quotes

Never once had a chance of reading a book with so many magnificent collections of quotes from people who have mastered the fine art of human relationships as ‘How to Win Friends & Influence People’ by Dale Carnegie. Perhaps, rightly, Winning Friends and Influencing People is at the very centre of success which hinges on human relations.

“Education,” said Dr. John G. H. former President of Princeton University, “is the ability to meet life’s situations.’ This quote comes fairly early in the preface of the book both as a warning and worrying concern. Often fold particularly (young people) view education merely as a means to get money or rich quickly – the get rich quick syndrome. In that sense, education is a worrying concern. Others, probably the more elderly persons go after education to bolster their positive standing and improve communities and countries of their origin, in that respect, education fits the bill to meet and solve life’s situations.

Hans Selye, another great psychologist said, “As much as we thirst for approval, we dread condemnation.” The two words, “approval,” and “condemnation,” are like poles, they repel at each other. It is hard for one to do both approve and condemn in the same breadth without causing another persons heart injury. Yet it is so easy for many of us to condemn than approve, as a result human relations within a family, work or social are always tenuous. A number of examples come to mind. A workmate Mr. Wesley and I couldn’t get along despite the numerous trials and attempts on either one’s part including our superiors. For some reason or rather, Wesley felt I wasn’t honorable enough addressing him on any issue. He felt I had to literally beg for permission to make decisions in duties under my jurisdiction. There was always bad blood between us. Finally, I could take any more of it; I resigned, simply because I didn’t know any better in dealing with such a situation. That was a wasted opportunity but it did provide me with a great learning experience in life.

“There’s nothing else that kills the ambitions of a person as criticism from superiors,” – Schwab. Although criticism can be both constructive and destructive, the later is more harmful than the former in many instances of human relations. However earnest, destructive criticism is undeserved in life.

Growing up as a young lad, mum and dad wanted nothing but the best for me. Only the two didn’t know any better than to scold and call me names. Not only was this devastating at the time, the long term effects were more destructive. It took a real effort on my part later to forgive my mother for repeatedly saying,

“I buried a human being and left the placenta,” referring to me in connection to what she perceived as clumsiness. That sentence alone did more harm than good in my entire life growing up.

“If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see thing from that person’s angle as well as your own.” These words from Henry Ford, a man whose success in the automobile industry depended on other people’s contribution speaks volumes, one his trust on other people’s judgment on his business. The other is humility. Instead of acting the ‘Boss-man’, who is always right, he doubled in the two roles of servant and master beautifully. Not many high and mighty men can juggle these two positions successfully, yet Henry Ford’s example is a showcase of his ingenuity.

Prof. James V. McConnell, a psychologist at the University of Michigan says,

“People who smile tends to manage teach and sell more effective and raise happier children.” Two striking priceless values in life come to light in this sentence. One, a genuine smile will do wonders at home and at work. In Kenya where a lot of folk enter into business simply on the basis of carving a niche for themselves, not many of these people pay attention the best ways of handling clients, as a result, dozens of these businesses wind up due to poor management skills. Sometimes the loss of revenue may not put a big dent on the entrepreneur’s bank account, but there are far reaching effects to the individual, which also spreads into one’s family relations, community and country.

Similar sentiments expressed by Prof James are echoed in the ancient Chinese proverb,

“A man without a smiling face must not open a shop.” Add Dale Carnegie’s piece, “Your smile is a message of your good will,” and the jigsaw puzzle is complete,

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes, relatively few in comparison with twin book by Dr. Dyer – Real Magic, but that is the beauty and uniqueness of the individuals.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 10
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it 10

Real Magic
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea of this book ‘Real Magic’ is Purposefulness in Life.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

“Miracles happen because one happened to me.” These are the lyrics of the refrain of an old gospel tune, which stroke a chord in my life years ago. Today these words are more than a fine tune and well thought through words of a song by a composer. The words have come to mean literally what they say in my life presently particularly in reading this book.

i. Miracles
The Bible and other books are laced with essence of life of miracles that happened to individuals. I have a few of my own I tacked away in the secret corner of my theatre of imagination and written down in my journal. Here is an excerpt of one from the journal of these miracles:

Not long after I came out of a two week comma following a severe bout of malaria, my nights became a constant stream of dreams. Hardly a single night passed in which I didn’t encounter a relative, particularly those in the families who have passed on. But the one I remember most is the one about my guardian angel. In the process of recovery my mind constantly drifted between dreams, anxiety and unbidden voices from a world.

In the vision a bright light illuminated the cube my energy drained body curled up on the hospital steel cold bed. I couldn’t recall the time or day. I had practically lost tract of time during this period. Suddenly, the intrusion of this powerful bright light jolted me from a deep sleep. Standing by the bedside was a lovely young blonde of about thirteen. She wore a spotless white blouse over a flowing silk skirt touching he toes. Her face shown like that of the one describe in the Bible of Moses when he came down carrying the Ten Commandments from God. Stunned and dumbfounded, I watched this magnificent sight with awe and wonder, mine eyes riveted on the blonde for what seemed like eternity. She just stood there and watched over me without a word but with a smile that could light up the world. Out of the blue, she disappeared the same way she appeared.

From that day on, I have relived the experience in my memory many a time, more so when darkness of doubt and fear assail me as it does so often as the miracle plays back in the theatre of my mind.

ii. Relax, Surrender and you’ll pass through the gate\

In college, I needed one extra credit hour for graduation. There were few one hour courses available that intrigued me. One of my interest had been taken. Swimming, the one I dreaded most was the only one remaining on the list.

Grudgingly, I enrolled in the course. The first day of this session, I nearly passed out because of fright at the pool side. All along the fear of mass of water had presented a huge challenge that stood like a sore thumb in my life. There was also the big size of the class and the instructor wouldn’t bother much with people like me who had more obstacles to overcome before taking these exercises. I therefore had to involve and pay a friend to tutor me privately. This involved paying for two at a private pool, plus lunch or and a drink. Despite the pain of extra payment, I still couldn’t gear up to simply float on water as the combined efforts of my private and course tutor indicated.

“Relax and you’ll float, “Malya, my private tutor repeatedly told me during the private sessions. But no matter what I did; I still ended up taking gallons of water.

One day Malya said, “Collo you’re not willing to learn.” That did not go down well with me. “Oh how do you mean?” I responded with a tinge of defensiveness in the tone of voice. “The secret is to surrender, relax and you’ll float.” She then gently drew me closer, held and took me to the deep end of the pool and announced, “Now here is where it begins,” said she. “Just like that huh,” I said not certain she meant to drown me in the process.

“Alright to help concentrate, close your eyes, let your guard loose and imagine seeing yourself floating. Desperate and time running out, I took her up on her advise this time round and viola, the water took me up on its teeth and held me afloat. I wanted to relive this experience for long but Malya tapped me on the shoulder and when I opened my eyes, she beaming with joy, mine own stinging with tears of excitement, I had passed through the gate of the thirty hour one credit course, on my way to graduation.

iii. The teacher will show up when the student is ready.

Visiting with a friend one afternoon, Frank my host pulled out a suitcase full of books from under the bed in his ten by ten feet apartment.

“A friend left some books her with me, would you like to read some and return soonest,” he said placing a dozen alligator volumes on literature on the table. All along, I had the fire burning my belly to sharpen the tools in creative writing. This had almost turned into an obsession, yet I had not books and money to buy them. Thumbing through one I couldn’t conceal my excitement the heart doing summersaults, the air around warm I knew beyond any shadow of doubt I had been ready along time and the teacher had shown up.

iv. Cool, Calm and Collected

Cool, Calm and Collected is the catch phrase that did the merry-go-round among us teenagers in the late eighties early nineties. This idiom was used to describe a lady one admires, or has gone out with, and is so damn proud of the conquest.

Although this slogan mostly referred to conquest in the physical realm of life, the same is equally true in the spiritual sense, if one wants and chooses to have a different mind set other than the usually prohibitive negative one. It is hard but not impossible to shift one’s gears in one’s mind to control one’s thought and destiny, not by outdated demonstration like outburst due to anger; but by controlling one’s mind.

My entire adult life has been lived on the dictates of the physical at the expense of the spiritual, until I gave in to the spiritual on unnecessary worry and cares of life about wants, which seem to plaque me with each passing moment in life. And when I did, although with much apprehension from the physical department, the result as it is and continues to be nothing short of magic, real magic miracles every step of the way now.

v. Seeing is Believing

Whoever came up with the axiom, Seeing is Believing,” only stated the obvious. Human beings are creatures of sight. What one sees appeals more than what are in the realm of invisible. No wonder the Bible cautions about actions due to the demands of the physical body brought about through the eye.

The difference between visible and invisible is so pronounced many only live in the sphere of eh visible. A case in point is the attraction between the sexes, male and females. Often, men who take the leading role in initiating a conversation on most relationships, romantic or otherwise, go by what they see, rather than what they don’t or think. The physical world of things is so domineering that it dominates and controls most of our actions.

However, that is not to say there are no people guided by the spiritual – the soul. They may be relatively few in number, but they are there all the same. One only hopes that a few more would follow through the spiritual line of guidance than the physical to create a better and bigger world, where brotherly love abounds in sharing available resources, without the urge to dominate and subdue others.

vi. There’s A Hero

Mariah Carey, the legendary Diva who penned the lyrics of the hit single ‘Hero,’ in one of her debut albums, may or couldn’t have exhausted the subject of heroism that’s within one. But she certainly draws ones attention towards that direction if one listens carefully not only to the lilting rhythms, but also the meaning behind the lyrics of this song.

Every last one of us posses the power to change for the better or worse, should one choose and want to. All it takes is taking a close look inside one in the words of this song composer, arranger and singer. One doesn’t need external powers to say for example, quit detrimental humdrum habits like smoking, abuse of alcohol, drugs and substance. The power is right then to plug onto. My dad and I both had our lives wrapped around smoking, her chain smoker, I trying out as teenager at one time. We quit when we both each wanted to by looking for the power to do so from inside. The ability to achieve the impossible is available to every one who cares to reach within to find a hero, as Mariah Carey beautifully puts in rhythm and words in the song ‘Hero.’

vii. Gandhi

Gandhi isn’t just a classic movie. This motion picture has inspired countless leaders the world over. Watching the move Gandhi, main character played by Ben Kingsley, one gets the idea that great changes in one’s life, community, or country is not the result of extraordinary people in society (although they are), but ordinary people who have taken and transformed simple ideas like Gandhi’s nonviolence to great movements that rocked and brought down the British rule of that country.

It is many years that I watched this one classic and the sheer simplicity and effort of this man Gandhi is awesome to say the least. One can’t help but think of present leaders like President Barrack Obama of the USA who defied the odds in his background to become the greatest leader of all time, by shifting gears of though in his mind not only to improve himself as a person but his community and great country. It starts in the mind, in the sub conscious, the seat of one’s will power to change one’s direction and people in life. Gandhi’s was characterized by meditation and so mine is going to be.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way?

Nearly to decades ago to this date April 20, 2010, an overwhelming feeling came upon my heart, which had been buffeted for years by among other things lack of this or the other. If I didn’t engage in endless activity, farm work on the one hand, reading on the other, in between working with a group of youth, depression would have set in.

All along I thought I had a grip on reality and life but I was only deluding myself for without faith in God nothing really works and matters. There are times I even began to doubt I truly had that encounter with the Almighty. But the inner prodding provided the needed encouragement of the spirit to soldier on. The brightness of this light has been fanned by reading Real Magic Miracles by Dr. Wayne and finding a footing and place in that special theatre of the mind to control thoughts that are locked away and use them to improve self and others through sharing them on a one to one basis or whenever opportunity comes my way in the local community.

4. Quotes

A number of quotes stand out in the book ‘Real Magic by Dr. Wayne worth noting.

“If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live, they’re which he has imagined; he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” Beautiful words from Thoreau, one who has tried, tested, trusted in his dreams and lived as he imagined. Success comes at the end of the line. It is dreams that are the driving force to success. Unfortunately, a lot of folk have their priorities reversed, they think success first, yet without dreams to get them there, their lives become inconsistent with their imagination and the result is frustration.

“The soul never thinks without a picture.” This sentiment expressed by Aristotle, one of the great thinkers of all times was true then as they are now. It is in the mind that great inventions are wrought in picture form as one ponders over a new innovative idea of something significant and unique, one builds a mental picture of the exact replica of the same long before it comes through the assembly line

“There’s only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving and that’s your own self,” I couldn’t agree more with the author on this sentiment. It is only me and I alone who knows the weaknesses standing in the way of your success. Equally true is the only person who has the power to change in these areas is you or me as the case may be. In the words of James Allen, the author of ‘As A Man Thinketh So Is He,” the mind is bedrock of all successes and failures in life.

“Our bodies are our gardens, to which our will are gardeners,” Aldous Huxley. As one closely involved with training work this creates a mental picture of growth and self actualization of students/workers in my mind and how the tender loving care of threes materials/handouts yield a good productive worker. I couldn’t put better than He did.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes, plenty and very challenging and helpful.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Rating

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 8
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it 10

Goals
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

I. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea expressed by Brian Tracy, the author of ‘Goals,’ is how to set one’s goals and achieve them in life. However, one has to start somewhere to unlock that potential within – that somewhere is “a burning desire” to attain what one wants in life – the fire in the belly as someone puts it.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

i. Aims

As the old adage goes, “He who aims at nothing hits it all the time.”

The reverse can be said of one who has eyes locked on a particular purpose in life, is clear about regardless of the seeming obstacles standing on the way. The seeming obstacles are merely challenges to help one navigate one’s way to the top.

Goal setting is shrouded in mystery based upon myths. In this book, Brian demystifies and gives down to earth practical ways of setting goals.

Aristotle observed that, “the ultimate purpose of all human actions is the achievement of personal happiness.”

ii. Change

Alexander Graham once said,

“A man…owes very little to what he’s born with – a man is what he makes himself.” Similar sentiments are expressed by James Allen the author of the book, “As a Man Thinketh.” He said,

Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him.”

One of my past pet pastime activities for years before I came to a time of hunger and fasting was being in a perpetual condition of constant worry wreck before I could initiate a change in attitude to this limiting habit. I would worry just about anything under the sun from lack of money, confidence to poor self esteem among others. I had all kinds of worry all lining up at my door step every day. However hard I tried, and God knows I really did try without much success because I was doing it the wrong way round. In a word, I was my worst enemy for any meaningful changes until I embraced positive mental attitude towards life and things did change really drastically.

iii. Strategic Planning

One of the key issues in my area of working with local community members and youth is in strategically planning for productive activities that would improve their lifestyle as well as that of their families. In this book, Brian dwells on the topic giving pointed useful guidelines that I find invaluable.

There is an old saying “Well began is half done.” Doctors say, “Accurate diagnosis is half the cure.” These sentiments are not only applicable in professional fields; the same is true in one’s personal life improvement. However, before one gets a grip on reality in life, one must strategically plan the way forward. The author gives four basic simple steps that are the hallmark of achieving success in goal setting. Here they are, couldn’t help revisiting them to engrain the points into mind for everyday and future use:

a. Asking and answering the question “Where are we now? This is the first stage of gathering data to get a clear picture of the standing point of business or organization.

b. “Where would we ideally like to be in the future?” This second question helps to clear the air about future orientation, if things worked according to hooey, hiccup notwithstanding.

c. “How did we get to where we are?” In this question, the organization or business would be answering ‘What did we do right and what did we do wrong honestly?’ ‘What would we do differently?’

d. “What do we do now to get to where we want to go achieve our goal?”

iv. Benchmarking

Benchmarking is a key ingredient in determining whether or not a business is on course towards achieving its goals – chief among them making profit. The same is true of other areas of life, for example one must if one desires to make self improvement progress in life put in place measures one can use to evaluate one’s progress. It’s not enough to run a business without measuring how it progressing. The same applies for an individual who sets up to attain a certain goal in life, sometime there are several goals.

During the past three or so years, I threw my self into creative writing as the main goal to attain in life. Recently, I have had to measure my skills against others in the publishing industry. I have set to write two publishable article every month and a book in two years. Having done baseline survey and identified what areas and the potential I am set to test the waters starting end of this month submitting the article for consideration. This is going to be my litmus test measurement for progress in creative writing.

v. Farming for Fun and Finance

A decade or so ago, if someone had told me to consider a career in farming, I’d have told them to take a hike before making their life miserable. Then I was still bursting at seams with this and the other of what life had in store for me. Little did it occur to me to prioritize to put it more bluntly, set goals. Only until the inevitable happened and I had to take stock view the situation in life as it unfolds with eventualities at my door step, did goal setting take on meaning. Today am happy farming alongside other engagements for it provides the needed nourishment and exercise.

v. Plan of Action – Roadmap

“No one plans to fail but many fail to plan,” someone once said.

Stated another way, “Failing to plan, is planning to fail.” These words ring true around business corridors. In every situation, they echo the six P formula for personal and business improvement – “Proper, Prior, Planning Prevents Poor Performance.”

Twice I set up and run business in two different fields. The first one was ok, because I had a lot of help from a lady friend who helped me with financial maters. Five years down the line, I sold out at a fairly reasonable price to a friend who requested that I stay on a while and train his staff. This I gladly did at a fee of course. However the friend took little notice of the glitches and future expansion I had recommended. A year later, the laziness folded. We both had massive lessons to lean from that.

Second time going it alone on the strength of the success of the first one without taking into consideration all the details of prior planning it turned out as a recipe for disaster. Having invested a substantial amount of money from the sale of the previous business, I thought, ‘Ah now I‘d just sit back and count my gains. That was the biggest folly of overconfidence without proper planning and documentation of at each step the business went down in a thud. It hardly ever picked up, always limped finally had to call it quits to take stock and reevaluate what went wrong. Only I wish I had read this book by Brian. Since then I learn to lose gracefully. Next up I am gearing for a third business undertaking. This time round, I have the details on the activities worked to the digit with structures in place for just incase eventualities having read this book.

vii. Sky is the Limit

“There is no problem so big God cannot solve it,
There is no mountain to tall …,
If he carried the weight of the world upon his shoulders
Dear brother he will carry you through.”

The above are the lyrics of a contemporary gospel tune referring to God almighty. Yet it is interesting that these same words can be said of each of us. Obviously one cannot carry the weight of the world upon one’s shoulders like Christ did on His way to crucifixion, but one can to a certain degree by using our God given in born creativity to solve the problems in life, no matter how big or small they may be. These problems are man made, and are; subject to solution if one want and chooses to

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way?

Reading Tracy Brian’s book ‘Goals’ has opened a whole world of exciting understanding in my life. This book demystifies the subject of goal setting, which is shrouded in uncertainly for many. It also offers a practical step by step guide to goal setting, an invaluable tool for those whose lives revolve around setting SMART goals to help them improve and achieve their life desires. My own life and those whose lives rub off mine will never be the same again as I purpose to use the guidelines provided in this book to set new goals. Having read the book and done the exercises, am using the practical steps to rewrite my short, medium and long goals, and they’ve greatly improved my perspective of life.

4. Quotes

Opening every chapter of a book with a quote as Brian Tracy does isn’t only a brilliant idea; it also draws the reader’s attention and foreshadows the topic of discussion making the reader’s attention stay locked on the topic. Below are a few of the many that really appealed to me.

* “Realize what you really want. It stops you from chasing butterflies and puts you to work digging fold.” Once one’s mind is locked on self improvement in one or the other area of ones life, have goals clarified, and then one is set upon a path to achieve whatever one desires. Until then one is only running around in circles ’chasing butterflies’ in the words of William Moulton Marsden.

* ”Each day that you write down your list of ten to fifteen goals your definition will become clearer and sharper.” I couldn’t agree more on this with Brian. From the day I started writing my goals down, not only have the goals become clearer and sharper; my life has taken off to new heights and levels of understanding of what living purposely in life is. It is like a new whole world unfolding when one writes down goals everyday, so exciting, so captivating that all I think of as the hours of the day wore on are the goals I write every morning. They set my life a flame with excitement of what lies ahead to achieve in life.

* Albert Einstein said, “Information is important than fact.” Napoleon Bonaparte said, “Imagination rules the world.” Napoleon Hill said, “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe it can achieve.” The above three are powerful words of wisdom, spoken by men whose imaginations have changed the lives of many me included. Imagination is the seed that germinates and grows to maturity and changes the course of direction in life. “Without imagination, man is as good as dead,” this is my own.

* “Make every thought, every fact that comes into your mind pay you a profit…think of things not as they are but as they may be. Don’t merely dream but create.” This is priceless.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes, plenty and every last one is truly helpful and rewarding.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 10
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10

Keys To Success
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

Science of Personal Achievement is the main idea that runs through the book. Adoption and appropriate use of these 17 Principles of Success outlined in this Self Improvement Book by Napoleon Hill is a recipe or success in one preferred field.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

i. Brain Station: The Biggest and Best Data Bank

The two charts on pages 116 and 117 which diagram thinking process were a big challenge and a great eye opener. Not may people know or understand how the brain functions. Even among the few people who have come close to making these observations, none comes close to Napoleon Hills. Outlining the six departments of the brain and how each department functions in relationship to each other makes a lot of sense for those who choose and want to change their thinking patter to achieve success.

The single greatest hindrance to ones success stems from the brain – the mind. We all could do with an overhaul in the six department of our brain; the result would be nothing short of desirable. Cultivating and maintaining A Positive Mental Attitude for example has been the one thing that has given me my life back. Here’s how:-

A throbbing pounding headache woke me up one early morning in a strange land only to discover that my breadwinner had lost his job, imbalanced and stone cold poor. When one is in a similar situation, the tendency is to whine and whimper thinking.

“I shall never get over this one.” Believe it or not anyone can bounce back to life quicker than they went down, but it takes a Positive Mental Attitude to life that makes all the difference. I could choose to spend the rest of my life wallowing in self pity or turn this tragedy to triumph. I chose the later. Sounds simple to say that now, but the tuning point didn’t come easy. Like anyone else, I went through a difficult transitional transformation period from the past to the present, all taking place in the brain station – the mind, what the author of Cybernetics Book refers to as servomechanism.

ii. Definiteness of Purpose

In most third world countries, Kenya included, the concept of self improvement is relatively a new idea. The books on this subject are only starting to be available in the local bookstores. Even though, a lot of young people grow up with skewed notions of life partly due to lack of this vital relevant information, and partly because there is no one to drum up support for this important idea. Many of these young people simply drift along in life without a definite purpose or goal to achieve. A good number of them end up taking jobs they don’t enjoy doing, except for the end month pay cheques that they receive, but in reality they would do without these jobs. Still others wind up in careers chosen for them by parents. Of course the result has been nothing but disappointment for the individual, in turn because it affects one’s productivity and has far reaching economic effects for a country such as ours – Kenya.

Napoleon Hill sums it up well, “Our greatest precious natural resource is not our mineral deposits or beautiful forests. It’s the mental attitude and the imagination of people of every generation… Our real wealth is the intangible power of thought. I couldn’t agree more. Without definiteness of purpose, a country like Kenya risks stagnation due to lack of economic vibrancy, which can only be generated through definiteness of purpose in her citizens.

iii. The Mastermind Alliance

“No man is an island,” someone once said. One needs other people to stimulate definiteness of purpose and hence the need for alliances. But it starts with oneself.

I take the reading of these self improvement books offered in this course very seriously and try whenever possible to apply some of the principles right away in life. Once I settled on the definiteness of purpose to become a creative writer, I then began seeking opportunity for improving and sharpening the skills as needed writing. In the last five years, I have read more books, and written pieces intended for publication than all the years of my schooling put together. The next challenge, and I am still working on it, is to find available avenues to share these writings.

Drama forms the bulk of my creative writing, yet there are very few outlets opportunities in the few media houses in Kenya. Then I read chapter two of Napoleon Hill’s book on Key to Success and the answer to the question, ‘what do I do next’ became abundantly clear – from a Mastermind Alliance. Two weeks ago we started a group to act, shoot and produce my drama scripts locally. If I had not read the book, I’d be still twiddling my thumbs waiting for a miracle to happen.

iv. Turning Tragedy to Triumph

Jokingly, I often tell my friends that the best thing that ever happened to me is was my father becoming jobless. Most of them think it’s a hilarious joke but deep inside I know it isn’t. Only something like triple inability could jolt and put my life back on course from aimless drifting along life’s pathway without definiteness of purpose and a dream to achieve.

The second stanza by Walter Malone cited in the book under the topic of Attitude towards Defeat beautifully sums it all, but the fourth line in the stanza is the kind of punch line that has become the talisman I invoke whenever ear and doubt assail me.

Wail not for precious chances passed;
Weep not for golden ages on the wane;
Each night I burn the records of the day;
At sunrise every soul is born again.

v. Priorities Amidst Pressure

The inner life of every human being is a battle ground on which forces for good secretly contend against forces of evil. There’s an impulse to make ambitious plans for the future or drift lazily with the stream. However, the cure comes from ”prioritizing.” Under ‘Time Management on the Job’ the author suggests a simple yet priceless practical ways of prioritization. It doesn’t matter how many tasks one has to perform, the secret lies in choosing which one(s) to be done first, today, now, later depending on the emergency of the tasks before one.

vi. Budgeting your Time

“Time wait for no man,” the old adage goes. Studying the Bible side by side with self improvement books has been greatly helpful in reinforcing the principles advocated for on either side of the spectrum secular or spiritual.

In the epistle of Paul the apostle to the Ephesians 5:16, he writes, “Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.”

Although this verse of scripture primarily refers to the spiritual realm of life, nonetheless, it also has far reaching implications on the secular side of life. No one has more than twenty four hours in a day. The difference comes in one’s budget and use of time available. It doesn’t take a genius to realize how much time is wasted on mundane, unimportant and sometimes unproductive activities like gossip for example. If all this that talk time were to be properly utilized, every last one of us would make a difference in the local community, and society would certainly benefit.

I am reminded of a term in college, “firefighting” referring to students who were ill prepared during the course periods. These students, a majority would resort to burning the midnight oil towards the end of semester cramming for exams. Instead of diligently studying during the allocated course duration, these students would squander their time in activities that add no value to their education. The same is true of employees, whether self or not, failure to budget one’s time often result in undesirable outcomes.

vii. Going the Extra Mile

In my final year of college, I had extra free three months before graduation because of taking more credit hours earlier. I could seek job placement and chances were very good. Instead, I opted to do voluntary work, making PowerPoint presentations. The undertaking involved a bit of research, traveling, setting up and interviewing talents, all of which I had to do at my own expense. The management was only too glad to have me come, provided I sign up a contract to that effect.

Just before the end of the third month, a vacancy for the post of an assistant tutor fell vacant in the college and the director sought to know if I’d be interested. Unfortunately, I had to turn down the offer, because midway through the period, I had been approached by a different firm for a different post, which included a managerial position, something that suited me just fine.

Nevertheless, the college director handed me a handsome cherub at the end of my voluntary work, something I had not asked, or expected, simply because I was willing to go the extra mile. The rationale behind taking up the voluntary job was based on,

“I don’t get paid sitting idle. I also don’t gain experience in my preferred field, so why not give the time to voluntary work.”

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way?

“Everyone is a doorway to a community and every community a gateway to society,” the old axiom. “Everyone” here includes me. In reading and applying the seventeen principles of success Napoleon suggest, I am hoping to accomplish the following:-

Develop a vibrant personal environment that spurs productivity driven by positive values from within through A Positive Mental Attitude.

Inspire and work with as many young men and women as humanly possible to take stock of their lives and focus on their achievements whatever they perceive is of value to this beloved county – Kenya.

Lead by example – not to tell but show through action as in the idiom “Action speaks louder than words

4. Quotes

Several quotes intrigued me in Napoleon Hill’s 17 Principles of Success. Particularly of great interest were the quotes on the servomechanism: the Mind. Here are some of the many:-

“Opportunity is everywhere, but it is fleet of foot. Even if you have the vision to recognize it, without a fast decision on your part, it will be gone.” This statement echoes similar sentiments expressed in the old proverb,

“The early bird catches the worm.” Life is awash with opportunities for everyone. The difference lies with each individual.

“Know what you wish to say, say it with all feeling you command, and then sit down.” In public speaking lectures in college, students are given tips. That doesn’t mean that we communicate effectively. One lecture put it crudely,

“Stand up, speak up, and shut up.” One of the principles of communication states,

“Mastery of content is necessary foundation for effective communication.” Unless one knows what to say, how to say it and leave it there without being boring, effective communication is a pipe dream.

But the one that really tickled me to bits by Napoleon Hill cites keeping the fire of one’s enthusiasm running wild.

“Sometimes when the flames of hope dwindled to a flicker, I had to fan them with everything I possessed to keep them from going off.” He then goes to explain how he did it,

“Feed your burning desire with images of your successful self. Stoke its flames so high that they burn your seat, so that you won’t be able to sit back in your chair and take it easy when you ought to be following up on your work on the day before.” This is priceless distilled wisdom

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

No

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 10
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10

Law of Attraction

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea of the book is summarized through the book’s sub-title ‘The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don’t’.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

Although the Law of Attraction has been around or quite a bit it’s fairly a new concept among other self improvement method in third world countries, Kenya being one. Every idea presented in this book is important to me personally. However, for the purposes of this exercise, I shall mention only seven.

i. Definition

From the very outset, the definition of Law of Attraction is certainly a window into this scientific approach to solving situations in life. Prior to reading this book, I had no knowledge there exists a Law of Attraction around everywhere. Sure I gave my attention, energy and focus to whether positive or negative; thought that came to mind, but not in any organized or constructive way as Michael Loiser outlines in this book.

ii. Words are Windows

I feel so sentenced by your words,
I feel so judged, and sent away,
Before I go, I’ve to know,
Is that what you mean to say?

These are lines lifted off from the first stanza of Ruth Berbermeyer’s poem ‘Words Are Windows or They’re Walls,’ cited in the book. These line, speaks volumes of the importance of using words to communicate. Words are the expression of our inner thoughts and they convey positive or negative feeling in one’s heart. In any kind of writing words are the vehicles that transport the intended message. The same is true in everyday life. In the Law of Attraction, it works both ways, for the one pronouncing and the one receiving the words. The right kind of words (positive) will yield more of the same to the sender and receive. The more negative words one uses the more negative vibrations one sends out and so are the more negative vibrations surrounding the sender.

iii. Deliberate Vibrations

The three step formula outlined in the deliberate vibration are not only simple to master and use on an ongoing everyday life, they are also practical and easy to understand. Once one identifies a desire in step of the formula, the law of attraction will go to work by giving one more of what one gives attention, energy and focus to as explained in the second step. The third step is allowing it to happen – fairly simple and straight forward really, the good thing is that it works.

iv. Clarity of Purpose in Life

Achieving one’s desired goals in life require that one is clear on what goal(s) one is pursuing. This is easily achieved by contrast. The two case studies presented in the book of Janice and Greg on ideal relationship and financial situation respectively brought into sharp focus the important of using contrast in determining definiteness of purpose. These two examples, presented mirror images of my life and were greatly helpful not just as exercises for this assignment, but also they helped me sort out my life as far as these two areas are concerned.

v. Vibrational Bubble

Little did I know before reading this book there exists space around me where the law of attraction is at work known as the Vibrational bubble, and my life’s goals, dreams are outside of it until I am able to apply deliberate attraction to haul them into through sustained attention, energy and focus on my desire. Now I do and I am in the process of doing it everyday to reap the maximum benefits from the Law of Attraction.

vi. Desire Vs Doubt

Doubt is the antithesis of desire; it will kill it quicker than nurture it to maturity. In Journalism, upcoming writers are forewarned, “When in doubt, leave it out.” Reason for these warnings is many, chief among them based on the fact that reporting thrives on facts alone and nothing else. In our situation here in Kenya, post election violence of 2007 presidential election results was largely caused by doubt. The man at the helm of Electoral Commission of Kenya stated categorically during a an interview and I quote – ,

“I am not sure Kibaki won,” in reference to the incumbent president’s election results, later. This one sentence among other emerging issues, ethnic rivalry notwithstanding cost the country very dearly, both in terms of loss of human life, and property of unknown value. The same can be said of individual’s perspective to achieve success in a particular field In Christian circles, some men and women having received Christ as their personal savior and Lord continue to be afflicted by paralysis doubts, the kind that reflects the actions of Peter and Thomas both disciples of Jesus Christ. Thomas even got a second name out of doubt which has stayed and is used to date, ‘Doubting Thomas.’

vii. Walk the Talk

Women novel authors have a special place in my heart because they put feelings in the words they use to describe situations. They also send that same vibration to the reader. Words alone don’t mean much, unless they create the sensation of particular situations or events that resonates well with the bubble around the reader.

In the Law of Attraction and in writing, the focus is on opening, body and closings sentences of desire, more like the three point outline, a favorite in homiletics (preparation and delivery of sermons). Once the desire is expressed in the present continuous tense, proceeded by “I am in the process….,”the body statement is formulated from the clarity list while in the closing desire sentence becomes the unfolding of what needs to happen to bring one’s desire to realization.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way.

The ideas expressed in this book on the Law of Attraction have been a real eye opener. Although relatively new, the concept of life they portray is practical in everyday life situation and the effects whether positive or negative affects one, those around, community, country and indeed continent and the rest of the world in one way or another.

Having been introduced to the Law of Attraction for the first time reading Michael’s book, I endeavor to make the Law of Attraction become a central part of my life to change my world view and those around me, especially the youth of this country.

4. Quotes

Reading the different sentiments expressed by those who have read this book by Michael Loiser at the beginning, first, these sentiments sounded like a sales promotion. But having read the book I am thoroughly convinced they’re a true reflection of what the Law of Attraction, Michael offers in this book ‘Law of Attraction,’ offers. Here are some of them:-

* “Michael Loiser’s message will change the way you view yourself and others,” Mary Marcadante, speaker and author, indeed it does. Not sure anyone who reads this book with an open mind would miss to experience the force of the ‘Law of Attraction,’ all around in one’s life.

* “If you want to really understand why your life is the way it is…here is the instruction book and it’s in plain language,” Mark Foster, Wigan U.K. I’d say the same to anyone who cares to make self improvement in their life having read this book.

* “This book supports the proposition that simplicity is the best design. Short and simple, the author provided good working outline of the principles of the Law of Attraction and then provides exercises to assists the reader in utilizing them,” Antigone W, Reader. My own sentiments too. I couldn’t have said it any better.

* “It is not enough to merely identify your desire; you must also give it positive attention.” These opening words about the second step of the three step formula for deliberate attraction are not only true of the Law of Attraction, but also in practical everyday life. The reason teachers of special education for children go through a special training program is based on the kids attention span. Adults for example athletes must focus and lock their attention in winning long before they set foot on the track and field event. The same is true for every last one of us; the more attention one directs towards ones desire, the bigger and better the chances of achieving the same.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes, the two case studies cited in the book are a master piece of work

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 8
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8 1⁄2

Nonviolent Communication
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea the author is trying to convey in this book is Non-Violent Communication.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

i. Words are Windows

I feel so sentenced by your words,
I feel so judged, and sent away,
Before I go, I’ve to know,
Is that what you mean to say?

Although the lines of this poem appeared in an earlier assignment, they keep ringing the same tune of the importance of using the correct words in communication. A Chinese proverb says, “A word rushly spoken cannot be brought back even by a chariot for four horses.” Often times in the heat of the moment one may unconsciously or otherwise use violent communication only to regret having used those harsh words. Unwise rushly spoken words portray a lack of control and than what others see. Another proverb says, “Speaking without thinking is like shooting without aiming.” The Bible says, “A soft a soft answer turns away wrath.”

ii. Gift of Giving

Giving can both be rewarding and regrettable for either the giver or the receiver. Human beings are compassionate creatures by nature. But that doesn’t mean many are good at giving or does it imply that there are no impediments which stand in the way of compassion. Violent Communication is one major obstacle to giving from the heart. For example, children are a gift from God, yet the way some parents treat their children either through physical or verbal abuse leaves a lot to be desired. If gifts were retrievable, some parents would be denied custody of their children by the giver – God.

One of the hardest things that took me along time to come to terms with is the judgmental language; mum used to address me as a young lad. In particular; the one she often referred to me as a placenta.

“I buried a child and left the placenta,” she would remark in a fit of rage because I didn’t march up to her standards of doing things. Instead of giving me the benefit of doubt as a lad, mother’s mouth spewed scorn ridicule and abusive language. It took every effort imaginable in the world to forgive and forget but the scars lingered on because of the indelible impact the abusive language had on me as a child growing up.

iii. Communication Roadblocks

Someone has said that the reason human beings are given a pair of ears and one mouth is so that they may speak less and listen more. But we all know differently, the opposite is the case, a lot of folk have the gift of gab. Too much talk without concerted effort to understand the other person’s point of view is a recipe for disaster in communication particularly when violent and brutal words are in use. The following first four lines of a poem by Rosenberg the author of this book – Non-Violent Communication best illustrate the point.

“I can handle you telling me what I did or did not do and I can handle your interpretations, but please don’t mix the two.”

By way of definition,

“Communication is an exchange, a mutual sharing of thoughts, attitudes, emotions and information.” However, from above four line of the poem, something seemingly is a miss in the exchange. It is not hard to recognize from the feedback that the sender did not only observe, but also evaluated the situation, which led to this kind of reaction from the receiver. Words as vehicle of communication can be faulty, and unless observation tips the balance, communication can and will be counter productive. The combination of observation and evaluation in communication is likely to yield criticism which may or may not be the intention of the sender in the first place

iv. Identifying and Expressing Feelings

“Our repertoire of word for calling people names is often larger than our vocabulary of word to clearly describe our emotional state.” This observation on human language and use by Rosenberg, indicates how suppressed feeling and points out the importance of identifying and expressing tem to achieve one’s goal in a non violent form of communication, within oneself, with others or with a group of people. Building a vocabulary of words that express feelings that specifically and clearly name and identify emotions is one way of achieving this goal. Apart from that which is distinguishing between feelings and thoughts in communicating non violently. Allowing one’s vulnerability to feelings can and will also help in resolving conflicts in non violent communication.

v. Clarity in Communication

“The clearer we are about what we want, the more likely it’s that we will get it,” Rosenberg says. Clarity is important not jut in Non Violent Communication, but in other aspects of human life as well. For example in goal setting, clarity of purpose results in achievement of one’s goals in life. Vague and abstract language is not only confusing but also cumbersome and time consuming in the long run. There are of course other ingredients that go into making clarity a reality in NVC, positive language, concrete requests that call for action and when feelings are thrown into the mix NVC will establish relationships based on honesty that eventually fulfills everyone’s needs. These sentiments are clearly illustrated by the lyrics in the following song from Bett by Rosensberg.

“If I clearly understand,
you intend no demand,
I will usually respond when you call,
But if you come across like a high and might boss
you’ll feel like you ran into a wall.”

vi. Empathy and Sympathy

Just when is either empathy or sympathy appropriate to invoke? One is inclined to ask. These two words are world apart in meaning, yet are so often confused and used interchangeably without recourse.’ The result isn’t as always expected which only adds one’s frustration.

“Empathy is a respectful understanding of what others are experiencing.” However, the general tendency across the board in conflict resolution is to offer a quick fix it solution by offering advise and/or reassurance to explain our own feeling and position. While in effect, empathy requires that we simply listen for the others observations, feelings, needs and requests, allowing others to express themselves before we turn on the spotlight of solution to resolve the conflict. This is the kind of dose Kenyans need presently following the 2007 disputed Presidential Elections results that cost so much loss of lives and property of unknown value. Having a coalition government in place is a step towards the right direction, but it this does not solve the problem of deep gaping wounds of tribal animosity. Kenyans need to stop, breathe a sigh of relief from all the blood letting, give themselves empathy, scream non violently or take time out to resolve continued tribal tirades to avoid a repeat performance of post election violence of 2007.

vii. Anger

Anger has a great power of destruction but its calmed by a gentle word just as fire is quenched by water.” Someone once said,

“Do not act in anger, it’s like putting your ship to sea in a storm you will easily shipwreck your reputation before the journey is done.” Anger is more hurtful than the injury that prompted it. It is through anger one looses self control. One then justifies the action saying, it is done with reason, but it’s seldom a very good reason. This is the reason non violent communication is so important in conflict resolution. The Bible says,

“The fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.” Blame game and retaliation are superficial expressions of ones’ inner unmet needs. By expressing our needs we are far more likely to get them met than by judging, blaming or punishing others, the Kenyan style during election campaigns.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way.

All along, I was under the impression that mastery of communication principles is all one needs to effectively share one’s thoughts, ideas, emotions and information with others. Little did I know that words used as vehicles in sharing can be violent until I had the opportunity to read Marshall Rosenberg’s book on Non Violent Communication – A Language of Life. This is the first and only book I have come across on the subject, all which is presented is brand new and exciting and I intend to put these principles into good use in my everyday interaction with other people whenever there is an opportunity in doing so.

4. Quotes

A number of quotes stand out in this book. Here are a few of special interest to me particularly.

i. “Do not judge, and you will not be judge. For as you judge others, so you’ll yourselves be judged.” Holy Bible, Mathew 7:1. An Arabian proverb says,

“The camel never sees its own hump, but only that of another camel. We all have faults when it comes to our blind spots.”

A Danish proverb says, “Finding fault is so thick where showing love is.” Instead of criticizing, we should be showing more love, after all its love that makes the world go round.

ii. “Let us become that change we seek in the world.” These words from Mahatma Gandhi, a man who fully utilized Non Violent Communication to transform simple ideas into a great movement which wrestled the powers out of the British Monarchy to give India independence are relevant today as they were back then. Change is any aspect of one’s life is inevitable. Anyone who does not change with the times and trend in life is as good as dead. But real change takes place through one’s thoughts even in the use of non violent communication.

The Bible is more emphatic on change,

“Set yourself as an example in speech in your life, love and purity, keeping a close watch on all you do,” the good book admonishes.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes, plenty and every last one is truly helpful and rewarding.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 8
C. How easy was it to understand? 7
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8

Leadership For Dummies
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea of the book ‘Leadership for Dummies’ by Marshall Loeb and Stephen Kindel are trying to convey in their own words is, “The concept of leadership that relies on teamwork, and consensus building.”

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

Nearly, all the ideas expressed in this book are important because the focus on a new concept of leadership that is almost foreign in Kenya, where across the board it is top bottom approach. However, for the purposes of this exercise, here are the seven earmarked.

i. Transitional Leadership

This is the kind of leadership former Kenya’s second President Mr. Daniel Arap Moi started off with to ascent to state house. However, once he was in, he entrenched himself and put his infamous ‘Nyayo’ philosophy in place to rule Kenya for a record time of twenty four years. But it wasn’t that simple. Long before then, a group of politicians who were also eyeing the same seat should the President be no more had vigorously engaged in the succession campaign and were fronting for changing the constitution to fit their bill. It took one snort by former Attorney General Sir Charles Mugane Njonjo who wasn’t in that camp to push forward the article of succession to be enshrined in the constitution which enabled Mr. Moi to ascend to power. Perhaps he too had his own motives, but he saved the day upon the death of the first president of Kenya – Jomo Kenyatta.

ii. Visionary Leadership

One of Kenya’s undoing is to bestow a lot of power on the office of the President and give him leverage to appoint (sometimes without consultation), ministers, permanent secretaries, heads of Parastatals, ambassadors and the list goes on. In itself, the exercise is noble after all what else would usurp the President’s energy like trying to match right people with the right kind of jobs. However, the problems comes in two ways, one is giving jobs as rewards to families, business, social and political handlers. The other reason of course has to do with (in this era of coalition), who the coalition partners have put forward for a particular post, whether or not the person is competent isn’t the issue, coalition is about give and take. Many of the state corporations in Kenya managed by Presidential appointees have failed and run the country’s economy to near bankruptcy. The sugar industry, the dairy farmers – Kenya Creameries Cooperative, Kenya Meat Commission, most of these have gone under or are in receivership reason, lack of visionary leadership occasioned by the present political climate. It is not enough for one to be a leader, one has to have and share a vision of the field one is managing so as to clearly articulate the goals, mission and work towards achieving them – that calls for visionary leadership.

iii. Expectations

Most seminars, workshops, and sometimes trainings begin with expectations. Rarely does a facilitator jump straight into the subject of discussion without first finding out the participants’ expectations and indeed the facilitator’s and for a very good reason. Obviously no one walks into a seminar, workshop or training without any kind of expectation written, spoken or otherwise. Yet seldom is this a common practice in business in Kenya, or social clubs. One would say the employee’s job description spells out what is expected of one, the same should be communicated in writing of the employer.

However, fast growing companies are beginning to embrace this noble idea, first during the interview, later on at work once in a while once one is hired. However, so many companies don’t even bother leading to failure and huge losses of investment, which in turn retard the economic development of a country such as Kenya.

iv. A True Leader

Leaders emerge to fill a void to meet human needs at a particular time in a particular country or community. Kenya like any country in the world would do well to demystify myths about natural leaders shrouded in tribal chieftainship. Our political problems not to mention that the field is dominated by certain individuals/personalities, thrives on inheritance of leadership. Not only does this belief hinge on tradition, the cause of all our woes including the disputed 2007 Presidential elections results and land clashes all find root in this type of leadership model.

Presently, all the three major tribes in Kenya that carry the political clout rally behind a son of a war veteran or freedom fighter. The Luos have the Odinga’s, the Kikuyus, the Kenyattas, and the Kalenjins, have the Moi’s. It is hard for young people to develop and hone leadership skills in this political climate because most young people are locked out of the equation that yields leaders in Kenya – that of inheritance. But not all is lost with the world becoming a global village and information flying back and forth, now with the help received from reading such books by Marshall and Kindel the youth can be challenged to take charge and see themselves as real change agents and not pawns in the political arena or even being tribal chieftains.

v. Taking the Door Down

The example given in the book of Olivetti boss Mr. Debenetti taking the door of his office off so that people at the headquarters could walk in and out at will with problems, suggestions, compliments, complaints and whatever else made work interesting then and is indeed inspirational in many ways.

“People were exhilarated, encouraged, supercharged and mostly unthreatened,” to use the authors own words.

Most of the offices in Kenya, particularly government ones operate on opposite side of this proposition by Debenetti. Doors in most of our offices are usually all the time closed except when the boss is coming in and going out. Gaining entrance to a CEO’s office in this country is like trying to draw blood from a rock. This in turn creates a huge gap in management which slows down productivity and hence the economy of the country. If only we have a few like Debenetti, Kenya would make great strides in economic development.

vi. Accountability

Gideon, in the book of Judges in the Bible, presents a typical example of a leader who created a winning team. Although there is divine guidance involved in the exercise when choosing men and the number required to win the war against heathen nations, nonetheless as a person, Gideon had before that exemplary leadership ability. He took charge in stamping out the worship of ‘Baal’ among God’s chosen nation – the Israelites and elicited cooperation of ten men to do the job. Later on, we read in chapter six of the book of Judges that Gideon is entrusted with leading the nation of Israel to fight and bring down the kingdoms of Median, Amalek and purge the Israelites from the temptation of worshiping heathen images through these heathen nation’s influence.

Through out history there have been men and women who had such leadership abilities. They did not have to literally fight, but became change agents in their own countries for the better. Kwame Nkrumah of Ghana, Dr. Julius Kambarage Nyerere of Tanzania, Dr. Milton Obote of Uganda and Mzee Jomo Kenyatta of Kenya. All these leaders have passed on, but the leadership legacy that marshaled and rallied whole populations behind them enabled their countries to attain independence from the colonial yoke.

vii. Creating a Winning Team

In the long run, coalition government arrangement is not the best settlement in running a country such as Kenya, with as many as fort two tribes. When it is inevitable like in the case of the disputed Presidential election results, it provides the only available workable solution to forge ahead. But however earnest the principal party leaders are, there are always unresolved undercurrent issues which derail progress. Corruption is just one of the issues that keep coming up as a thorn in the flesh of the present coalition government, simply because accountability is lacking. Let me illustrate, anyone singled out on a corruption case seeks the support of the party of affiliation. Instead of viewing the situation as a legitimate concern for the country, one cries foul citing victimization and party affiliates take sides because one of their own is being offered as a sacrificial lamb on the altar of corruption. One only hopes that leaders see the sense to isolate and deal with the problem thus making every leader accountable on such issues of the country’s economy and to allow independent investigations whose findings would be made public, only then shall we as a country be able to turn around the downward escalating economy .

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way.

In Kenya today, there are thousands of youth and women groups which were originally formed to solicit funds, ask individual members their expectations, all one gets is a blank face – no sound expectations, basically clueless. This is a tragedy that often explodes sending members in different directions without a accomplishing much as a group. Not long ago, together with other like minded young people in the local community, we started a thespian group to come up with home grown scripted and acted drama video production for local consumption. Everyone was so fired up at the beginning, a month later the group hit a snag. The group’s priorities had changed, soliciting funds overtook the original idea which further complicated the matter all because as a group we did not map out the terrain by spelling clearly the vision, mission, goals and identifying possible sources of funds for this project. Reading this book on leadership has highlighted some of the mistakes I did as a leader fronting the formation of the group. Now I know better and will follow the principles laid in this book to work for us to achieve our desired goal in the group.

4. Quotes

Several interesting and challenging quotes appearing at the beginning of each chapter helped to break the ice and foreshadow the topic of discussion. Here are a few that really caught my attention.

i. “The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they find them, make them.” Holy Bible, Mathew 7:1. An Arabian proverb says,

Three things filter though these words of wisdom by George Bernard Shaw. They are contained in the phrases “get on in this world,” suggesting movement; “they want,” has to do with making the right choices and “make them,” is the outcome.

ii. “I find the great thing in this world is not so much where we stand, as in what direction we are gong.” Making choices aimed at enriching one’s life, succeeding in business or any other field of one’s interest is part of a leader’s job description. This to a large extent sets the focus on resources, plans, mission and goals and gives direction leading to success in the undertaking.

iii. “Your old men shall dream dreams, your young men shall see visions.” This verse from the Old Testament book of Joel 2:28 lays the foundation upon which the history of mankind is built on. “Old men shall dream dreams,” suggests looking back at life with spectacles of experience – sort of like flashback. “Young men shall see visions,” is forward look into life. Vision is what keeps one on track upon which the mission and goals are accomplished.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree wih and, if so why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes and every one the exercises truly helped to crystallize the ideas.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10

Unlimited Power
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea Anthony Robbins, the author of ‘Unlimited Power is trying to convey is every human being has unlimited power to do or be what he wants and chooses to in life.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

Although some of the ideas expressed in this book are similar in nature to others in other books, nonetheless, every author is unique and is in a class of his or her own. Another reason for the similarity could be due to the fact that other books came first in the course. However, a unique feature of ‘Unlimited Power’ is that the text is comprehensive in nature covering nearly all topics while other authors only specialize in one area. This makes this book special, plus Robbins approach is in a style of its own. One could lift several important points from each chapter, if time and space allowed. Here are seven that got through to me in a special way.

i. The Ultimate Success Formula

Nation Television, one of the local national television stations in Kenya, has its motto as, “Turning on Kenya.” Although the message does not filter through to every viewer, the analogy of the effect of light on darkness is expressed in the action of “Turning On…,”though subtle. Light dispels darkness and lights up the path in one’s life. If one chooses to turn on the light and sound of positive mental attitude, one will have unlimited power to success in whatever one wants to do or be in one’s life. This idea is given prominence in the beginning chapter of the book as Anthony Robins outlines four steps to ultimate success, vision – a ‘doable dream,’ action, knack to recognize responses and flexibility. These four are the blue prints to ultimate success.

ii. Emotional Makeup

Every once in a while, there is need for a face lift for a building, business, body or all of them at the same time, depending on different circumstances. You have probably come across such pronouncements as;

“Company under new management,” or “Office closed for renovations.” Such sentiments suggest a face lift of one kind or another. Other times the exercise goes beyond a face lift to a complete make over on the part of human beings or an overhaul of a car engine. Whichever way one looks at such improvements, bottom line, there is always room for improvement.

If one were to gauge ones emotional lows against highs on a scale of 1 – 10, chances would be the lows would tip the balance. Yet success depends on how one spends ones energy on positive or negative thoughts to tap onto the unlimited power of the individual.

iii. Finding Fault

“If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see things from that person’s angle as well as our own.” Henry Ford. These words of wisdom coming from a man who knows the importance of eliciting cooperation of others should act as everyone’s clarion call but people don’t. A lot of folk spend energy, time and resources finding fault than giving praise. It is all too easy to apportion blame instead of learning from mistakes to forge ahead and achieve one’s goals in life. The secret is to face failure as a friend and not foe.

iv. Success is better than Perfection

Indira Gandhi, J.F. Kennedy, Kwame Nkrumah, Tom Mboya; all these people have one thing in common, and that is they were all successful in rallying people behind them to achieve certain goals. Question is were they perfect? No, none of them was but their determination for success far compensated for their imperfection. They used the same principles Jesus used to lure people to follow him, putting people’s needs before their own. is wa In the book ‘Unlimited Power,’ the author calls it the ‘Birth of Excellence.’

v. Beliefs

The five supportive beliefs outlined in this text greatly helped to reinforce and crystallize things in my mind with regard to self improvement.

Attitude – A Positive Mental Attitude to life changes ones world view.

Environment – Often, one may think that one is a victim of circumstances environment simply because one is born and brought up in a harsh and hostile environment and success is hard to come by in life. While this may be true to some extent, it should not be viewed as a hindrance but challenge for one to tap into unlimited power within.

Education “Education,,” said Dr. John G. Hibben, former President of Princeton University, “ is the ability to meet life’s situations,” I couldn’t agree more.

Culture – Many are bound by the chains of culture to the extent that culture decides what the eat, wear, and generally how they live. That is self slavery, one that only the individual is capable of fleeing and not use as copout to achieving success in life.

Experience “Experience is the best teacher,” someone once said. But it depends on how one views past experiences to navigate his way to through the present time on the way to the future.

v. “There is no such thing as failure, there are only results.”

In the book Unlimited Power, the author Anthony Robbins recounts his early childhood life and a number of other people who came from ‘grass to grace’ by looking within and tapping to untapped reservoir of talents they possessed to make something of their own lives, than wallowing in self pity.

First time, I sat for the Kenya Primary School Exam, twice the results showed dismal performance. These grades wouldn’t take me to a government school. Second time, I barely scraped through and was admitted to a provincial school, which fulfilled my dream. If that hadn’t happened, I was prepared to repeat again and again until I get what my heart wanted, that’s what I promised myself and told m parents as well. Failure wasn’t part of the vocabulary that I wanted to identify with.

vii. Modeling

A whole industry clothing and design thrives on modeling. Designers go to great lengths in spending time, energy and resources n putting together such exhibitions just so that they achieve success. Models on the other hand, work continuously, tirelessly to keep in shape and master the catwalk among other things. The one day activity cost a lot of money in venue and celebrities remunerations. The same principle is given prominence in this text – ‘Unlimited Power,’ how one can actually succeed in modeling other successful people. But first, one must be absolutely sure of what one wants in life. God has endowed every last one with a complete fabulous body, all one needs to be successful in life. But until one sets one’s search engines to explore the hidden latent talent and unleash the power within, one will remain standstill and failure is inevitable. Working to harmonize one’s physiology and psychology takes skills but it is within ones reach and powers to do that to succeed.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way.

One of the wonders of modern technology is the innovation of the computer. The computer has become so vital and useful in life one wonders how we lived all those years without this gadget. It as an invention that has flaws. While it can store huge amounts of data, which can be accessed and retrieved by a click of the mouse, the same entire data can be lost just as quickly, deleted is the word for it.

Unlike the computer, the human brain also stores huge chunks of information only it can’t be easily gotten rid of like the one of the computer. Some of the information the human brain has in store is good and usable, others are bad and harmful yet they are there all the same all stored in the recycle bin. However, one can reprogram the mind to throw up only data one needs to use to enrich ones life that is where the secret lies, that’s the superiority of the human brain over the innate computer, and that too is the secret of success. Good thing is, though unpleasant experiences may plague one, one can choose to quarantine them through reprogramming.

4. Quotes

A number of interesting challenging quotes in the book include, but not exclusive to:-

“Action speaks louder than words,” someone once said. It is not enough to know where one is going, if one does not move a muscle one will never get there. Plain and simple.

Bunker Hunt, the Texas billionaire said, “Success is simple. First, you decide what you want specifically, second you decide you are willing to pay the price to make it happen, and then pay the price.” This quote support the proportion laid down in the book in the four ultimate formula to success. The beauty of it is, it is simple down to earth for anyone to understand and execute.

“Good timber does not grow with ease, the stronger the wind, the stronger the trees,” J. Williard Marrot. These words mirror the meaning of life from both nature’s way and logic. From a logical point of view, the harder the work, the better and bigger the outcome or results. This is particularly true in all spheres of life, the higher the stakes the better the outcome or reward.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes and every one the exercises truly helped to crystallize the ideas.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

Not unless, I reread the book.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10

Goal Setting 101
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

I. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea of this book is Goal Setting and Achieving.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

i. Goal Setting and Stroking

The importance of goal setting and achieving as a key ingredient to successful living cannot be overemphasized. During the last two months, I have diligently written down the most important goals in my life. Writing these goals has helped me focus on doing the most important things in life. It has also created the urgency within to achieve. All I now think of and dream about all day long are these ten most important goals. First, the goals seemed like wild ideas, today, they have crystallized into ideologies of my life. The playback of the success of these goals, in the theatre of my imagination is so vivid; it continues to being real with each passing day. The urge to do something about towards achieving these goals is an all consuming fire burning in my heart.

I see my life so drastically changed in the next five to ten years, more than it has been over the past two decades. Setting and writing down my goals, has given me my life back and the added dimension of self confidence, authenticity to speak about them with authority and complete surety with others I come in contact with, particularly the young people from the community am constantly in touch and working with.

I can taste the sweetness of the fulfillment of these goals, and see my life’s dreams unfolding before the eyes of my understanding like never before.

ii. Three Crucial Life Circles

All of us are endowed with great potential to be anything, anyone chooses or wants to be, the difference comes in what one does with whatever one perceives as a heart desire. Like the Ten Commandments God gave the Israelites through Moses, Gary has picked on ten different areas of human life one ought to set goals in. I find the ten areas extremely important, as they surround ones values which in turn affect the mission and decides on ones legacy.

iii. “Threeness”

The “threeness” pictorial drawing representation of Anatomy of a Goal in the book has a spiritual as well as secular ring to it in life. In Genesis 2:24 says,

“Therefore shall a man leave his farther and mother and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall be one flesh.” The ultimate goal in marriage is to (‘live’) as “One Flesh,” the strategy, separation from both parents (leave) and the benefits, which far outweigh singleness are many, love and affection, procreation among others. Then of course the wholeness of God the father, God son – Jesus Christ and God the Holy Spirit – Holy Trinity is also depicted by “threeness.”

In the traditional cultural senses common among most African societies, this “threeness” is best illustrated by the three legged stool, signifying completeness of the family unit as the foundation of clan or society. The three legged stool is not only revered as a traditional artifact, (although that too is an important aspect of the stool), more so who used. The old Wiseman in giving counsel and guidance to the community through settling disputes and foretelling the future did so sitting on the three legged stool. Every so often, the old Wiseman needed rest to monitor and evaluate everyday community (family) activities and make necessary adjustment that made every tribe clan of class, he sat on the three legged stool.

iv. Six Successful Goal Setting Questions

One of the cardinal rules in writing is to ask key pointed questions that lead to or provide fodder for the write up. Indeed as in other disciplines, asking important questions helps crystallize things. The same is true of an individual who has a burning desire in the heat to achieve a particular goal in life. He/she must if he/she wants to succeed, endeavor to and answer the five Ws(wives) and one H (husband) questions Who, What, Where, When, Why and How, of self. Obviously, these questions may be framed differently by the writer or goal setter but the key words above carry the day. Not only are these questions easier to remember, they also help probe and provide all the needed properties in the process of goal setting.

vi. SWOT: Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats.

Any organizational or individual effectiveness depends on two key elements, social and technical. These two are further subdivided into constituent components involving people and control (internal), on the one hand and change and projects (external), on the other hand. People and control (internal) are two areas particularly; Community Based Organizations (CBOs) face the challenges in achieving their goals. Of course external forces have a bearing in the life of a CBO; but the internal that plays a major role in the life span of the organization. The same applies to individual goat setting. The greatest hindrance to achieving ones heart desires in life is within and not without hence as James Allen the author of the book “As A Man Thinketh” says,

“Circumstances do not make a man, they reveal him.” Nonetheless, it is important to conduct Self SWOT Analysis to determine ones Strengths, Weakness, to identify available Opportunities and become aware of the looming danger of Threats. Although Gary, the author of Goal Setting 101 book does not elaborate on the elements of SWOT, an individual person’s SWOT Analysis is unique as we are all aware.

vi. Respect for Rights

Dogmatic and interactive process of struggles by different peoples throughout history has always been occasioned by oppression. These struggles collectively, dubbed human rights are the relentless pursuit of freedom (political, economic and cultural). That is on a wider universal scope. However, the struggles for what is right on a wider scale mirror internal individual conflicts – the right to success an happiness in Life. Although considered low key in comparison, individual internal conflict to achieve personal rights is by no mean unimportant hence the need for respect for rights and responsibilities outlined by Gary in the book. The outward demonstration against human rights abuses is generally a reflection of the internal individual conflict. Once individual rights and respects are gained, the overflow and influence will show on the external relationship and responsibilities in the community; country and continent.

vii. Put it down on Paper

Writing is an exciting and explosive way of expressing ones inner feeling, thoughts and desires. The importance of writing down cannot be overemphasized. Writing as a process helps in the discovery of self, others, and the world around. Writing things also helps clarify ones thinking, organize and explore which thoughts to focus on.

I am not exactly sure what I would do in life if I wasn’t putting down my thoughts on paper on a daily basis. It has been five years since I started seriously writing and the more I write, the more I want to continue writing and the more the sweeter it becomes. Reminds me of the lyrics of the refrain of a contemporary gospel tune, we used to sing in a local church choir some years ago.

The longer I serve Him, the sweeter He grows,
The more that I love Him, more love He bestows,
Each day is like heaven my heart overflows,
The longer I serve Him, the sweeter He grows.

All I’d do is temporarily replace the He for Jesus to experience the euphoria feeling of happiness of writing in my life.

viii. Contingency

Tracy Brian in his excellent book on goals calls it Plan B. Garry Ryan – Goal Guy refers to it as contingency Plan. In money matters a certain percentages usually 5-19% portion is set aside for incase of fluctuation in prices, this boils down to the same thing the above two authors of books on goals cite. Gary takes this point one step further by outlining three key levels one ought to take into consideration. But it is the punch line on this topic that carries the day as it drives the point home clearly and with ease,

“When it comes to contingency planning, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure,” I couldn’t agree more. I have often wondered whether or not God’s redemption plan of salvation after the fall of man could be classified under contingency or Plan B. Obviously, there are reasons for or against this assumption but that is a different story altogether.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way?

A few months ago, I elicited the cooperation of a group of talented, self motivated young people in the local community in the production of local video drama. This is something I always dreamed of doing – writing directing and producing video drama series in the local dialect, national language and English, the official language of communication in Kenya for local consumption.

We started the shoot on a high note with great enthusiasm. Somewhere along the line too as group, we got sidetrack from the main focus to solicit funds help the group run efficiently and effectively. As the initiator of this undertaking, I failed to put in place structures to maintain the interest. When the money didn’t come through as anticipated, the morale to forge ahead in the same sprit waned and the impending failure of the group to achieve its objectives came surging at me. I couldn’t shift and had to accept the blame verbatim.

I sat down and had a serious self talk; I could see the loopholes glaring at me. There was no mistaking we started and took off without defining our main goal in terms of short, medium and long term basis. With a great deal of persuasion, I have had to go back and seek this group’s support and address three pointed questions: “Where we are?” Where do we ideally want to be in future?”, and “How do we do that?” Asking an answering these questions has helped us as regroup and take individual and collective responsibilities and ownership of the group’s activities. This should have been done before. I learned my lesson to Plan Prior to Performance in future.

4. Quotes

A number of quotes stand out in the book. I have picked on two that spoke more directly to me.

i. “There is no speed limit on the road to success.” In normal everyday life, there are certain restrictions and limitations, in striving to achieve success there is none. How comforting and encouraging to know one decides how fast, or slow one gets to ones preferred destination – Success.

ii. “Reality moves you towards your goal; denial moves you away.” Success is real, one can see it all around. Denial is a form of self slavery, limiting oneself to attain what one desires in life.

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes, indeed challenging and helpful.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 10
D. Would you recommend it to others 9
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9

Keys to Success
Assessment by Mamer Garang Nyok (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?

Why and how one can succeed in life?

2. What where the seven ideas which where personally more important to you and why?

(i) The define Major purpose is an important as it help one to allocate sufficient effort, resources and time on the project one want to achieve in life, use money and other resources in appropriate way that will yield positive result and prevents from negative influence since one know what He or She is doing. The above is accomplishes by creating fire in one’s spirit and continue fueling it through motivations , identification of a available opportunities, gain decision making capability and create guidelines on plan for personal programs.

(ii) Establishing mastermind alliance. Can help me build a team that is competent and ready to do their role in a team work, at least through the elaborate explanations, I have learnt that mastermind alliance is crucial for the bonding and live of the organization and partnership be it in education, marriage and myself as it instill confidence, understanding fairness and justice, courage. This lessons is of greater value of cause if one work with the right members of the team who are willing to co. operates and put in to work more skill and knowledge in the areas of their expertise, of course no matter how knowledgeable and educated one is he still needs team work team help

(iii) Maintaining a sound Health. Has educated me and any other person on the essentiality of minding what you eat, does and thinks as we can develop negative or positive Habit that can either build or destructs us . Thus we are supposed to guide our spirit and Body from harmful thought and substances in order to maintain sound holistic health; Surely what we think in our mind be it fears for certain situation or things can hinder us from taking opportunities that are available within our reaches or in case of encouraging situation we get more energetic and more healthy, finally the lesson on relaxation and exercises is the most important one as it helps one, s mind to release tension created due over work, annoyance and too much thinking.

(iv) Building positive mental Attitude. Has teach me to control and direct my mind to acquire constructive positive ideas, continue to avoid the negative things that have nothing to help me achieve my life goal; I also build positive pattern of thinking by eliminating negative thought on others and the places and certain environment and systems which are bigger than me.

(v) Budget time and money. Is an idea that I benefit a lot as the methods discussed help you illuminate the most important task, best financial and time allocation on it thus avoiding spendthrift life style, procrastination and then gain productivity, therefore the characteristics of doers and drifters depicted in the book helps me to evaluates myself and see if what I do match with the description of doer or drifters..

(vi) Enforcing self discipline. Is great idea that can help me from other people provocation to do the opposite of the principles one had built or be influence to do thing out of the circumstances life bring about during the life time, it help me stand firm on the road to achieve my goal

(vii) Creating personal Initiative. This idea help one to make first move to get what you want in life by taking leads in action taking and follow up, as other come to help; I belief this idea to be a lot of help If put to use and many people will not be complaining of having nothing to do or being idle just simply think and do that you think can help you or the institution you are working for to succeed.

3. How will this ideas or lessons help you in a practical way both in your daily personal life and in helping you create better world? If so, how?

(i) First and foremost I will adopts this ideas to adjust my personality toward positivity which, I think can helps improve my relationship with others as the 17 attitude to success are discussed thoroughly guidelines that can help one diagnosis one’s personal problems and how to rectify it .

(ii) Ideas will help me improves my health, and identify opportunities that can help me in business or work places by taking care of how I thinks, what I eat, then analyses whether the above are essential to my body and mind health.

(iii) Ideas have created desire and fire in me that can help me in the carrying out entrepreneurial and pioneering ideas and tasks. I will no longer be yes or Submissive kind of person but I will drive my life per the principle, I have gained here in this book.

(iv) Personal Initiative. This ideas are going to assist me creates and implement what I want to do instead of looking for assistance from somebody else and if this is done it will help one avoid procrastination.

4. Quotes; Are there any statement which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.

(i) Habit become part of the nature by repetition. It is when you do thing every time from day to day that it become almost part of ourselves, So, there is a need to discard bad habit immediately and continually practice good habit as continuous practice of certain habit become natural and insinuating to one’s own characteristics and behaviors and affects them after sometime .

(ii) You cannot get something for nothing have a plan. It teaches me the important of right and positive struggling in order to achieve that success you had wanted, as it may never come in golden plate at your door step that mean you have to plan and look for it in earnests and progressively without being distracted and discourage by the doom Sayers.

(iii) Success is achieve through extra ordinary efforts: that means moving on when failed and even continue when others are giving up and start to tells you al negative things on how you will not achieve what you have venture out for Replenishing your enthusiasm believing that you can achieve all you are desiring to. I am impressed and made to understand that most of the successful peoples where actually discouraged but they continue trying and press on with their tasks until they achieve what they had dreamed for.

(iv) Win without boasting, lost without squealing and others will soon respect you Neither whining nor boasting are good for these character traits can shy people away from you thus they should be avoid at all coast, indeed no one can associate him/herself with those who whine and continue seeking sympathy from others over their loses or neither do people get interested when you are that type that want recognition even by strangers when you have succeed therefore other behaviors seem to turn people off from a person.

(V) What distinguishes you from the crowd is the attention you generates by doing more than you are paid to do? In deed those who are outstanding in the society are one who continue to do what they see good for themselves and the people they lives with despites any detraction they may get from the community members and the activities in the environment they are living in.

(vi) Establishes control of your mind at the start of each day. If one can do this on daily basis then chances of sinning and doing all the bad things can be minimized as everything that we take into action is first of all result of what we have conceive and perceive in our mind whether in a negative or positive way. And what about if we take control of our mind and direct it in ay we want and in logical subjection, I hope we can do exist peacefully and succeed positively.

(Vii) You must become humble so that you can acquire wisdom and understanding. No one can teaches the stuborn, boastfull and the rebellious one to the best of his/her ability one needs to be humble and cooperative in order to win the interest of the mentor or teacher..

5. Is there anything in the books that you do not understand or are unclear about or are there ideas that you disagree with and if so, why?

There is nothing which was notice yet

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete, if yes did you complete all the exercises and you find them helpful. ?

Indeed they are important as they help one to remember and analyses himself through subject reads by screening ones behaviors and characteristics through the questions provides. And as result one can better understand him/herself and his relationship with other peoples around his world.

7. Is there anything in the book that you read that you will like to comment on , that was not covered in the previous questions ?, if so, please comments.

(i) Use cosmic Habit force: It is educative as one can understand that conditioning our mind to think in certain pattern can lead to character development in relation to the things we think and do therefore there is need now for one to only allow thoughts and actions that are good and avoid those other negative one to avoid development of bad characters and behaviors.

(ii) Learn from adversity and defeats. A lot is to be learnt here as this lesson help one to know that failures are not losers and they are only losers when they fail to study the circumstances that made them fail, instead of giving up the successful one try to investigates the reason they failed and look for locally available solution and then move on a fresh with new strategy , the story of Milo C. Jone is encouraging for He refused to accepts disability due to stroke that paralyzed and use only the power of his mind to directs the family to the final success .

Please rate the following question on the scale from 1 to 10

A. How interesting was it to reads? 10
The topics are precise simplify and self explanatory for the reader to understand the concept.

B. How helpful where the content? 10
It has exercises that are practical and can help one gain insight in himself and his relation to his environment. The flow of language and the way the writer organizes the information is like talking to you as individual and that make one goes through as if the author is live in the lecture room.

D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
It is must to read when you are confuse, want to make decision and for those who want to improve their life style.

E. What is overall rating you will give it? 10
The book is excellent for it give hope, insight and liberal mindedness to the readers.

The Well Fed Writer
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea of this book: Attaining Self Sufficiency as a Commercial Freelance Writer.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

Many ideas stand out in this book for those whom Freelance Writing is a priority business venture.

i. High Demand, one of the many reasons for Commercial Freelance Writing.

Chapter four of this book outlines a number of reasons for commercial freelance writing. They include but not exclusive to: Unlimited Work, Living life according to your own script and Variety of Commercial Freelance Writing challenges with great many dividends.

Wahome Mutahi, one of the few Kenyan prolific writers of his time, combined humour and satire in his column ‘Whispers.’ He had the two leading newspapers Nation and Standard bidding to engage him. The Nation was aware Wahome had a Midas touch with readers through his writing. Not only was Wahome given a free reign including writing for the print, but also for electronic (television and radio) for the company.

Wahome was originally a print person, yet he went on to wedge a foot inside other communication doors including stage drama. Wahome had all these opportunities, it goes without saying there is a high demand for Freelance Writers to take up some workload and pressure from these companies and earn a descent living out of Freelance Commercial Writing.

ii. Identification of the Market

“Purpose Determines Content,” one of the principles of effective communication states. In public speaking lectures, students are given tips on effective communication methods. That doesn’t always guarantee the desired result of effective communication is met by the same students. Unless a student knows what to say, how to say it and leave it there communicate, effective communication becomes a pipe dream.

The purpose of the message will also dictate the content of the message in Freelance Commercial Writing. Purpose and content are inseparable in public speaking as well as writing. Two things filter through this communication principle.

First, in writing for the youth, the use and shape of the language cannot be overemphasized. Jesus always took into consideration these two ingredients to effectively communicate. His conversation with Nicodemus is structured differently from one with the Samaritan Woman.

Second, purpose determines quality; quality determines quantity and duration of content. The shorter the message the better, stand up speak up and shut up. The same is true in writing.

iii. Ability to Market Yourself

One of the secrets of driving a car at night on a busy highway is to focus your eyes away from the blinding on coming lights. Incidentally, they don’t teach that in driving school. How could they, most driving schools operate during normal working day hours. It’s hard not to look at the headlights of an oncoming car, yet that is the challenge. Chances of steering towards and not away from the oncoming vehicle are higher if you continue to stare at the headlights. Instead of driving past, you will be drawn toward the car, and before you know it, bam and you are in a state of shock.

A lot of drivers slow down to near halt until the other car whizzes past. If you were to do that with every other on coming car, you’d probably arrive at your destination the next day when normal sunshine visibility is back on. You don’t want that to happen. Question is how do you handle such a situation? Well, simply, look away from the blinding lights of the on coming car and you won’t have to slow down even when the other inconsiderate road user is driving with full lights on. It takes practice to get used to driving with your eyes away from the on coming headlights, just like in everything else in life, writing included.

Many can write, but not everyone is able to turn out a master piece in writing. It boils down to having or not having writing ability. That doesn’t mean only a few choice writers should dominate the market. Writing, like any other skill can be learned. You can hone your writing skills through reading books, practicing until you too become prolific like other old hands in the trade. However, having the ability to write is one thing, actual writing is another.

A decade ago, I started writing a piece here and a piece there. Mostly, I wrote about my past life experiences, some of which brought back painful memories to mind. Writing them down helped me see God’s wonderful working ways in my life. The more I wrote, the more my past life lay bare before the eyes of my understanding. Not sure when, where, how these writings would become handy and useful, they are now like the illustration above. Today, writing is a part of my life. Besides writing, reading and prayer are the two other things which get me through any difficult day.

iv. Unlimited Work

“There are many markets for articles as there are writers,” the author reiterates. I couldn’t agree more. You only need to select and zero in on the ones that suit your taste and resonate with your goals in writing. Never has there been a time writing to share ideas thoughts and emotions are in great demand like today. Opportunities for writing to communicate also abound with the advent of the internet opening countless business doors for old and new freelance writers. You don’t have to look far for freelance writing opportunities. A case in point is Muhoroni Settlement Scheme where I live. There are ten different operational institutions in the geographical areas that could use writing for communication purposes. These include three Local Rural Banks, four hotels, three sugar factories (Muhoroni, Chemelil, Kibos) one homaline and Agro-Chemical factory. Secondary Schools Students’ Clubs and Health Centres among others. These are virgin markets for freelance writers to tap into.

v. Marketing isn’t just a key ingredient in Freelance Writing; it is the only way to have your writing published.

Freelance writing like any other business venture, thrives on a Unique Selling Point (USP), marketing strategy. Just because you can write good sellable articles, brochures, newsletters doesn’t necessarily guarantee you have ready market. Sometimes aspiring Freelance Writers jump onto the band wagon of freelance writing without a clue of a particular market for the writing. Unless you’re aware of the market, you’re likely not to pitch the article to suit a particular magazine’s taste.

Such was my dilemma until I read the Well Fed Writer and others in the course. Since then, I have been keen on closely seeking out three market opportunities for articles.

Here is a sample query letter I have recently sent out to Muhoroni Constituency Development Fund

TO: Fund account Manager
Muhoroni Constituency Development Fund
Subject: “Query: Muhoroni CDF Newsletter.”

The eyes can see as far as the road stretches on both sides of a straight line along Chemelil-Muhoroni Road. Thanks to the management of Muhoroni Constituency Fund for the purchase of the grader. The growth of bushes along roadsides in the constituency is no longer a security threat to pedestrians.

I would like to offer Muhoroni CDF quarterly publication of a newsletter sharing news, views and interviews highlighting the benefits of Muhoroni CDF. The newsletter articles will focus on CDF projects and how the residents of Muhoroni can take advantage of these funds for community development. Articles in this newsletter will cover but not exclusive to:

* Types of CDF projects in Muhoroni.
* How community development in Muhoroni has improved due to availability of these funds.
* Encourage collective community participation in development among other activities.

Recently, I completed editing a book for a friend due for publication at the end of the year. I also host and regularly contribute to Muhoroni Now, a blog on the internet.

I hope this idea is of interest to the management of Muhoroni CDF. I look forward to your response. If you’d like to see a mock copy of the newsletter, I can have it on your desk within two weeks of receiving your go ahead with the project.

Thanks for your time.
Muhoroni Resident.

vi. Variety of Freelance Writing Market available.

New Magazines

Recently, a friend very graciously, forwarded to me an email address for an up coming magazine scouting for writers. Having tried hitting and missing with established local magazine to no avail, I was ripe to take a leap with the information gathered from this book particularly on queries which I hadn’t been doing previously. Within two days, the reply to the query was in my inbox.
“Yes certainly, we would love to read your article,” the editor wrote. That was enough proof the query had past the litmus test.

Old Magazines, New Owners

Businesses chance hands all the time. Magazine Publishing in Kenya is no different. Such changes are likely to affect old and new hands in writing in an equal measure. True Love, Drum and Adam are some of the magazines that have gone through such transitions in the last little while. A whole range of magazine businesses in the local scene that were once published and distributed from one central point like the three above have since folded opening new doors of opportunity for new ones and writers. Before reading this book, I hardly pitched tent at the new magazines camp, but the opportunity was always there.

Magazines changing Frequency

For along time, Drum Magazine came out a month before it went under to re-emerge and shortly change the frequency to two issues a month. Obviously, that puts pressure on production, which means more articles required and new grounds for new freelance writers. The same is true for small magazines, particularly for those intending to break new grounds in freelance writing.

vii. Living Life in My Own Terms as a Freelance Writer.

Unlike most of his college mates, David Yego had all along purposed to set up and run his own business.

“There is nothing in the world that would satisfy my heart like setting up and running my own business, David once remarked and he meant it. Presently, he has 3 long distance prime movers for haulage and four canters for soda distribution. He also bought a masionette on half an acre plot for his family in the affluent Nyali and three flats for rental. Recently, he acquired eighty acres of agricultural land near his rural home for horse breeding. Now that is living life in one’s own terms. Freelance writing provides me with that and a great deal more. It is comparatively cheaper to in terms of initial investment, has a wide market variety and there no monopoly on subject for writing among other advantages.

Many aspiring freelance writers never live a life of fulfillment of that dream. But those who do like attest to the joy not just because ones name appear on print as author of an article or book; the inward fulfillment is of greater value than the monetary gain that comes along with it.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?

Already I am using these ideas to further my writing career. In following the principles outlines in the books, my writing is steeped to go to the next upward level of success.

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.

A number of quotes stand out in the book.

“In public relations, we are always looking or a new angle or fresh approach that may catch an editor’s eye.” This quote coming fairly early in the book sets the benchmark for freelance writing. The freelancer writer who has a unique approach to an event carries the day with the article.

“Everyone loves to hear a great story about real people doing real things.” In the African context, storytelling continues to dominate most of our communications. Nothing beats a good story told well with twists and turns to spice the narrative. The same principle can be harnessed and used in writing.

“Copy Writing is Salesmanship in Print.” The only way a freelance writer can sell his writing and talent is through putting out sellable article in magazines. This combines talent and business acumen.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

None at all.

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10

Starting Your Career As A Freelance Writer
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

The main idea of this book revolves around starting a career as a freelance writer.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

Many ideas stand out in this book for those whom Freelance Writing is a priority business venture.

i. Freelance Writer.

“A Freelance Writer is… a writer who is self employed.” No definition comes close to this simple yet accurate way the author of this book Moria Anderson Allen says. This definition conjures different meanings to different people. However the bottom line, it’s earning a living by owning and running your ownbn writing business. To the freelancer, this definition covers a wide range of activities including honing your writing skills, identifying the market and marketing your writing. Keeping records of the writings, accounts and correspondence are among other things which come within the territory and proximity of freelance writing.

“One isn’t born a writer,” someone has said. The ability to write is inherent in everyone. However, only relatively small percentages heed the call to a lifelong relationship with freelance writing.

In Urban centers, most shops don’t close. Everything has gone DIY (Do-It-Yourself) through the use of modern technology. From getting cash at the automated teller machines (ATMs) to applying for jobs on line, its incredible how technology is putting services in the hands of individuals anywhere anytime. The same is true of self employment opportunities particularly writing.

Not everyone is cut out for employment and not everyone gets employed given the dwindling opportunities in today’s job market. These two reasons along with others, is enough proof for the need of self employment in writing. Kenya government’ ambitious plans of creating half a million jobs a year is achievable if every last Kenyan would look to the informal sector and set up structures that would create employment for themselves and others. That is speaking broadly. Writing offers unlimited opportunities of employment. It’s also fairly manageable in terms of initial capital investment in comparison to other business ventures. Not to mention, a Freelance writer lives a life in his own terms.

ii. Setting Goals.

Moria Anderson’s dedication of a whole chapter on setting goals is spot on. This chapter highlights the necessity of setting and achieving ones goals in writing. If there is any quick fix it solution to turning your life around, it’s the ability to set and achieve your goals in whatever field of choice in life.

Writing as a career is both challenging and demanding and therefore calls for clear set goals. Challenging because there is not a subject you or anyone cannot write on. Demanding, because it requires self-disciple. Many amateur and professional writers fail the test of litmus on self disciple. It’s so easy to be sidetracked by a myriad other activities competing for attention in your life than being single minded continually everyday even when the juice is temporarily held up somewhere from flowing freely. Equally touch is picking and sticking to a time schedule of writing. Many factors may work against instead of for you in keeping a tight schedule. One is life eventualities. You may also have other demanding responsibilities that chew up your writing time.

Every individual case is unique and different. Six months ago, I stood in-front of a full length mirror and had a one on one talk with myself about taking up writing as a lifetime career. Many years I nursed the dream of sharing my thoughts and ideas with others through writing something seem to crop up. I procrastinated nearly one decade to get on with it. It wasn’t until I read Brian Tracy’s excellent book on goal setting, I realized there is no better time than now. Then I set to work out the matrix of time schedule a day and allocated two to three hours for writing. Now that doesn’t mean I write non stop there are days I sit holding a pen on top of a black paper and the juice doesn’t flow. However, there are days I have to literally pull myself away from the writing to attend to other chores.

A lot of people complicate writing of goals and make the whole exercise sound and feel like a hover sucking one’s brain. Once I decided writing is my whole, I put it down in simple understandable words that made sense and had meaning to me. Maria’s three point outline for goal setting is simple and easy to remember than the SMART of the guru goal guys: measurable, attainable and meaningful. All I have to do is substitute the letter ‘a’ with a ‘u’ in the second element of Maria’s goal setting principles and remember the word ‘mum’ which throws up happy good memories and the words for goal setting come alive in my mind.

iii. Putting Time and Talent into Perspective.

Those who have ridden a bicycle at one point know that it’s easier to mount and ride than to push it around. Besides riding, a bicycle does a number of things. One, it provides the free needed exercise to the body including the heart. Two, a bicycle gets you to your destination faster. Third, it’s a cheap way of transport, perhaps not too safe but then again nothing even a vehicle isn’t that safe.

One can draw a number of life lessons from a bicycle ride.

a. Belief in Your ability to mount and ride. No one can do that for you. Starting to freelance write is like riding a bicycle, the ability is there inherent in all of us, but it is up to the individual to take up the pen and write sellable articles if he chooses and want to.

b. Synchronizing Man and Machine. Rider’s body movement must be in harmony with the bicycle to attain equilibrium to balance sand stay on top or you go in a mud puddle with an injury, a dislocated joint or broken bone. Your writing reflects your beliefs which in turn resonate with your core values and goals in life.

c. Outcome – The destination is your driving force. A lot of people in Kenya own bicycles solely to meet the need for cheap transport. Few use them for exercise purposes. Writing is one thing getting published is another. It’s not enough just to write without getting published to achieve the goal of sharing ideas, thoughts and emotions with a view to change and give direction to other people’s lives.

iv. Finding Article Ideas

Ideas for writing come from a number of sources, within an individual writer (personal experience), other people, places and things. Here are two examples by way of illustrations from places and people.

v. Places – Chains of Culture

Show me a home whose house positions are Christian in nature in an African homestead, and I’ll show you several homes in the community that are chained to culture on this issue. This is not just about ordinary Christians we are talking about, the trend is common place feature in clergy, lay leaders and among Christians sitting in the pew. It doesn’t matter how high one is placed in the church hierarchy, the general position and structure of most homes are more cultural than Christian in nature. Whether it’s the Arch Bishop, Bishop, Pastor or ordinary Christian, houses in an African homestead assume certain positions assigned by culture and not Christianity.

It’s not by default therefore that the first son’s cottage in African homestead is on the right hand side of his parent’s house. The second son’s house takes the left hand side position in respect to the main house, whose door directly faces the main entrance to the home, the gate. One wonders how generous some communities are in their use and distribution of land, yet bitterly complain of its scarcity.

vi. People – Beauty: Big Business

A lot of African ladies go to great lengths to improve on their outward appearance. Obviously, they are not contended with how they look. But whether this takes away from or adds to the natural God given beauty is a matter of debate.

Sounds ridiculous, a woman gives more attention to her face than the rest of her body. The face hogs all the lime light, gets all the tender loving care, and for a very good reason, you might add. Someone else’s approval, however skewed helps to boost a woman’s ego. Words that make a woman’s head swell usually come from the men’s department. Not only do such compliments massage and improve the beauty’s self esteem; they also have higher stakes of expectation.

“You look stunning in that dress. I’ve never seen you look so lovely like you do tonight.” Other times,

“If I told you you’re the most beautiful thing’ God molded upon the phase of this planet earth, would you hold it against me?”

Such flowing flowery language is calculated to do one thing, ‘lift the blonde’s spirits, boost her ego, and make her feel really good inside. But these compliments do a lot more; they also send clear signals to the beauties to watch out lest someone comes along with higher standards to snatch them that crown.

Incidentally, such tributes are only paid to ladies. Hardly do you hear similar words of comfort among women regarding the man of the moment. Oh, there’s usually vague talk among women, “he’s so sweet and cuddly,” but mostly “he’s robust, lithe, masculine athletic,” and such terms a woman uses to describe her main man. Simply, a woman isn’t consumed by a man’s physical appearance, but rather his outward physique to fulfill the role of protector, provider, and partner. On the other hand, men fan and finance the fire that burns to the ground their financial foundation through generous and lavish gifts in promotion of the blonde’s beauty.

“Hallo Guys, do you copy?”

Once you have the gem of a story for writing, the next big step is to think it through.

vii. Writing and Selling a non fiction book.

Somewhere in the middle of reading this book, “Starting Your Career As A Freelance Writer,” I began to hear the author’s voice come through the word on the printed pages. Turning page upon page, the voice became a dominant significant figure in the theatre of my imagination. Towards the end of the book, Moria Anderson Allen was my personal instructor to freelance writing.

Once in a while, I’d mutter something having read a sentence in which a word, phrase or the whole lot, stroke a chord in my brain. That doesn’t mean I agree with everything the author puts down in the book as a rule of thumb to freelance writing. In some instances, I raised and waved a clenched fist in the air hoping she’d see and register my objection.

Chapter 29 dealing with writing and selling a non fiction book is priceless. If I had read this chapter sooner, I’d have published my first book by now. Particularly the section on preparing a proposal has been a great help and eye opener. Having read this chapter, I am reworking an entire manuscript of a book I had scheduled to go in for publication three months ago.

viii. Becoming a full time Freelance Writer.

Different people wind up as writers for various reasons. Some its an ambition to achieve the goal of being published. Others, life situations endear them to share thoughts, ideas on specific subjects of interest.

Are you always skeptical of employment like me? Somehow, the temporary nature of employment always sent a chill down my spine because of the uncertainty of job security. Perhaps you haven’t come to a time of hunger and fasting to find the one thing that satisfies the longing of your heart like writing. Making that discovery didn’t come easy, God had to take me around the block of life a few times, stopping and starting including engaging in employment for a time to show me what my heart desire is. If I had to do it all over again, I’d choose freelance writing any day, anytime, anywhere for all the right reasons spoken or otherwise.

x. Marketing Yourself.

It doesn’t make good business sense to have a wonderful idea or product and not market it saying.

“This is really good, I bet everyone is going to come and buy it.” You could say that until the cows come home but unless you market yourself you fall short of achieving your goal in writing. The final stage in any type of writing is in sharing it with others. How will you be read unless you’re published? You may be a prolific writer but until you work is read, the process of writing isn’t complete. Same principle applies in any type of business. A product/service is of no value unless it’s marketed. reason multi-national companies spend a fortune on advertising is solely to market their product/service. same applies to writing. you must commit to market to be read.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?

From the moment I started reading this book; Freelance Writing has taken a different dimension as my new career in life. Each of the principles outlined in this book, are like the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle that were for so long missing in my writing my writing. I can confidently say the lessons from this book have shown a light in the dark tunnel of my life dream of being published, first articles then later graduate to writing books.

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.

A number of quotes stand out in the book ‘Starting Your Career As A Freelance Writer by Moria Anderson Allen.

* Nine times out of ten they’ll never ask what publication its for.” This comes in juxtapostion to the talent of an interview who couldn’t care less about the publication you as a freelance writer is pitching the article to.

* “What do you want to talk about?” A little later on the same chapter comes the several question quotations on the subject of the list of dos and donts befoe the interview.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

6. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10

Rich Media, Poor Democracy

Communication Politics in Dubious Times
Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

I. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

The Role of Media in Democratization

II. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

A. Role of Media

Over the years, the three primary purposes of media to inform, educate and entertain have been replaced by the three C’s of commercialism. The original three-prong purpose of the media approach was expected to provide the institutional framework for collective citizen participation. That is no longer the case. Instead, media houses hype on personal interest and aggrandizement, politics and economic have taken center stage. One can cite tons of proof in support of this argument. Here’s one on politics.

In the 18th century epic autobiography of the man Disraeli, the author Robert Blake quotes one of Disraeli’s keynote address,

“We have a great Parliamentary Middleman. It is well known what a middleman is; he is a man who bamboozles one party and plunders the other, till having obtained a position to which he is not entitled, he cries out. Let us have no party questions, but fixity of tenure.” A number of striking similarities in the then British and our present coalition system of government, which created the position of Prime Minister, come into sharp focus. In the tenth parliament, Kenya has instead of maturing politically, gone back to embrace the four centuries old system of government, adopted by Britain. In the present coalition Kenyan government, are three parliamentary middlemen: His Excellency the President Emilio Mwai Kibaki, representing Party of National Unity (PNU), Orange Democratic Movement (ODM) current sitting Prime Minister – Raila Odinga a.k.a Agwambo and Orange Democratic Movement (Kenya), under the leadership and guidance of the Vice President, Kalonzo Musyoka a.k.a. wiper.

Long before the disputed Presidential General Election results of 2007 erupted into post election violence, these three parliamentary Middlemen were in motion ‘bamboozling’ one party and plundering the other, and the media houses fanned the fire of divisive politics between them.

These three Parliamentary Middlemen are yet to take a break. Soon after the brokered peace deal in which each of them played a crucial key role, there still appears cracks within the walls of this coalition government and the media helps to widen the cracks through skewed news reporting while making a kill from sales of the news in print and through adverts in electronic.

B. Corruption

From the office messenger to the Minister in this country, ‘Kitu Kidogo’ (something mall), has become the magic wand to get services delivered in Kenya. This is an open secret. You don’t have to look anywhere hidden to witness corruption at its best in this country. Just be on the road a few kilometers in a public service vehicle and you’d be blind as a bat not to see blatant corruption in broad daylight. No one is innocent in this country, the law enforcement officers whose work is to safeguard such malpractices, the matatu tout who folds and drops the fifty shillings note at every roadblock for the traffic police to pick up and the passenger who pretends to look away as the officer on duty waves the vehicle on, exchanging fake smiles with the driver are all part of the racket. All of them are guilty of corruption.

How do you justify such under the table deals at the place of work, home and the society? Just because everyone is doing it, does not legitimize the practice. Corruption in high, low and medium places in society is bad for you, community and the country. It doesn’t matter what name you call it, ‘Kitu Kidogo’ (something small), ‘Kiinua Mgongo’ (scratch my back, I scratch yours). Bottom line, corruption is a lethal weapon for dishonesty. It kills morale, and compromises standards. Everyone is bound to loose, you and I included.

Those named in the Golden berg scandal, the worst scandal in this country, are walking freely on the streets having been acquitted by the judiciary. Public funds that could boost economic recovery and growth are stashed away in foreign banks by the same individuals implicated in the scandal accumulating huge interest rates while the supposed owners live lavishly from heavy pay cheques here at home. Since then, the ethics and governance department is no longer in existence. Either they had to toe the line, join the foray of corrupt deals or risk their lives like John Githongo (the first ever corruption czar on governance and ethics) and loose their prestigious positions in the government.

C. Conglomeration

It is hard if not impossible to put a finger on the point at which any of the three elements of media concentration, conglomeration and commercial picks up and where the others end. Equally hard is how to isolate one from the other and make sense of the world around about.

D. Concentration

Kenya Television Network currently owned by the Standard Group Company has changed hands a few times since its inception. On the one hand, the change was occasioned by the government’s restriction. On the other hand, it has been a case of the need to expand and offer services in print and electronic media to compete on an equal level-playing field with others in the industry.

African governments have only recently allowed little room for media houses to expand due to pressure. Kenya Broadcasting Corporation (KBC), acted as the government’s mouthpiece, enjoyed the monopoly in radio and television for so long; it was inconceivable to establish an independent rival station. Listeners tired of the same old news coverage dominated by government official functions sought alternative news devoid of bias elsewhere. Many turned to BBC, ABC and other international stations in their quest for news.

E. Commercialism

‘Greed is Good Mentality’ trend of modern day ownership by media houses taking up a lion’s share of newspaper, television and radio programming and distribution of magazines is quickly catching on in Kenya. Nation Media Group has taken a leading role in Kenya to expand into areas other than print. Today, the Nation has a television station, newspaper, distributes several magazines. The Kenyan case of media ownership is still small by world standards, since there are only a few notable companies competing for supremacy – Nation Media Group and Standard Group Company.

Another factor, media relies heavily on is adverts. Papers are full of “new products” dressed up as stories to attract monetary gain through coverage. This in turn leads to “No adverts, not news” but market crisis.

F. Politics

“Objectivity,” that is what every dedicated professional journalist strives to achieve in news. But the journalist, even as a gatekeeper and society’s watchdog isn’t free to report and comment on important events happening in society. News values, improper influence by government legal systems, media ownership, are some of the factors, which greatly derail the process of news gathering and dissemination leading to the painful conclusion: “’Objectivity’ exists only as a myth in Journalism.”

The move by African governments to jail the journalist and gag the freedom of the press is yet another factor which derails the freedom of the press. This is an attempt to stamp out the free speech. Tension between the press and the government is good in a sense acting to create a balance. It can be detrimental to public interest should the journalist carve in under pressure.

“You can’t bite the finger that feeds you,” an old African proverb warns. Under competition and pressure to outsmart each other, journalists give into arranging news and information to fit the outlook of the media house. You can’t blame them can you; the journalist’s paycheck hangs precariously on a thread of total allegiance to the media house. In the end,

“…The search is for sensation and justification of unjust system in which truth must become the casualty.” Kwame Nkrumah first democratically elected President of Ghana once said.

G. Media Culture

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world? If so, how?

“Knowledge is power,” someone once said. Media houses work on a system under the influence of other factors on news reporting. “Rich Media, Poor Democracy,” book has helped broaden my understanding of the role of media and its restrictions on public interest. This book goes to great lengths to support the argument that the original purpose for news reporting, to inform, educate and entertain is no longer in force. The author outlines pitfalls, which enables one to navigate the rough terrains to avoid the influence and bias to achiever objectivity.

4. Quotes. Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“The media is fast becoming the predominant business of the twenty first century and we’re in a new economic age,” Gerald Levin, Time Warner CEO stated in 2000. I couldn’t agree more. Media sells audiences to advertisers. Much of the news and entertainment content of the media serves to attract stereotype target audiences and media is dependent on advertisements for survival.

“People are simply spending more time with the media.”

Economic based factors contribute to soap opera’s popularity. The type of products advertised before, during and after soaps, are carefully selected and closed targeted towards women, the market audience. These advertisements range from domestic products to cosmetics and toiletries. The commercials in soaps similarly create mini problems and their solutions. The woman is satisfied when a shirt is made whiter by the use f a particular detergent.

“We do have just a few people controlling all the cable companies in this country.” Ted Turner, the pioneer of cable television. This is an open secret not just in the United States; it is fast catching up in Kenya as well. Nation Media Group, and Standard Group of Company are the two giant companies controlling both print and electronic media in Kenya. Other media houses like Citizen are only prominent in electronic media.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

A. How interesting was it to read? 8
B. How helpful were the content? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 7
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 8

Manufacturing Consent
The Political Economy of the Mass Media
Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in this book?

The main idea in this book is on how news is generated.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

i. The “real” story behind the story.

“…most people know that a news story often is not the the whole story.” Intellectuals scoffed at Columbus discover that the world is round. “Don’t confuse us with facts; our mind are made up,” they said. Flat earth believers had vested interest they turned against Columbus with a vengeance for challenging their view of the universe. The establishments that controls the media stand defiant of any one’s attempt to expose them. The individual receives the wrath of mass media owners, the big guns. These establishments fire long-range artillery at a solitary unarmed individual whose aim is objectivity in news. “Unfortunately for many people, societal status comes before intellectual honesty,” Gary Allen writes.

ii. Politics and Mass Media Economy.

“In politics, nothing happens by accident. It is happens, you can bet it was planned that way.”

Two families have shaped the political landscape in Kenya for the past four decades. The Odingas, (King Makers) and the Kenyattas (Kings – Rulers). The same is true in other African countries. Aligning yourself with either of these two families makes one “politically correct in the Kenyan political jungle. In Britain, the power revolves around the monarchy. India has along tradition tied to the Gandhi family.

The media paints the same picture of “correctness” in news reporting and worthiness. Media attention is riveted on this group of persons and for a good reason. “Political correctness” also comes complete with economic advantages and standing in society. The two make their own forced ideal society that all must conform to.

However, this trend is likely to be overtaken by the wind of change blowing across the continent of Africa.

iii. Socialism: Royal Road to Power for the Super Rich.

“…nothing less than to create a world system of financial control in private hands able to dominate the political system of each country and the economy of the world,” Prof Carrol Quigley, said. Sounds far fetched at phase value, unfortunately it is the reality in today’s affluent society.

Reading between the lines in “Manufacturing Consent,” by Herman and Chomsky the message comes through clearly that mass media serves the interest of a clique of a few rich people. You can rationalize mass media purpose, argue in support of journalists as society’s watchdogs by choosing to ignore the glaring facts that mass media diverts instead of directs attention to real stories in life.

It is difficult if not impossible, yet true for an ordinary citizen of any country to understand that socialism is a project of the super rich in society.

Benjamin Disraeli wrote in Coningsby,

“So you see my dear Coningsby, that the world is governed by different personages from what is imagined by those who are not behind the scene.”

“A world government has always been the object of communists…The social Democrat, Lenin proposed a United states of the World.” The embattled Colonel Gaddaffi proposed United States of Africa (USA). Unfortunately for him the way things are going, he might never see that dream come true.

iv. Mass Media: Conspiracy, Commercialism and Concentration.

Few books expose the rot in mass media establishment. Ones that do; have no shelf life. The information is obliterated. Other times, the negative publicity spells doom for the authors of such books that unearth the real economic giants behind mass media establishments and their political kingpins.

Commercialism, concentration, conspiracy are the driving forces behind mass media houses. Anyone opposed to this kind of establishment is put on notice, threatened, viewed differently and treated as antisocial should the person continue to digging dirt on mass media ownership and control in any country. In this assignment, I have used given the Kenyan mass media all overlook in view of similarities with others in the world albeit on a small scale to world class media ownership, control, concentration and commercialism in the United States.

v. The Money Makers.

“If you will look back at every war in Europe during the nineteenth century, you’ll see that they always ended with the establishment of a balance of power,” Prof Stuart Crane.

Chapters five to seven of this book centers on US intervention in Indochina wars, Vietnam and Cambodia, the two notable ones. In each case, the US created a situation which resulted into war, supplied arms most of which the manufacturers behind are the money makers in the establishments. Recently on the local scene, suddenly the price of oil has gone up. Why? No one seems to know. Only the media has a clue that oil has become scarce in the local market. Somewhere, the establishment has hatched a plan to horde oil and hike the price for individual gain. In the meantime, the locals hold the wrong end of the stick because whenever oil prices go up, everything else follows, food stuff included. Timing of the news is pegged on the crisis in Libya and the Arab counties. But it is not the real story. Truth is the moneymakers use the flimsy connection of the disturbances in Arab counties to make mileage in local oil market. These same tycoons control the oil industry and hold top government portfolios. His Excellency President Mwai Kibaki’s summon of Mr. Uhuru Kenyatta, minister for finance and Mr. Kiraitu Murungi, minister for energy is only a smokescreen suggesting that the government is concerned while the real truth members of the establishment who are also in the government and oil business are in the middle of it.

vi. Establishing the Establishment.

“In politics, majority rules. In Economics, minority have the upper hand.”

Kenya’s economy like other countries rests in the hands of a few individuals. This clique of a few individuals with money to spend and spare for business come together to establish an alliance, makes decisions which affect the political terrain as well as the economy of this country. This establishment sees into appointments to key government positions. In Kenya we have such establishments like GEMA. Members pool resources together for a common course of good to individual membership. Such establishments plan behind closed doors, finance activities aimed at making mileage in businesses. They’re the ones who win government contracts of equipment, drugs supply and the list is endless. They’re also the untouchables in society. The law will bend in their favour such that one gets away with murder as mass media houses are in their payroll. Small wonder someone has said,

“In any organization, the man who pays the bills is the boss.”

vii. Pressure from above and Pressure from Below.

“The pressure from above comes from secret ostensibly respectable comrades in the government, the establishment, forming with radicalized mobs on streets below. The street rioters are pawns, puppets and dupes for an oligarchy of elitists conspirators working above,” Kozak Communist Historian.

That is the strategy the United States has used time and time again to weed out governments that don’t support their foreign policy in Cambodia, Mexico, Russia, Turkey, Nicaragua, El-Salvador. In each of these places, the US sponsored elections, sent in observers, media land painters to divert attention and focus on the kids on the streets while the real danger is from above – THE ESTABLISHMENT.

3. How will these ideas or lesson help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world? If so, how?

Immediate results in fighting conspiracy of the establishments in using mass media for political and economic gain may take a while. These establishments are capable of stifling dissenting voices of reason like mine but the seed of truth shall have been planted to grow in the smokescreen that is news. The enslavement of self, family shall be prevented from depending on media reports only when the few who know the truth speak out against media conspiracy.

4. Quotes. Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“Sanctions of mass destruction have caused the deaths of more people in Iraq than have been slain by the so called weapons of destruction (Nuclear and Chemical), through out history,” John and Karl Mueller. In the process of fighting against nuclear and chemical weapons, the United States has in effect caused more deaths of innocent people than protect them. Innocent Iraqis died during the USA invasion of that country than Sadam Hussein killed with the so called weapons of mass destruction. In Cambodia, Nicaragua, El Salvador and Vietnam among others lives of innocent persons were at stake as the USA fought to maintain and control power in those countries.

“…the hallmark of the global media system is its relentless, ubitiquitious commercialism.

“Media ownership is in the hands of a few individuals in the establishment for the purpose of making more money,” Ted Turner.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

Several ideas in the book are packaged to showcase the superiority of the United States as a super power. Behind this smokescreen lies the economic factors and mileage made by establishments who control the finances, which support the United States government to police the world.

But that is a different story altogether.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

Although there were no exercises, the case studies and skewed conclusions statements in the book provide food for thought to those who dare challenge the conspiracy of the establishments in running and ruining many lives the world over.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

Yes plenty. The mystery behind third world debt relief by the West for example is closed tied to the establishment of a few individuals in the west who control the economy of most countries, third world included. The western mass media only highlights the tip of he iceberg. The real issues are hidden under the muddy waters of these establishments for political expediency and economic gain.

Many third world country citizens and leaders are made to believe that international aid will solve their poverty/problems. Nothing could be further from the truth. The World Bank and International Monetary Fund (IMF) are some of the establishments that thrive on vulnerability and ignorance of their subjects. In “Rich Media Poor Democracy,” by Robert W. McChesney book report I cited the example of Nations of Beggars and how the landscape painters of mass media use the situation for the benefit of such establishments like World Bank and International Monetary Fund (IMF). These world financiers are more in business than humanitarian mission. That is not to suggest for a moment nothing good comes from these donors. Many lives have been saved through these funds. However, what needs to closely examined are the conditions under which such grants and loans are awarded to know there is more than bilateral humanitarian support behind these funds.

Ratings

A. How interesting was it to read? 7
B. How helpful were the content? 7
C. How easy was it to understand? 7
D. Would you recommend it to others? 7
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 7

The Associated Press

Guide To Internet Research and Reporting
Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in this book?

The main idea – Internet Research and Reporting.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

i. Miles of Wire.

Fibre optics – the transmission of optical images through thin glass fibres, is one of the most intriguing techniques used in modern electronics. Small wonder the over who wins the tender to lay the magic Fibre optic wire connecting Africa to Europe and the rest of the world. The important thing is that Africa is now able to import or export receive and send huge quantities of optical images to and from anywhere in the world in addition to enhanced high speed flow of chunks of data.

The simple experiment, which began nearly half a century ago, has become the most versatile new technological development application in just about every piece of equipment where optical images are generated, processed and transmitted over along distance.

A decade ago, the use of Internet by an ordinary citizen in Kenya was only a pipe dream. Getting on line was a preserve of a particular class in society. Not anymore. In the words of Frank Bass, the author of “Associated Press Guide to Internet Research and Reporting,”
“Journalism has not changed; only the tools.” Indeed Fibre Optics Miles of Wire is one tool that has changed in Journalism.

ii. Reasons for getting connected to the Internet.

a. It is no longer chic to write or phone a company to obtain its brochure, newsletter when you can visit the company’s website and view the brochure right away.

b. In comparison, an email is faster (takes five minutes) than a letter that takes a week in the mail.

c. Research is made easier and faster through the Internet billion pages in the comfort of your own home, saving you the headache of labouring through stacks of volumes in the library.

d. Until the advent of the Internet, news writing and dissemination was followed a strict code of conduct. That has since changed. Today virtually every media house uses the Internet around the globe for news writing, reporting and dissemination. Some media houses use the Internet more than others depending on the circulation of the paper and the areas of coverage of the media house in electronic media.

The Associated Press Guide to Internet Research and Reporting, the author goes into great details of terms and technicalities of making the Internet work for you. To use the Internet effectively and efficiently, you need a good grasp of the working system of this medium, the kind offered by Frank Bass in this book. The Internet has ushered in a new dispensation of Journalism. The Internet is fast, sassy, but certainly not without flaws.

iii. Internet Search Engines

Two years ago, David, (a friend), introduced me to performing multiple tasks on the Internet through the use of Internet Search Engines. Before, I’d twiddle my thumbs waiting for the slow computer at the local cyber café to book and perform a single task at a time. This was time consuming a waste of available meager resources to pay for these services. That was before I knew that several Search Engines as Alta Vista, Yahoo, and Google are available at my disposal to move with utmost speed to navigate the way around the Internet.

However, first you must know basic parts of most Internet address like the Prefix which is standard and the domain. Domain with such designations as “com” for commercial, “Org” for Organization, “gov” for government, “edu” for educational institutions, offer a variety of options in using the Internet for whatever reason. Once you are aware of the domain, it’s easy to narrow down your search to a specific field or topic of interest.

iv. News Reporting from the Internet

Every time you’re on line, you’re bombarded with all kinds and manner of information. Immediately you access your email address before dipping into the inbox, you read breaking news on the page, products of sale adverts fly back and forth; from one corner to the other as the search engines prepare to let you take a peak at your mail.

Dare you try to Google and you’ve the whole world at your doorstep offering you the product and services at a fee. The good news with Googling is you’re led to several links with relevant information you had no idea existed. News takes a lion’s share of the information available on the Internet. Either its news of an old product wrapped in new packaging, hard, soft gossip, you got all of them competing for your attention.

If your mission is to find information on an item for news you’d select world news sources up to date report with statistics to boost. In the same vein, you can go through careful selection of the topic find exactly what you’re looking for to write a new item.

v. Data Base

From getting cash at ATM to applying for jobs on line…technology is putting services in the hands of an individual,” Andrew Limo wrote on Digital World column. Although Kenya government offices are yet to be fully automated to offer efficient and effective services, the technology is here with us. Thanks to the Internet for speeding up and creating the technological revolution in the delivery of public services.”

The use of computers albeit on a small scale has brought change in the lives of young people in this country. Most significantly, it has opened doors of opportunities for research in the confines of one’s home and local area. Today, with basic computer knowledge, most people are able to access the world biggest and best data base available on the Internet. Opportunities for wealth creation, tips on heath, name it you got it waiting for you in the Internet to access. The Internet provides the best “self-help” to individuals for quick fix solutions to challenges in life, from books, papers, films. It’s all there, if you want and choose.

vi. Importing and Exporting Data

It has become standard practice for frequent Internet users to import and export data. You can send a whole book manuscript to a publisher, by copying and pasting the contents on an email page, than sending it as an attachment. Most folks now shy away from attachments fearing of harmful viruses to their computers. It also takes longer and costs more on airtime sending an item as attachment in comparison to copying and pasting on the email page.

Besides, most folk are busy. They want to do business quickly on the spot. Few have the time of day to download attachments while on line. Better to skim through a document on the Internet quickly, if something interesting turns up, copy, paste and save it on word page to review later when you have some time to spare. Meanwhile you save up on the cost of online charges.

A good size mail comes to your inbox daily. The best way in dealing with such document is to copy, paste and save.

vii. It is a small world

The following news item appearing on a newsletter on the Internet shows just how effective and efficient this medium of communication is. Although I wrote the news for Pasha Digital Manager’s Association, it was circulated and read by many more. Today, the relevance has hit home in level four assignment reading Frank Bass book on the Internet.

Maseno, Kenya (DMA) – Towards the end of Pasha training, a year ago, a handful men met around along set of connected tables at Maseno Agricultural Institute lecture room and took what the Chairman Mr. Nyumba described as “another big step in ICT Entrepreneurship long tradition of service to man and society.” This meeting marked the birth of Pasha Digital Manager’s Association, Kisumu Chapter.

Quickly disposing or organization matters, the newly elected executive committee members addressed themselves to the purpose, plans and program for which the association was established. Funding sources were explored in depth and individuals assigned to follow up. Preliminary project proposals were discussed in connection to enhancing the association’s capability and capacity once the program rolls out in March 2010.

Commenting on the actions plan, the association, secretary Mr. Michael Odenyo said,”ICT offers young people of this county a unique blend of opportunities for wealth and employment creation to enhance communication among members and beyond.”

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world? If so, how?

No book had prepared me for the challenge of research on the Internet like Internet Guide to Research and Reporting. A friend vying for an elective post asked me to come up with a manifesto shortly having finished reading the book. Below are excerpts of a document from three of the ten tips on Manifesto writing of I came up with for this friend, having waded through stacks of data.

Have something to say.
In the last two decades, the sugar Industry in this country has witnessed closing down of several sugar factories. Muhoroni Constituency alone is home to four sugar factories (Muhoroni, Chemelil, Miwani and Kibos), Muhoroni and Miwani are under receivership.

You’d think farmers in this sugar belt zone are laughing their way to the bank…. We have come along way in the past forty years of our existence as sugar cane farmers with few competent Kenya Sugar Board representatives.

Have points you want to make.
Majority of representatives to the Kenya Sugar Board Union have been situation leaders. A true representative of the local farmer must be willing to embrace responsibility.

Here is an area I am different from the rest, ‘A man of the people who shares the burden of sugar cane farmer. Reliable, reachable, not one once elected disappears to reappear during the next election as the case has been.

Don’t be vague –
“Manifesto is a public declaration of intentions opinions or purpose.” In the ever-increasing competitive important future of the sugar industry, your choice of a good leader is the first step to reaping the full benefits of cane production.

“Cast your vote where your cash grows.”

4. Quotes. Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“Its like the world’s biggest library – except all the books are on the floor.” I couldn’t agree more. No library has, is and is yet to be built can contain data in the form of books like the Internet.

“Its like a shopping mall after an earthquake.” Trying to find an item in the Internet without a clue where to look is like rummaging through the rubble/debris of the twin towers after September 11 2001, looking for survivors.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

Ratings.
A. How interesting was it to read? 7
B. How helpful were the content? 8
C. How easy was it to understand? 7
D. Would you recommend it to others? 8
E. What is the overall rating you would give it 7

The Associated Press Guide To News Writing

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea – News Writing techniques and tips on styles.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

i. Clarity.

“To write well is as difficult as being good,” Somerset Maugham once wrote. Writing is a skill just as painting and sculpture. In either case, the end justifies the means. Gardening is more close home analogy. Weed is a farmer’s headache. Left to grow among lath crops weeds will retard even stifle the crops growth to maturity.

Tomatoes do well during rainy season in Muhoroni. Tomato plants are washed by raindrops and so purged of tomato troubles from insects. Another precaution to take with tomatoes is proper pruning. A third and important way of reaping a good harvest of tomatoes is to rid the garden of weeds. Writing like gardening requires a lot of pruning to hammer out a good piece for publication. The write up must be clear to sustain interest along side other techniques writers use to spice up quality writing.

Clarity calls for skills and knowledge of the subject, organization of the content materials and a good command of grammar.

ii. Be short, familiar and specific.

Women authors are my favourite authors. Women attach a lot of feeling to writing, avoid jargon and use familiar situation analysis to bring life to the narrative in a coherent easy to read and interesting way.

Virginia Wolf in her book, ‘A Room of One’s Own, Wrote, :In order for a woman to write fiction, she must have two things; a room of her own and enough money to support herself.” Perhaps not too much to ask for you’d say, but there it is short, familiar and specific topical sentence devoid of clutter and vagueness.

iii. Writing Visually.

Tribal chiefs of indigenous different tribes in Kenya are behind a plot to weed out ‘outsiders,’ with a view to woe voters. Rumour is rife of massive rigging coming up to the 2007 General Election by the handlers of the incumbent President to retain a grip on power. Opposing party political movement is like a broken underground current sweeping across the nation. Chepkrui and Nderitu, like other mixed tribal marriage couples are caught in the wave, and are under enormous pressure from within and without their tribes. From this synopsis excerpt, you do well to think and write visually to whip up a good radio drama just like in all other writings.

Creating a mental picture in a reader’s mind is the ultimate success in writing. Done well, you’ll make the reader weep, laugh, take sides in the ensuing storyline, and challenge a reader’s intellect with a view to inform educate and entertain, all in one swoop.

“This is KTN Evening News,” elaborated in graphics, spoken words and vision. The caption and image of the world rotating on its axis is a scientific approach suggesting a realistic coverage of events, rid of bias. Visual narrative on television is key in documentation of events while narrative contributes information.

iv. The element of time in writing.

News thrives on time element, whether in print or electronic. The element of time is determined by two factors, the space on the newspaper and the period in which the event occurs.

a. Space – Television News is constructed through structure and space. The segmentation of news bulletin into national and international, hard and soft provides television stations with a comprehensive coverage of events, which meets the station’s commitment at the local and international levels.

b. Period – Several years ago, I wrote , “A Generation of Lazy Bones,” featuring bicycle taxis, commonly known in Kenya as ‘boda-boda.’ This article wasn’t published. Today, it is time barred. Motor-cycle mode of transport has taken over bicycle taxis. The article is now picking dust in my archive shelves. Perhaps in future something will trigger a fresh angle to rewrite and submit it. News has a short period lifetime. News too has a short lifetime. New and exciting events take place all the time, making yesterday’s news story old and irrelevant.

Here’s an excerpt of “A Generation of Lazy Bones,” for your reading pleasure.

Suddenly, there are hundreds of bicycles on the home stretch routes from the main road, charging a modest fee for a rough ride, which guarantees no safety in traveling. Nobody grimaces, no one complains about this mode of transportation. Many prefer the rural bicycle taxis commonly known as‘boda-boda’ to the old route eleven through the footpath to the rural homestead.

Instances where people’s faces have been rearranged when they flew off the rear end of ‘boda boda’is a common occurrence. Others have sustained multiple fractures on their knees and hands. Hips and shoulders have been dislocated from a fall off these bicycles. Yet ‘boda-boda,’ still remains the single most sought after mode of transportation around Kisumu City.

‘Boda-boda’ cyclists will swerve in front of motor vehicles, cut corners, go up the wrong way and nobody gives a hoot, law enforcement officers and even the one on the rear end of the bicycle included. These bicycle taxis also pose risk to pedestrians, other road users and themselves. They have no safety belts, no insurance, have no speed limits and don’t obey traffic rules, yet many prefer them anyway.

Society has become so sophisticated that people no longer walk a few yards to their destination. We have acquired yet another syndrome – Immunity to Daily Chores (AIDC). Technology has completely overtaken and replaced culture. ‘Boda-boda’ has ushered in A Generation Of Lazy Bones.

v. Variety in Diversity.

Short, familiar and specific sentences are preferred in news writing. However, variety offers balance and guards against monotony. There is no hard and fast rules on the frequency of short or long sentences in news item the writer is the judge in this case. But take care not to overload sentences with facts is a good rule of thumb to observe in news writing and reporting.

vi. Simplicity is key to news writing.

“KISS,” is a common accronymn in writing for “Keep It Simple Stupid.”

“When times are tough, people want something that will give them practical solutions they can use,” Margareta Hakanson, the manager of Keswick Book in Nairobi says. This quote is taken from the literary discourse of Nation Newspaper, underscores the importance of simplicity in writing.

Obviously, there are other reasons besides problems solving associated with Self-Help books current popularity over the novels in readership. One other reason many prefer motivational books to novels has to do with simplicity. I have read more than a dozen during the course of this study. Indeed motivational books are written in simple, straightforward, down to earth language, reason these books are a source of encouragement and comfort plus being easy read.

vii. “No news is good news.”

Here’s an excerpt of one from my shelf.

In most third world countries, talk on poverty eradication is common, yet nothing seems to change. One wonders if its poverty eradication or poverty tradition that needs addressed.

First, the paradox in the world’s economy must baffle every last one of us, whether in the third, second and first world countries if there be some in that category. It is the same story the world over. Developed countries have a universal language of explaining the condition of the world poor. Experts from these counties talk in terms of globalization, yet hardly explain how that word translates into a meal for a family in Southern Sudan where civil war has been raging for the past twenty-one years. World leaders hop from one summit meeting to the next signing treaties, which don’t effect change in the lives of communities at the grass root levels. Planners propose action plans to improve the condition of the poor, whereas the truth is, the world is better off the way it is than otherwise.

Second, third world countries remain poor due to global politics. However earnest some key players in the field of global economy are, the truth is, little is likely to be achieved in the current trend of events. Developed world is never going to help the underdeveloped out of their poverty problems. They must have subjects and third world countries are their subjects. Most of the riches developed countries glory in came from third world countries. Having plundered natural resources from third world mines, and starched them in their strong rooms in the West. Then at the opportune time, turned around and rewarded third world countries with fake political freedom, developed countries know won’t work in a million years. Developed countries choose who they want for a leader in third world countries. Desperate to hang on to fake political power, third world leaders give in, plunging the fragile economies of their nations into disarray. Developed countries also make sure they continue to control not only the resources they stole, but also whatever is left over. In that way the West continues to place more burdens on the already burdened African Governments economy.

Third, poverty is third world’s doing. Third world countries in particular Africa isn’t only poor because of unpaid debts, we owe the West. Africa’s poverty problem is also her own making. Third world governments don’t seem to get a grip on resource management. Great minds, people who have done justice to books, researchers, academicians, professors are among the citizens of third world countries. However, when it comes to solving poverty problems, third world countries have very few in that department.

Fourth, third world country citizens tend to believe that international aid will solve their poverty problems. Nothing could be further from the truth. Should the World Bank and International Monetary Fund (IMF) for some reason or rather decide to cut funding to Kenya for the next 50 years, will the country fizzle out? Kenyans will think of an alternative way to survive. Making noise running to the international court may be a complete waste of time and available meager resources. Of course these world financiers are not likely to do that. Donors too stand to loose from continuing to plunder still available natural resources through bilateral trade and money laundering for that is what lending is all about.

3. How will these ideas or lesson help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world? If so, how?

A reservoir of ideas and techniques on tips on new writing in this book triggered the quest to apply the principles in my writing. I may not be there yet, like old hands on the trade, but I am more confident in handling a news story than before level four of this course.

4. Quotes. Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

i. “Our treasury is words. We can’t afford to convert them into non-performing assets,” in the banker’s delicate phrase.

In his book, Non Violent Communication, A Language of Life, Marshall B. Rosensberg the following poem to underscore the importance of words in communication. The same is true in writing.

Words are Windows

I feel so sentenced by your words,

I feel so judged, and sent away,

Before I go, I’ve to know,

Is that what you mean to say?

ii. “Persons” and what they do, things and what is close to them are put in the background and we can only peer at them through a glass darkly.” Fowler’s Dictionary of Modern English. This statement sums up news, which is decided upon by a few individuals in the establishment. The real stories are buried under the rubble of the urgency to promote conspiracy.

iii. “Like a fiddle string a good lead is the product of the right tension.” A well-tuned guitar will give you the sound you desire and help you make music of your choice and desire.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

A. How interesting was it to read? 9
B. How helpful were the content? 9
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others? 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9

Deep Change: Discovering the Leader Within.

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya) 

1.  What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea in this book is about inner change and its implications on the external sphere of one’s life.

2.  What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

A.  Inner Change Vs Slow Death

Most people are under the impression that they’re in the land of the living on their way to the land of the dying. Nothing could be further from the truth. Consigning yourself to live an average lifestyle is nothing short of slow death.  On the other hand, if you’ve have a burning desire in the heart to fulfill the purpose for which you’re alive then deep change isn’t an option, its mandatory.

Forty years, Kenyan women have been negotiating for gender equality in vain. You would imagine reality should have sunk in by now.  Instead of a few privileged women fly off to Beijing, Cairo, Copenhagen and whatever place else when an opportunity comes up to agitate for gender agenda.  Every last woman must be a link in the chain in campaigning to bring about change in gender inequality.  Trying to beat down the path to men’s hearts through war of words on print and electronic media hasn’t yielded tangible results in the gender equality debate. It must start with inner change in each single woman in society.  The same is true in other aspects of life personal, professional, health and fitness, business, relationship, finance, career and the list goes on depending on your individual preferred area of improvement.

B.  Journey of A Lifetime.

You’re not anymore certain of tomorrow.  If you know for certain the action you’ve contemplating taking today will change the outcome of tomorrow’s uncertainty, you’d do anything humanly possible, sacrifice all for that desired outcome. You’d rid your heart of fear of the unknown.  That is the greatest challenge every individual has to grapple with every day on this life journey of a lifetime. How can you be so sure that simple actions like changing your internal representation to reflect the picture you desire in future will produce the real results tomorrow?  There are no sureties just as there are no restrictions except the restrictions you impose on yourself.  Rid yourself of the restrictions and your intended outcome is a reality.  In the same vein you can make assumptions based on past experience to attain principles for future outcome you anticipate.

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step,” An old Chinese proverb says.  It’s that first step that’s crucial for the completion of your journey of a lifetime..  No one sets to go on a journey without knowing the destination.  You already know where you’re living an average life.  You’re also vaguely aware of the kind of life you’d love to live in future.  You must determine how to get to your preferred destination in life.  Once your mind is locked on achievement, you’ll be endeared to set specific, measurable and attainable time bound goals on your journey of a life time

C.   A New Perspective.

Not everyone is privileged to know the purpose of their existence before or during or after the prime of their life. Those who do take necessary steps to achieve whatever their dreams in life are.  A majority who don’t simply drift along life without purpose, perhaps until something drastic stops them dead on their tracks.  Then and only then, a new perspective springs to life.  You don’t have to wait for life’s vicissitudes to jolt you to consciousness of finding a new perspective in life.  If you heed the prompting of your inner voice, a brand new world of new perspectives will open up to you.  There is also external evidences that should, if you care to look carefully at nature point you in that direction.  Besides, who wants to remain irrelevant in life?  Each of us all long for something fresh that only a new perceptive will provide.  Whether the new perspective comes from a slap on the face by a calamity, through observing nature or just the desire to evolve, you’ll be compelled to take your place of purpose on this universe.  Your life will have a new perceptive.  You’ll begin to do things not just for here and now but for tomorrow and eternity.

D.  People Power.

It’s rare to come across a large group of people who think and act with one accord.  Situations which prompt such togetherness are also few.  However, there have been cases throughout history of when whole populations rally behind a common course like during wars.  That is not to suggest there aren’t pockets of people working together towards achieving a similar common goal.  It’s also true that the idea may have been conceived by an individual who in turn shared the same with others who are no part of the process.  The important thing is, it’s easier to accomplish much through collective than individual participatory activity.

Food scarcity in Kenya would be a thing of the past if Kenyans shared a common goal to gain food sufficiency.  Through individual farmers efforts in collaboration and coordination with the ministry of agriculture Kenya wouldn’t have to look beyond its borders for food supplement.  Kenya has rich soil, two good rainfall seasons to produce enough food for local consumption and sell surplus to neighboring countries.  The planners of this country must tap into people’s power for enhanced productivity to achieve this goal.

E.  Confronting Issues not Discussed.

If there is one thing Kenyans are proud of as a nation, it’s our ability to forgive and move on with nation building despite the challenges in life.  But, there are also a lot of things we are ashamed of as a nation. In particular is our inability to confront and discuss touchy issues bordering on national unity.

Three separate distinct incidents have threatened to tear this county apart over the past four decades.  As far as anyone in Kenya is concerned these incidents have never been confronted and discussed to bring true healing and reconciliation.  It seems every other decade since independence, something sinister rattles the foundation of national unity in this country.  Thomas Joseph Mboya’s assassination a decade after Kenya attained independence created unresolved animosity between Kikuyus and Luos, the two most vocal tribes in Kenya. That a prominent politician is murdered in cold blood in broad daylight in the capital city Nairobi and the government machinery fails to apprehend the assassin seemed all too obviously a cover up.

Another instance Kenyans pulled together when they were pulled apart is during the politically instigated land clashes of 1992 which rocked this country from coast to coast. Land has always been a sensitive and thorny issue in this country, politicizing it only makes it loud.  That is exactly what triggered the land clashes.

Third and the most recent one is the post-election violence over the disputed presidential elections of 2007. Property of unknown value was destroyed, and many innocent citizens lost their lives during these skirmishes. These three incidents stand out as a sore thumb among Kenyans simply because all of them have yet to be confronted and discussed.  Covering them up is like sitting on a time bomb which must eventually explode.

F.  A Vision of One

Martin Luther King’s declaration, “I have a dream,” is a vision that was conceived by one. Its effect has influence on countless number of people around the world. Not many influential leaders are associated with transformational change as Martin Luther King.  Sometimes a vision of one that leads to transformational change may cost you your life like Luther but once the seed of transformational change is planted, nothing can stop or stifle it.  A vision usually starts with one person and is later embraced by a whole community, country or continent giving weight again to Ortega Gasset’s words, “Nothing is as powerful as an idea whose time has come.”

G. Fear of Change.

“We’ve never done it that way before.”  These are considered the seven last words of a dying church. The Church is one institution with a low pace of change.  It isn’t so much the Church as an institution, as its individuals in the Church that resist change.  The Church as a body of believers consists of members who live back in the 16th century in their minds and function in the present in their bodies.  A good number of these individuals are also members of the society.  Change resistance therefore permeates a cross section society in which these individuals are members.

Fear of change stems from fear of failure and pain.  It’s the latter which precipitates a strong affinity against change. The pain of the loss of grip on power, self-respect and all other painful experiences associated with it make many people’s hearts melt with fear.  Delay in coming up with a new constitution in Kenya has been largely due to fear of change.  The old generations were skeptical of the radical changes the new crops of young politicians were fronting particularly on evolution of power of the Presidency. But no matter how hard change is resisted, no matter how fearful some people react to it, deep change is inevitable for growth and prosperity of the individual, community and country.

3.  How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world?  If so, how?

Deep change is a very insightful book with principles for personal change of an individual.  It has greatly challenged me to take stock of my own life in relation to real transformation change.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“To bring about deep change in others, people have to reinvent themselves,” Quinn. External change depends on internal change of the individual whose new lifestyle influences others to make amends in their own personal lives.  Its ripple effect is the manifestation on an individual’s pattern of behavior and lifestyle.

“Travelling naked into the land of uncertainty,” Scott Pick. There is nothing as alluring in the life of an individual human being as the discovery of the unknown.  In deep change, the unknown is your potential to live a purposeful life.  This only comes when as Scott Pick says above, “travelling naked into the land of uncertainty.”

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

Rating

A.   How interesting was it to read?                           10
B.   How helpful were the content?                              9
C.   How easy was it to understand?                            9
D.   Would you recommend it to others?                  10
E.   What is the overall rating you would give it?        9

Servant Leadership:

A Journey into the Nature of Legitimate Power and Greatness

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya) 

1.  What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea in this book is servant leadership ( leadership that is people centered).

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

A.  Servant Leadership.

Servant leadership role model is best illustrated in the gospel of John chapter thirteen.  In this account, the model servant leader Jesus Christ sets the example of servant leadership by washing his disciples’ feet. A servant leader is first a servant then a leader. However servant leadership goes beyond mere serving others.  It calls for humility and patience among other qualities of character.  In Galatians 5:22, the apostle sets the moral tone of a Christian character,

“But the fruit of the spirit is love, joy peace long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, self-control, against these there is no law.” Paul says.

Robert Greenleaf in this excellent book on servant leadership challenges the reader in using similar examples of servant leadership in the secular and spiritual life.  He admonishes today’s leaders to model these rare qualities from historical role models to produce the same result in the various institutions. Throughout history, there have been few role models of servant leaders.  Mohandas Gandhi is one of the few role models in the third world who exhibited the qualities of a servant leader in the struggle for India’s independence.  In his book “Change the World,” Robert E. Quinn quotes Jesus Christ, Mohandas Gandhi, and Martin Luther King Jr. as role models for transformational change.  Transformational change is only possible in an institution led by a servant leader. The spirit of these three historical figures lives on and is quickly catching on in today’s world of rapid changes.

B. Embody a vision of common good.

Mission and Vision statement on organization building walls are becoming standard practice in Kenya today.  In the District hospital in Kisumu City, the blue coloured writing on the hospital’s vision, mission and motto against a white background wall is hard to miss. In Chemelil Sugar factory, large black bold type phase letters of the company’s vision, mission and motto are laminated on A4 size card and pinned to the wall at strategic entry points in each departments of the factory.  The rationale behind these displays of vision, mission and motto is for the concern of the common good.  It’s hard to know sentiments expressed on these documents represent the wishes of all staff members. Chances are these words are the architect of a small group of top level management who are under pressure to come up with similar documents to satisfy a status quo.

The truth is, if these were shared sentiments among all staff members, collective responsibility for improved productivity would be the result. Mere words of vision, mission and motto and don’t translate into performance or enhance productivity in any organization.  Words alone don’t mean much.  Unless people breathe life into these words through collective participation for the purposes of transformation, these institutions are bound to collapse as has been in the case of Miwani, Kicomi and Muhoroni Sugar Companies among others in this region. Chemelil factory which seems stable is performing dismally with the vision, mission, and motto on walls in the factory premises screaming out in black bold type phases.

C. Leadership Crisis.

The African continent has taken an overdose of leadership crisis prescription medicine.  The continent is endowed with great reserves of natural resources.  Africa’s leadership crisis has nothing to do with human resources. Africa’s leadership crisis, although partly inherited from years of colonialism is more of a hangover attitude.  Its roots are deeply entrenched in the lack of knowledge and skills that a good leader is a servant first, then a leader second. Much of what the author documents is foreign phenomenon in the African context of leadership. Most African leaders (not in Diaspora) read and quote world great leaders like Gandhi, Winston Churchill, and J.F Kennedy on a number of issues except servant leadership.  African leaders can’t handle the challenge of servant leadership fearing the consequences of losing a tight grip on coercive power to rule and govern their countries.

D. Listening and Understanding: Two True Marks of Servant Leadership

Today’s leadership crisis the world over arises from inability of present leaders to listen and understand the real concerns of those they lead.  Technology to enhance effective communication isn’t in short supply.  Through print on electronic media, besides one on one word of mouth, it’s easy to reach whole populations instantly and simultaneously with a message.  The internet has made good the promise of the world becoming a global village.

All these channels are primarily used to send and receive information. Hardly do leaders exploit the potential of these channels to trade the idea of servant leadership between communities, countries and continents.  Today’s leaders quote but do not apply the prayer of San Francis of Assisi,.

“Lord grant that I may not seek so much to be understood as to understand.” It’s only through listening that a leader will understand and take the concern of the led into consideration.  Confrontational and not convincing is a common type of leadership style heading most institutions today.  In one way, these leaders are in confrontation with one other.  In another way, they force power down the throats of the led though outdated rules and regulations.  Top down approach as opposed to bottom up management still carries the day. Not many sitting at the top level management of our intuitions care about the real needs and concerns voiced by those at the grass root levels.  Rules and regulations are passed down from up with impunity and little regard for those at the bottom representing a majority.  This is the same group of people who spin the wheel of development in communities, countries and continents.  These people at the bottom are the ones leaders should accord listening and understanding.

E. Institutions as Servants.

Today’s generation has important tasks to perform just as yesterday’s generation.  Only a few individual are actively involved in running business enterprises which create wealth and employment for others.  Some are investors, who determine a country’s economy.  Others write book which are read to enrich other peoples’ lives.  But a majority does no more than simply exist.  It’s the minority who maintain institution around which a community’s lifestyle is built and revolves.  While these small individual groups of people make great contributions in society, they come and go.  Institutions outlive individuals and generation.  Governments, Churches, Banks, Schools all these and other institutions came before any one of us in this generation arrived on the scene and they’ll be there as servants long after you and I make exit.  The challenge for us is to cease the opportunity to change and maintain these institutions for the generations next.  Those before us did exactly that.  It’s now our duty to do the same.  In essence “we have borrowed the earth from our children” a UN report on environmental conservation states.

F. Servant Leadership: Role Model Leadership Style for the 21st Century and Beyond.

The New Testament book of John 8:3 provides servant leadership role model for the twenty first century and beyond.  This is the account of the story of the woman brought to Jesus by the Scribes and Pharisees accused of committing adultery.  In this account, you find two types of leaders:  The Scribes and Pharisees on the one hand and Jesus Christ on the other hand.  The Scribes and Pharisees represent confrontational type of leadership, while Jesus represents the convincing persuasive type of leader.

“But Jesus stooped down and with is fingers wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not,” verse 6.  The record of what Jesus wrote on the ground is unknown.  There is also no indication that his accusers read the writing.  What is clear is that Jesus carefully thought through his choice of responses as He wrote on the ground and settled on withdrawal. Jesus could have reasoned with them. He could also abstain from getting muddled up in their traditional affairs of tradition. Instead, Jesus came up with a sure fire solution to the problem at hand.

“He that is without sin among you let him cast the first stone at her,” Jesus said in verse seven.  That single simple statement dealt a heavy blow on the Scribes and Pharisees blotted righteous ego.  Jesus gave them a double dose of their own medicine. None of them had the courage to stand around, let alone challenge Him.  However, Jesus still had the woman’s dilemma to solve and solving He did in verse 11,

“Go sin no more,” Jesus told the woman.  Such is the distilled wisdom servant leadership is made of.  Humility and withdrawal of Jesus in this account are two rare servant leadership qualities lacking in today’s type of leaders for transformational change in various institutions in society.  In withdrawing from confronting his accusers, Jesus drew from his “optimum.” He then unleashed humility and the scribes and Pharisees couldn’t handle this revolutionary type of leadership, they fled.

G.  Servant Leadership is “an idea whose time has come,”

Mohandas Gandhi is one in a million who embodied a vision for the common good. Through words and deed, Gandhi exhibited true marks of servant leadership.  He lived what he preached. “We shall never be able to raise the standard of public life through laws. Only if the lives of leaders …are perfect will they be able to produce any effect on the people,” Gandhi said. Gandhi is a role model of servant leadership.  He sought to serve before becoming a leader in India.  Unlike today’s chest thumping crop of leaders, Gandhi was humble and focused. The result of this man’s humility in serving his people has paid off in full over the years not only in India but in other parts of the world.  Gandhi is one of the most quoted figures in history besides Jesus Christ.

3.  How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?  If so, how?

Model servant leadership presented in this book are exemplary, excellent and relevant for today.  These ideas have given me a breath of fresh air to take a stab at servant leadership style for my own individual transformation first.  Next I shall put these ideas into practical use in the local community where I live with the ultimate aim of sharing these principles as I interact with others in business, Church, and organization in Kenya.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“Nothing is as powerful as an idea whose time has come,” Ortega Gasset wrote.  Indeed servant leadership style is one such idea, which is relevant today and in the future.  This idea is deeply rooted in the individual’s work for the common good.  Quick process of achieving transformational change is through this type of leadership style.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?  If so, please comment.

No

A.  How interesting was it to read?                            10
B.  How helpful were the content?                             10
C.  How easy was it to understand?                             9
D.  Would you recommend it to others?                    10
E.  What is the overall rating you would give it?       10

The Elements of Journalism.

What Newspapers Should Know and the Public Should Expect.

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea in this book revolves around elements of good journalism.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

In this section, I take a close look at some of the elements outlined in the book which make good journalism a worthwhile profession

i. “Journalists first obligation is to the truth.”

“And ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free,” Jesus said in John 8:32.  Truth conjures different meanings in different people’s minds.  However, certain elements of this word hold steady in defining and deciding what is considered the “truth,” whether from journalism, scientific or spiritual spheres.  In journalism lingo, “truth,” is new that can be verified with facts and figures traceable to reliable sources.

News by any nature is a consumable commodity whose sell by date is determined by the day today events.  A news item may have historical relevance but its significance is in the present period.  Therefore, news sell by date makes verification of facts to the “truth,” difficult if not impossible.  If indeed Journalists’ first obligation is to the truth, then they too should be made to take the oath of obligation similar in nature to one taken by those appearing in court before a judge

“I shall tell the “truth,” the whole truth, so help me God.” That would be the ideal.  In the real world, all a journalist needs is a pen, a note pad perhaps a camera, sign Journalism code of ethics and its business as usual.  A journalist may run and ruin the lives of many citizens through bias reporting and take no responsibility for it.  Journalists are protected by the association and the media house.  They’ve someone to fall back on in the case of erroneous misreporting of facts.  That’s where their obligating stays.  As for the “truth,” well you know the rhythm of the music of Journalism is determined by the boss.  When media house asks the Journalist to jump, the journalist does not ask why but how high.  Not all journalists are in the job for the paycheck.  There are those who indeed are called to investigate and report the truth whatever the cost.  They may be few in number in comparison with the crowd.  It’s in small numbers that bigger and better results are achieved.  An African proverb says, “Many rats do not dig a hole,” subsequently a majority of journalist obligation is to the “truth.”

ii. “Journalists first loyalty is to citizens.”

No one denies that a journalist’s first loyalty is to the citizens.  Incidences of rebellion within media houses of malpractices is proof enough of this fact.  News organizations come into confrontation with the government of the day over the same the entire item.  But such cases are rare and pale in comparison to journalists’ loyalty to the media houses. Under pressure of competing for advertising, new trivialities are blown up, the vulgar emphasized, ethic forgotten” Kwame Nkrumah once said in the African Journalist.  Other times, the sponsoring media houses are in cohort with the citizens.  On two occasions, the Nation newspaper (our local daily newspaper and a big media house) fell flat on the face in loyalty to the citizens.  In both cases Nation Journalists blatantly lied to Kenyans regarding the mysterious death of two prominent politicians.  In 1975 JM Kariuki murder and in 1990 Dr. Robert Ouko’s mysterious disappearance and death.  Although these two deaths occurred during different presidents Kenyatta and Moi respectively, similarities in the cover up of news stories by the Nation were more glaring.  One wonders how many such cover ups the Nation cleverly got away with because the cases didn’t flare up public furry as in the two murders.  That is not to suggest for a moment that the nation hasn’t been at the forefront of championing causes of  loyalty to citizens.  The Anglo Leasing scandal (2003 financial mega scandal that implicated senior government officials in the Kibaki administration) is a ground breaking news scoop for the newspaper.  In the whole, citizens should help speed up the process that result in the Journalists loyalty to them by naming and shaming culprits involved in fleecing public coffers unless they are part of the establishment.

iii.  “The essence of Journalism is a discipline of verification.”

The speed and frequency of new gathering and reporting makes verification of facts hard if not impossible to arrive at in journalism.  News rooms work on deadlines.  Newspapers are produced daily hence the cliché “by the time we went to the press,” casts doubt on the validity of the verification of facts and figures on a new item.  Electronic media outlets have tighter schedules.  The squeeze on time in radio and television sometimes leads to unorthodox ways of verification just to beat the deadline for broadcast.  Scientific method of verification goes through five stages to attain authenticity.

News is big business.  Business is fast and foremost guided by profitability.  Newsrooms aren’t in the business for fun.  They can’t afford the luxury of the five stages of scientific verification of facts if they did, their business would stall.

iv. “Journalists must maintain independence from those they serve.”

From its origin, Journalism has always been a discourse of public concern.  Journalists as members of the public cannot completely divorce themselves from the issues they report on.  These issues concern them too.  However, the journalist must strive to separate, maintain an act as the devil’s advocate in news reporting.  In which case, Journalists are unable to strike a balance to main independence from those they serve.  In serving others in society, journalists also get served in turn.  Unearthing and exposing corrupt cases in high places of government that Journalists serve the purpose of meeting not only their individual quest for zero tolerance on the vice, but also it serves and saves the country from loosing valuable funds that can be channeled into development for good of the country and citizens.

Kenya has a history of under the table deals, which could have gone unnoticed were it not for the journalists who maintain independence from those they serve the government as institution included.

v. “Journalism must serve as independent monitor of power.”

Improper influence by government legal system complicates the matrix of objectivity in Journalism.  Predictability of events and movement of government news sources (politician), constrains reporters to draw up cheap formulas in news reporting.  These formulas provide a wealth of information for political activities and personalities.  This information becomes handy in writing another story on a dry day when no sensational news trickles into the newsroom.  In such cases, Journalists can’t serve as independent monitors of power.  Instead of “scoops,” which promotes a journalist’s career on merit, fear of damage of being excluded from the inner circle of Journalist who have access politicians creep in clouding a journalist’s independence monitoring of power.

“No government ought to be without censors and where the press is no one ever will,” Thomas Jefferson once told George Washington

vi. “Journalism should keep the new comprehensive and proportional.”

This is the exception rather than rule.  Efforts to keep the news comprehensive and proportional is laudable, however, it’s rare because news as a text is constructed through structure.  The segmentation of a news bulletin into national and international, hard and soft news provide television stations with a comprehensive coverage of events that meet the stations commitment at a local angle.

“…the news must appeal to a large and heterogeneous audience, ..with respect to structure the underlying assumption of news organization ….segmentation will ensure the kind of variety that can appeal to abroad market,” Klaus.

Methodology of story organization adopted in television news is another factor in news structure. The method is characterized by the story lead and the inverted pyramid style summing up and then elaborating on the story from different perspectives later.  Television news becomes a constructed discourse of events which may totally be irrelevant from each other.

vii.  A free press in an electronic age

“Technology is transforming citizens from passive consumers of news produced by professional into active participants who can assemble their own Journalism from desperate elements, “the authors of this book assert.  This is both welcome news and a worrying concern.

A free press is welcome because news gathering and dissemination is no longer a preserve of the so called professional – Journalists.  In their pious to main independence from those they serve the public, Journalists create barriers which completely alienate them from others and causing tension between them and the public. The result is sometimes often undesirable.  Journalists black out certain news items in favour of their preferred ones leaving out a huge chunk of relevant events unreported for the public good.  Today, anyone can comment and report on events and happening on the web without interference from the protocol of Journalism and media houses.  Thanks to the Internet.

However, this freedom of press comes complete with ups and downs.  Just because an avenue for gathering and disseminating information is available does not absolve anyone to adhere to the principles of the profession of Journalism outlined in this book.  Failure to uphold these principles makes the free press a worrying concern.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?  If so, how?

The principles of Journalism outlined in this book, have provided me with the necessary tools not only to challenge the status  quo of the old school of Journalism, but to uphold these principles in high esteem as a journalist in a free press electronic age.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention?  If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“I want to give voice to people who need the voice…people who are powerless,” Tom Brokaw.  These sentiments expressed by Tom is the intention of every last one who values the importance of new for the protection, bonding and identification of friends and foe to live in harmony with each other.  Not everyone can be a journalist but the few who find fulfillment in this field become “a voice to the voiceless.”

“What we need in the new economy and the new communications culture is sense making.  We have a desperate need to get some points in an increasing crazy world,” John Brown, founder Xerox.  In today’s rapid changing world, news plays a crucial role in driving global economy.  Journalists must change with the times to stay relevant in the profession, yet still make sense out of nonsense of that is going on around for the common good of the public.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7.  Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?  If so, please comment.

A. How interesting was it to read?                             8
B.  How helpful were the content?                             8
C.  How easy was it to understand?                           7
D.  Would you recommend it to others?                    7
E.   What is the overall rating you would give it?      8

Change the World.

How Ordinary People can Accomplish Extraordinary Results.

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea in this book is change.

2.  What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

A. Analogy of seed used by Robert Quinn the author of Change the World to explain change process and strategy sits well in the context of an agricultural country such as Kenya.  The different seed transformation stages to maturity are often taken for granted by farmers.  Nevertheless, the concept of change is well understood within this context.   A number of similarities between seed and human change transformation come to mind.

i. First, prior planning is essential before planting just as they say in managements’ 5 ‘Ps’ i.e. prior proper planning prevents poor performance.  This includes, soil preparation, timing in line with climatic conditions and the type of seed.  The same is true of human change process.  It takes place within a conducive environment.  Sometimes the need for change is occasioned by chaos. In which case, the challenge to work to salvage the situation for the moment and future is at stake.  Once human need for change is identified, prior preparation is done for the process to take place within a given time frame.

ii. Second, process of germination.  Seed germination is provided by sunshine and rain.  Rain moisturizes the ground and prompts seed growth transformation while the sun speeds up the process to maturity.  Once human need for change is identified, plans are put in place; transformation then takes effect depending on the first prior planning and the commitment of change agents.

iii. Third, procedure of change. In between the process of germination to maturity and harvest is procedure, a vital link that requires intensive labor by the farmer.  Procedure involves weeding, pruning and tending to the plant to grow well.  Human beings’ transformation change is no different.  Individuals have to weed out defeating negative thoughts within and reprogram the mind for transformational change.

B.  “Change We Need,” is the slogan Democratic Presidential camp used in the run up to 2008 Presidential election.  Change is certainly inevitable in any society the world over, ours included.  But unlike the change the citizens of United States of America USA so desperately need for years of Republican rule, ours own situation in Kenya calls for a rephrase of this slogan.  Better yet, ours is the “Change We Don’t Need,” the very opposite of Americans “Change We Need.” Fine tuning Kenyan political party’s manifestos may seem and sound good on paper but the end result is poor performance.  This was the case in 2002 General Election. Change from years of KANU (Kenya African National Union – the independence party) rule and mismanagement of public funds was inevitable.  NARC’s (National Rainbow Coalition) landslide victory over the independent party KANU marked a change of guard but not governance.  Old KANU guard in the new government simply regrouped and started the ‘Let’s Eat Party Policies.’ NARC’s promises of a new constitution in a hundred days, zero tolerance on corruption have dogged the coalition government shredding it to tribal political parties.  Deep gaping wounds of tribal animosity emerged and took centre stage in the Kenyan political jungle.  That is “Change We Don’t Need.” Transformation change ushers in a new dispensation of democracy and governance.

C. Internal and External changes are necessary for transformation.

Selwyn Hughes, the author of “Everyday with Jesus,” devotional book points out that the Lord’s Prayer falls into two divisions.  The first section focuses on God, while the second part on human beings. He further explains that this second section of prayer takes into account three levels of human life; physical, psychological, and the spiritual.  In a previous assignment, I briefly mentioned the importance of the three prong approach to a complete and comprehensive transformation change of an individual.  The same yardstick is applicable in changing communities, organizations, countries and continents perspectives.  However, transformation change begins with an individual and the ripple effect is felt in all aspects of life around.

D. The Enemy Within.

For centuries, the Christian Church has been tainted by corruption and dissension.  Self interest among leaders is the greatest stumbling block to the unity of the Church.  Factions, lawsuits continue to plague the Church as an institution while individual members sit at a safe distance to watch and apportion blame on each other.  One local daily newspaper columnist commenting on the continuing saga on the artifacts in Presbyterian Church of East Africa remarked,

“The devil has indeed entered the Church.”  It seems that forces of evil which one wagged war from outside are today camping and doing battle in the Church backyard.  These disputes should come as no surprise to Christian. You only need to look at the Church in history to discover that these struggles originate from within and not without.  The Church as an institution only functions within the perimeter of the intension and desires of her members.  Unless and until there is change of individuals’ attitude from the inside, little headway is unlikely on the external (collective fellowship members’ body).  The same principle holds true in changing the world.  Change has to begin within.  The effect then transcends horizontally and vertically.  Horizontally as individual persons in community, church, and country are connected to each other and the change transformation increases effortlessly within these boundaries. The real enemy in change transformation is from within and not without.

E.  Organization’s Inner Voice.

Most mechanics in “Jua Kali, (informal vehicle repair Sector) in Kenya are in no hurry.  Your cry to have the car repaired and back on the road in the shortest time possible may very well be falling on deaf ear.  You’re almost in tear.  That doesn’t move him to action.  He’ll walk around the car like a policeperson on patrol at roadblock.  You’ve said umpteenth time the carburetor is acting up.  Before he flings the car bonnet open to take a peak, it’s a while.  If you’ve a short fuse, you’ve had it replaced two three times already but not.  ‘One more snails move like that and I’m out of this guy’s garage in a fit of rage,’ you contemplate.  Finally, he unclogs the carburetor from the engine, turns it over, looks at it curiously, shakes it a bit and puts it down. He then takes along gaze into some distant destination. Mechanics know how the car system works.  He’ll hear things you can’t hear in the car engine.  The unfamiliar sound from the carburetor is the inner voice of the car engine.  Once the mechanic is certain of the message of that inner voice, he’ll then go to work and within a short period of time, you’re back on the road burning rubber to your preferred destination.  Your body works on the same principle.  If you care to closely examine and list to it.  God has set in motion harmony between the body parts and the brain.  The car is good if the engine is tuned up, its body parts, fuel in place and joints oiled.  Same is true with your body.  But you’ve to tune it up by listening to your inner voice.  That is the system alert mechanism that tell you the body is tired, you need to take a rest. Your stomach is rumbling, says you’re hungry and need nourishment.  Other times, your body will cry out loud with pain when you’re sick that you ignore it at your own peril.  Your inner voice will not only warn you of impending dangers, it will also prompt you take appropriate action to avert the same.  This same inner voice also guides you to make decisions to improve your personal and professional life.  Transformational change depends on listening to the inner voice.

F. Facing fear of Failure

Hypocrisy may not sound as bad as it hurts.  You don’t accept yourself enough, so you slide into a role and act the part you’re comfortable with in life.  You’ve done this so well, so often it has become your second nature.  That’s the good news.  The bad news is revealed when the mask comes off and your true identify is exposed.  You’re then branded a hypocrite.  You may not like it as much.  But as long as you continue to wear a mask, you remain the same immature person you were when the curtain went up on stage in which you played the role, acting the part wearing a mask.  In the case of failure, it’s the loss of approval and goodwill from family, friends and colleagues at work.  You’re inclined to compromise standards and stand on your core values in life.  Instead of its negative connotation, Quinn uses practical life experience of individuals as a source of transformational power for real change in the world.

G. Running the Risk of the Reward.

“It’s all too easy to view ourselves as passive observers or powerless victims.  We want to change our realities, but lack the motivation to do so.”  These words contained in the sleeve jacket of the book “Change the World,” summarize the present situation in the world today.  You imagine a better life than the one you live in now.  You long to live a stress free life where everything you desire and need is at your beck and call.  Short comings in health and indeed other aspects of life stare at you squarely in the eye every day.  Sometimes, you’re so overwhelmed by ill health the body system is unable to kick start into motion.  The answer solution to this challenge rests with you.  Once you’ve identified the problem, you must then set out to find the solution.  The solution isn’t out there somewhere.  It’s within you.  You know you can do better in this or the other areas of your life if you purpose to change.  Throughout the book, the author enumerates seeds of transformational change. However, change doesn’t come cheap and easy.  Change requires that you listen and heed our inner voice that you commit to take whatever necessary steps and action to effect the same.  You may run the risk of being branded names in your pursuit for change.  But if you visualize the outcome as desirable, you’ll stop at nothing to achieve it, sometimes at the expense of running the risk of the reward

3. How will these ideas or lesson helps you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?  If so, how?

The principles of change outlined in this book are timely, relevant and sound for a community such as ours.  These principles have tremendously changed my way of thinking.  I intend to internalize and use them to have impact on other people living in the local community around, particularly the youth who will commit to making a difference for the generation next.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention?  If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“They shall lay their hands on you, and persecute you..” These words from the gospel of Luke point our two reasons inherent in transformational change.  First, change takes place only when pain is involved.  In this case of the disciples of Jesus Christ their warm nest at Jerusalem was overturned by persecution of the Church. They were forced to flee Jerusalem and seek refugee elsewhere.  During their fright flight, the disciples fulfilled the great commission, witnessing about Jesus. If not forced out of Jerusalem by persecution, the disciple of Jesus Christ were content living a life of mediocrity.  They were not prepared to attempt the impossible task of being witnesses to the uttermost parts of the world.  Second, change isn’t complete until it has a ripple effect outside of the individual.  The disciples were changed from within, they in turn changed the world upside up through their bold witnessing of the resurrection of Christ.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7.  Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?  If so, please comment.

A.     How interesting was it to read?                                     9
B.      How helpful were the content?                                     10
C.      How easy was it to understand?                                   9
D.     Would you recommend it to others?                             10
E.       What is the overall rating you would give it?              9

Synchronicity

The Inner Path of Leadership

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya) 

 

1.  What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea revolves around the inner path of leadership.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

“It’s a sign of a good book when the book reads you,” such has been the case in reading Synchronicity by Joseph Jaworski.  Although incidents described in this book mirror the author’s life, nevertheless, they’re relevant and significant to my own discovery of purpose living.  Unlike other books in the course, that swell directly with the subject matter, Synchronicity takes an indirect approach to expound the principles of leadership though the story of the life of the author and in his interaction with others in his way to create a leadership role model outfit in America.  I’d like to share some of the experiences that correspond directly others indirectly to Jawrorski’s that have shaped my own life.

A. Connectivity

Plant life provides enormous lessons in understanding connectivity of things present in the universe.  On the other hand, you’ll understand different part functions, their contribution to growth towards maturity of the plant.  Relate these connectedness and you’ve many parallel lessons to help you discover and understand yourself as part of the whole creation.

Here is the relevance of this connectivity to human beings.

Your body needs nourishment which comes from plants and animals present in nature to survive.   In that way you’re connected to the whole as an individual part in the universe. You are also a separate being from plants, animals and sea life.  In that sense, you’ve a unique identity.  In your separate unique identity are parts of the body which functions through interconnectivity to maintain and sustain the individual person.  These individual body parts are like components put together in a circuit board by the manufacturer.  Only, body parts are not identical as in the innate radio or television circuit board.  You’re unique.  You’re one of a kind.  There is no one else like you alive or dead.  Of course you do share certain qualities with everyone else.  You’ve a likeness with other human being.  However, your unique individuality traits aren’t shared or transferrable particularly your thoughts.   Within you as indeed in the unique universe there are forces and functions that collide.  None of them is necessarily bad except as you perceive the outcome of the collision.  Behind the connectivity between plants, people, animals and sea life, there is a greater power that sustains, maintains and provides the balance. It’s through what Jaworski calls synchronicity, that I refer to as connectivity in persons that made his task of coming up with a leadership forum in America possible.

B.  Journey of A life time.

For so long, I struggled to break free from my past with little success.  Every once in a while a flicker of light comes on the strong wind of adversity from the past memories strongly blew over and reduced it to near extinction.  I was under siege by the past. Failures, blunders and mistakes of the past literally claimed every available space for future improvement in my life.  Deep disturbing doubts would invade and permeate the privacy of my brain at the most opportune times of resourcefulness.

All this time, like Joseph Jaworski, the prompting of inner voice of better future prospects kept nagging to lift up the head and keep my eyes on the price above the head which only came with time.

C. Freedom

Today, there’s the light of hope is shining bright in my members of a better future.  I’m not there yet but the prospects are promising.  This light which broke through the clouds of doubt a few years ago is so distinct, I’d have no one to blame but myself for not allowing it take root and germinate to maturity and change the course of my life for time and eternity.

D. The Dream

Joseph the Hebrew lad sold as a slave to Potiphar an officer of Pharaoh is often referred to as the dreamer,

“Behold the dreamer cometh,” his brothers said to one another as Joseph approached them on that eventful day.  Martin Luther King Junior’s declaration, “I have a dream,” in fighting injustice and prejudice against African Americans has become a clarion call the world over “to dream the impossible.”  Everyone dreams, dreams.  There are as many dreams and visions as there are people in this world. Such was in the case of Joseph Jaworski’s dream of coming up with the America Leadership forum.

In changing the perspective of Kenyans from viewing themselves as different tribes first and Kenyans second, sounds like a tall order.  But that is because a majority of people reason and react in the realm of the physical and not the spiritual.  I’m a unique and different so everyone and my dream are to forge a Kenyan nation without tribe barriers.  The forty two odd tribes in Kenya stand to gain immensely when they can share a common national dream and that’s what intrigues me for the generation next in this country.  A decade ago this dream began to take root in my members.  Building on the principle of synchronicity outlined in the book by Jaworski, the dream is a guaranteed reality in the years to come.

E. In Synchronicity, Crossing the Threshold is like Walking through the Gate.

In any airport the world over, passengers must pass several gates coming and going out of a country.  There’s the gate to the main lounge that you’ll pass through and sit in to wait once your flight is confirmed at the departures reception desk.  You also must go through the last gate onto the runway.  Of immense importance is the gate with the detector machine.  Here’s where your luggage, unaccompanied and accompanied are scanned and checked for anything unwanted from drugs to guns.  It is also in going through this gate you’re certain of taking the plane.  Should anything be a miss, you won’t be allowed to board and continue with your journey, ticket all paid for in hand, visa, passport and whatever else you carried for the journey.

Shifting your mind to focus on living on purpose as a spiritual being having a physical experience is much the same as walking through this gate.  The gate is always open.  You’re welcome to walk through any time you choose and want to.  However, every time you’ve made the move in the past, something on the other side of the divide you feel is important in your life to attend to before you proceed popped up.  Whatever it is that distracts and diverts your attention to go through the shift in your mind stand in the way of living on purpose.  Walking through the physical literal gate, to catch the next flight out to your preferred destination is like a shift in your mind.  You’ll live in freedom, no uncertainty, and enjoy stress free atmosphere of living your life on purpose.

F.  Oneness – Synchronicity

It’s easy to live among many people; loved ones included, yet feel lonely.  You may also have friends and family all around yet live individual unfulfilled life.  Just as walking through the wilderness in your body, you can also walk through the wilderness in your brain.  Reasons for this style of life vary, the main one being failure to recognize the purpose for which you’re alive on this planet earth.  Everything is provided and available, the choice to access and enjoy abundant life through being in one accord with others as Joseph Jaworski found out as he met people who had shared the same vision and operated on the same level of life to form the American Leadership Forum.  In the past decade, I’ve been able to listen more to the inner voice within me and more and more I’m walking away in my mind and thinking sufficiency instead of scarcity, fulfillment instead of failure, prosperity instead of poverty.  Once like Joseph I came out of that wilderness in my mind, I no longer desire to go back in there again because my life has taken on a meaning, living on purpose to create something for the common good to the Kenyan society.

G.  Commitment

Once, I walked through the gate in my mind like Joseph Jaworski, to start living as a spiritual being having a physical experience, the flow of what Jaworski needed to start the leadership forum flowed into his vibration of attraction.  He met people who led him to others who in turn became pillars in the project Jaworski only thought of in the mind. Throughout his inner path journey, Jaworski remained committed to his goal in fulfilling his dream of bringing into reality the American Leadership Forum.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world?  If so, how?

Reading synchronicity triggered many incidents which have shaped my own life.  I’d like to share some of them that correspond directly, others indirectly to Jaworski’s experiences and the significance they’ve play in getting my life back on purpose.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention?  If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“The world we have created is a product of our way of thinking,” Einstein said.  Similar sentiments have been repeatedly expressed by different authors in the course of this study.  In “Success through A Positive Mental Attitude,” Napoleon Hill quotes Andrew Carnegie, “Anything in life worth having is worth working for.”  James Allen in his ground breaking book “As A Man Thinketh,” said, “A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of his thoughts.”  These are not just powerful words of wisdom; they’re also leadership guiding principles to live by as Joseph Jaworski asserts in the book Synchronicity.

“A crucial part of our life’s journey is the struggle to overcome baggage in order to ultimately operate in the flow of the unfolding generative order.” Every last human being hauls around life’s path a certain amount of baggage from the past.  Some people drag trolleys overflowing with all kinds of luggage.  Others only carry a bit as hand luggage.  While rest are heaving under the weight of luggage overload, the choice and size of the luggage depends entirely on you and your preferred destination.

In a real life situation you only pack enough clothing, toiletry and other personal items you need for the journey.  Unfortunately, some people are over packed on the way to successful living.  Whatever they carry as hand luggage, could very well pass through as unaccompanied baggage in air travel.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?  If so, please comment.

A.  How interesting was it to read?                                        10
B.  How helpful were the content?                                         10
C.  How easy was it to understand?                                       10
D.  Would you recommend it to others?                                10
E.   What is the overall rating you would give it?                  10

Encouraging the Heart

A Leader’s Guide to Internet Rewarding and Recognizing Others.

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya) 

1. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea in this book is encouraging the heart.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

A. Heartbeat of Leadership – Leading by Example

James M Kouzes and Barry Z. Posner in the book “Encouraging the Heart,” have touched on the heartbeat of leadership.  Off all the essential elements of encouraging the heart nothing comes close to leading by example.  People often tend to follow someone who sets exemplary lifestyle in any field be it work, family, leisure, health, business.  Research also reveals that a good leader at the place of work is also a good father figure at home to his children, and a role model in the community.

B. The first essential element of encouraging the heat is to “Set Clear Standards.”

Nothing works in favour of the leader and the followers as a set of clear standards.  In the first place it would be difficult to have a common ground say at the work place if there were no set clear standards to follow.  Secondly, people work best with set standards in organizations.  Third, set clear standard are the road map to achieving organizations goals.  Other than these three fundamentally basic reasons, are individual personal motivating reasons that drive the constituents to achievement.  The first thing that impressed me about working with Muhoroni Sugar Company is their set clear standards in productivity.  In Muhoroni Sugar for example, reports on production must be done and ready every month end.  Once this was communicated to me, that set clear standard in my line of work became the number one priority.  If there are areas of disagreement in this company, it is not on set clear standards.

C. The second essential element of encouraging the heart is to “Expect the Best.”

In psychology, it’s referred to as “self fulfilling prophecy,” a phrase coined by Robert Merton professor of Sociology in Columbia. In religion particularly Christianity, it’s simply known as faith.  Whichever approach you take to encourage the heart, the end result is the same, as long as the leader and the led share similar organization’s expectations.

It is not enough for a leader to only set clear standards.  These clear set standards call for the best expectations for accomplishment not just from subordinates but also the leader side.  The set clear standards of an organization are exemplified by the leader who exhibits the best expectations to the subordinates.  The ripple effect runs in the system of management as the effect rubs off the individual leader, group and company on the way to achieving goals.  However, this good system of management is only possible through sharing the organization’s expectations between the leaders and subordinates.

Muhoroni Sugar Company prides on providing refined sugar that has a distinct quality exclusive to this company.  It is not just any refined sugar this company produces but brown refined with a difference that makes consumer(s) keep on coming back.  Muhoroni Sugar ranks highly in the quality of brown sugar production – the company’s specialty.

D. The third essential element of encouraging the heart is “Pay Attention.”

In rare cases do most leaders pay attention to their subordinates.  In most cases, leaders hardly have the time of day to listen and understand those under them.  These leaders are forever giving an order, that’s the challenge common in today’s leadership style. Instead of putting themselves in the shoes of the workers, a majority of leaders assume larger than life attitude in organizational management.  This kind of approach to leadership drives a wedge between the leaders and subordinates, ushers in a suspicion instead of genuine curiosity concern for improvement.  This tendency of “know it all,” by many leaders shuts down effective communication which would otherwise open the eyes and heart of a leader to discern real concerns for improvement to achieve the organization’s vision.

E.  The fourth essential element of encouraging the heart is “Telling the Story.”

Long before people knew how to write and read, they told each other different stories – oral literature in the traditional African society. This was handed down from one generation to the next generation.  Stories are the oldest and most effective means of communication particularly in the African context (not in Diaspora).  Valuable lessons have been passed down from generation to generation in different cultures through stories.  In the African continent, it’s the only way of passing information as well as entertaining and educating the public.  Story telling impact on the intended audience is unmatched by any other form of communication because stories also mobilize and motivate people to take action.  A good story teller knows the elements of a good story and how to weave them in an activity such as recognition, hand out clear standards and in expecting the best from the coworkers among other essential elements of encouraging the heart.  Stories bring to life images of the past, transports the audience to expected future outcome through the plot, people, their point of view, the place where it takes place, and the period of the event.  All these are meant to make the story an interesting read.

F.  The sixth essential element of encouraging the heart is “Celebrate Together.”

In effective communication, a leader seeks to establish commonness.  This commonness is forged in:

* Making friends with the subordinate staff.

* Listening with understanding to their concerns, basic assumptions, world view, asking and answering the question, “How do these people look at life?” Once these are in order,, and accomplishments made, it’s time to celebrate those accomplishment together.  Celebration also calls for a time of togetherness of catching up with each other and breaking free of the pressure of routine everyday work in the office.

G.  The seventh essential element of encouraging the heart is “Personalize Recognition.”

The routine of everyday work requires that people are rewarded and recognized from time to time.  But it’s the personal recognition in the presence of others that work wonders and carries the day in the life of an organization.  However, it is best a leader is aware of an appropriate gift to give fellow workers.  Part of a leader’s essential elements is paying attention.  Paying attention goes beyond the concerns of work.  It involves getting to know the other co-workers dislikes, likes so that a leader is better placed to choose a more fitting gift to go along with a thank you note for personalized recognition.  This involves the leader in the affairs of others in managing constituents.

Every end year, Muhoroni Sugar recognizes individuals who’ve gone the extra mile in achieving the company’s goals.  I just wish the management could be more creative to make the occasion memorable and challenging for the next recipients than the usual low pace ceremony of handing out the gifts.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world?  If so, how?

The ideas of encouraging the heart in this book act as spark plugs to my quest for the best leadership style that can stand the test of time in a rapid global changing leadership style transformation.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention?  If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“When it comes to motivating people to higher standards of performance, nothing – not even money works as powerfully as the recognition of individual effort and achievement,” Patrick Lencioni says.  I couldn’t agree more.  If there’s one fundamental basic truth to successful leadership, it’s the ability to lead by example to others through encouragement of the heart.

“Encouragement boosts the performance, strengthens our resolve and improves our health.  Similar sentiments are expressed by Roy Gan in his book “The Magic Power of Emotional Appeal.” This makes encouragement of the heart a prerequisite for quality leadership in all fields.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

None at all.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

Yes

7.  Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?  If so, please comment.

A.     How interesting was it to read?                                     9
B.      How helpful were the content?                                     9
C.     How easy was it to understand?                                     9
D.     Would you recommend it to others?                             10
E.       What is the overall rating you would give it?              9

Corporate Rise

The X Principles of Extreme Personal Leadership

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1.  What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea is on the “Principles of Extreme Personal Leadership.”

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

A. X Principle Six:

“Leaders…insist on exchanging information with all employees and customers…”

Effective communication is a key ingredient and true mark of a good leader.  In any organization, where there’s free flow of communication between the leader and subordinate staff, ample space for improvement is created.  Real issues are discussed without fear of impunity for common good of the organization.  Exchange of information builds confidence in employees and customers.  It also opens and fosters honest relationships which drive the company to greater heights of prosperity.  This is the reason for numerous circulars, regular meetings of brainstorming session and such activities that create atmosphere of comradeship in the workplace.

B. X Principle Seven:

“Leaders have confidence in the abilities of their people.”

Importance of work as a source of employees’ income is only part of the big picture.  People spend a lot of time in brightly lit institutions called offices for more reasons than monetary gain.   You find yourself intimately connected with other people you wouldn’t normally meet.  While in the office, there are crucial meetings to attend to, vial letters to typeset, memos circulated, cups of coffee/tea drank.  Office environment brings different people together as a team.  It’s the X leader’s prerogative to create confidence in the abilities of the subordinate staff to enable them work in a conducive environment as the X leader steers the organization to achieve its goals.

C.  X Principle Two:

“X Leaders find imaginative ways to inspire people to transform themselves for  the better.”

Hiring and firing of staff by the X leader marks the beginning and end of employment contract in organizations.  However, the X leader’s ability to find imaginative ways to inspire staff goes a long way in transforming staff to work for the good of individuals and the organization at large.  Whenever people make mistakes as they’ll occasionally, it’s the leaders’ way of dealing with the situation that encourages those led to admit and correct those mistakes and forge ahead with common goals of the organization having learnt from the mistakes made. In the process, the organization reinvents itself though the X leader’s ingenuity to inspire subordinate staff.  However, the X leader must lead by example to motivate the people in sharing ideas to increase the organization or company’s productivity.  Motivation of people can be achieved in brainstorming sessions where different employees’ ideas are taken into consideration.  Other ways of motivating people include different imaginative ways of rewarding those who go the extra mile at work to achieve the organization’s goals.  Retreats, team building and such fanfares are some of the imaginative ways X leaders’ use to keep the organization on course to achieve clear set standards

D.  X Principle Four:

“X Leaders are customer centric; unless someone buys something from their company, everything they do is irrelevant.

Multinational corporate organizations spend colossal sums of money on advertisement of their product/services.  Without the customer, they’d be no company or organization.  All the energy and resources behind road shows, television, radio and newspapers supplement/advertisements for products and services sponsored by companies solely target the customer. A good customer base is the bloodline of any thriving company.  Communication department is key in any organization to come up with cleverly written newspaper adverts, billboards, and electronic adverts.

Public Relations department is yet another outfit in company that ensures customer satisfaction.  The reason for brainstorming meetings is to figure out different ways to entice the customer to buy and continue buying the company’s products and services.  Whether it is providing services, products or high standards set by the X leader; all these boil down to maintain customer base.

E.  X Principle Ten:  “X Leaders expect greatness.  They’re result oriented, honest and personally accountable.”

Nothing short of excellence is expected in a company’s performance.   For any company to stay relevant in today’s cut throat business world, production of outstanding products/services are the hallmarks of a successful company.  The X leader like the army commander in chief sees to actions gears towards seeing that customer care and satisfactions are taken into account.  Analysis of customer results from periodic polls, shared and appropriate action taken yield great improvement in a company/organization’s overall performance.  Great performances always follow great expectations.  The X Leader’s responsibility is to make sure that clear set standards are met not through coercion but persuasion in a friendly work atmosphere where every employee is valued as a contributor to the company’s overall life cycle.

F. X Principle Eleven:  “X Leaders are role models. They lead by example.”

It is one thing for X leaders to give commands and instructions; it’s another to lead by example.  The latter carries the day.  Leading by example not only motivates but also helps them emulate the X leader in working towards achieving the company’s objectives at the work place and other social gatherings. In this case, the X leader becomes a role model in the company, society and the ripple effect is played though the subordinate staff in the company and elsewhere.

G.  X Principle One:  “Leaders have a passion for developing people.”

Perhaps, not prevalent result of any X leader’s ability is the long term effect on developing people.  Whenever employees leave the company for one reason or rather, they’re likely to carry the seed of successful leadership style from one company to the next.  Other times, knowledge and leadership style gained in one company propels one to start a company of their own. The X principles engrained in their mind provides one with the necessary tools to go it alone in business. Many new companies have been formed by people who worked and were nurtured by an X leader in the previous place of work.  These new crop of X leaders are the result of the original X leader’s passion for developing people, sometimes intentionally.  Other times unintentionally.  Whichever the case, X leaders have profound effect on those working under them.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world?  If so, how?

Although the principles outlined in this book target a particular cadre of leadership in the corporate world, nevertheless their usefulness to individuals like me cuts across the board to effectively and efficiently provide quality leadership at all levels of management.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention?  If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

In the seven X Leaders principles, I have used direct relevant quotes from the author.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6.  Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

Yes.

7.  Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?  If so, please comment.

A.  How interesting was it to read?                            7
B.  How helpful were the content?                             8
C.  How easy was it to understand?                           8
D.  Would you recommend it to others?                    8
E.  What is the overall rating you would give it?       8

Mohandas K. Gandhi – An Autobiography

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1.  What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea in this book revolves around the search for truth.

2.  What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

“The Truth.”

“And ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free,” Jesus said in the gospels.  The word “truth,” has different shades of meaning to different people.  However, there are definite agreed grids upon which “the truth,” is measured whether from a journalistic or scientific view.  Truth is absolute.  You can’t add or take away from “the truth.”  Certain elements hold steady in defining and deciding what is considered “the truth.” Mohandas K. Gandhi in his experimentation with “the truth,” understood the rationale behind this proposition only too well.  However, truth calls for a change in attitude in dealing with self and people.  Unless you’re convinced of the validity of any action as Gandhi was in seeking “the truth,” for personal and political change, your efforts to find and live by “the truth,” may amount to nothing more than pious self righteousness.  In his autobiography, Gandhi narrates the steps he took to arrive at what he called the truth in different aspects of his life.  Every person must do the same, seek guidance and direction from the inner voice to ascertain “the truth,” in whatever aspect of life desire.

Prisoner of Your Personality

You only think of those behind bars as imprisoned.  Hardly do you regard anyone least of all yourself walking around in public with imaginary handcuffs on.  But you do.  Your negative mental attitude imprisons you to live a life of mediocrity.  You’ve allowed negative thoughts to rule and ruin your life.   Everything you do is shifted through the rubble of negative thoughts mess in your mind.  Your decision making mechanism revolves around these thoughts making it difficult if not impossible to break away and attempt new things.  Your horizon is also narrowed by these same negative thoughts.  You’re confined and constrained to a life of defeat unless like Gandhi you take necessary steps to free yourself from thoughts that hold you captive. In the process of this self imprisonment, you’re under temporary insanity of the mind.  This makes you miserable.  You think and attribute challenges in life to negative thoughts, without giving positive mental attitude a chance.  You don’t even hasten to take responsibility for allowing defeating thoughts run and ride your life like a tiger. While this is true with most people, it wasn’t the same with Gandhi.  He refused to allow learned beliefs navigate the terrain of his life.  Instead, he sought to find the truth by experimentation on the different life aspects ranging from spirituality to sickness, foods to fulfillment.  He also didn’t succumb to the syndrome of coming under the dictates of environment, experience, education, events and effects of the circumstances.  Rather he mapped out the course of his life by listening to his inner voice.  Small wonder he is the most revered model servant leader of all times along with a few likeminded others.

Concepts:  High Energy Levels in the Spiritual Realm.

It is no secret a lot of people spend precious energy of resourcefulness on things they don’t want, instead of things they want and desire to have in life.  Your energy level high or low varies according to what you’re doing and thinking of. On the one hand, if your mind is focused on attracting the things you desire in life, provided they are in alignment with your values, you’ll have high energy levels flowing through and empowering you.  On the other hand, if your mind is locked on reverse over past failures and blunders, the result will be a low disempowering energy level.

The more empowered you’re, the more energetic you’re.  Disempowered you’re less inspired.  Your thoughts over scarcity drain energy from the body leaving it powerless and the mind uncreative.  This is a fact of life.  Think of the times your heart is on fire to accomplish a task.  Your body energy system booster swings into action.  Your mind is alert and creative.  You can do anything including what seems humanly impossible.  The reverse happens when you’ve low energy level.  Most of your precious energy goes to waste thinking how badly you don’t want to live impoverished lifestyle the rest of your life.  Instead of using that energy to convert your dreams into reality as Mohandas K Gandhi did, you build blocks on your way to successful life. Gandhi’s life is exemplary in using inner resources to achieve the impossible.  He always sought to perceive “the truth,” from inside and not from outside.  All too often you rely on others approval to take the plunge, Gandhi relied on his inner resourcefulness and it paid off.  Although Gandhi sought the hero within, he didn’t neglect to solicit the help of others knowing no man is an island.

First Legacy

“All people can shape and guide their lives according to the highest ideals; no matter how insignificant and powerless they might feel.”

It takes real effort on your part to live on purpose.  That’s because you’ve allowed numerous unforeseen forces tag on and pull you away from the main purpose for which God intended.  You can walk free through the gate in your mind, to the other side of life.  Once you do, everything round about you changes instantly.  You cease to want to acquire to posses and hold tightly to earthly possessions because you become aware that you arrived here on earth without anything, and you leave the same way.  Your life changes from the inside out as your heart bursts with the exuberance of God’s unfailing faithfulness for provision.  You begin to view others not as separate entities but part of the whole universe you’re part and parcel of.

There is no prescription drug for living on purpose.  Simply, it’s a life of freedom by choice.  Gandhi chose this simple and humble life to effect change within and around him. The secret is to change the way you live and live life from the inside out and not vice versa.  The venue for change is the mind.  Your body will follow your brain’s commands.  That was Gandhi’s strategy and it worked “miracles,” for him and those around him.

Second Legacy

Corrupt and degrade not only defeat the purpose for which they’re undertaken but also the person who stoop to such means. In Kenya, the term “kitu kidogo,” (something small), is synonymous with service rendered.  This phrase perpetuates culture of corruption.  Corruption is so imbedded in the Kenyan society.  It has become a way of life for many people young and old alike.  You don’t need to look far to witness blatant corruption in this country.  You only have to be on the road a few kilometers and you’re face to face with corruption in broad daylight between citizens and supposed law enforcement officers whose job it is to enforce zero tolerance on the vice.  It’s not out of line to say that Kenyan police patrol officers go out on duty to extort money from Passenger Service Vehicles.  Pointing accusing fingers at the police is a futile approach to curb corruption in this country.  The officer may very well be innocent, but the boss requires remittance of a certain amount of cash daily from the road, so the officer is compelled to take bribe.  Citizens of Kenya encourage corruption.  The conductor of the vehicle, the passengers and the driver are all guilty of corruption in this case.  Corruption is not only on the road, the vice has penetrated the entire fabric of the Kenyan society.  Few people in this country believe you can get services without “kitu kidogo,” (something small).  Majority of Kenyans are guilty of corruption as hell.  In the words of Gandhi,

“Corruption and degradation not only defeat the purpose for which they’re undertaken but also the person who stoops to such means.”  I couldn’t agree more with Mohandas K. Gandhi’s insight on corruption.

Third Legacy

“Personal change and the ability to bring about social change are linked.”

In his book “Deep Change,” the author, Robert E. Quinn asserts, “to bring about deep change in other people, you have to reinvent yourself.” No one I have read about or know embodies this principle like Gandhi.  External change depends on internal change of the individual whose new lifestyle influences others to make amends in their own personal life.  Gandhi lived what he preached not just in word but also in deed.  He left a legacy to generations next.  Similar sentiments are expressed in the following “travelling naked into the land of uncertainty, Scott Pick wrote.  There’s nothing more appealing to any human being as the discovery of the unknown.  Gandhi’s life revolved around seeking the unknown as he recounts in his autobiography.

Internally Displaced Personality

Kenyans who are victims of land clashes and post-election violence are reverently referred to as Internally Displaced Persons.  Nothing is as bad as being displaced internally.  Yet majority of people walk around in Internally Displaced Personalities. It started out as make up in which particularly ladies applied beauty care products to slow down the ageing process and maintain youthful trendy look.    Today, makeover is the in thing.  While cosmetics can and will take care of the outward appearance, they’ll do no more than change outward appearance.  That is where the real problem lies.  Real change must come from the inside.

In Bible terms, a change on the outward appearance amounts to nothing.  True transformational change emanates from inner personality.

Psychology lingo puts it down to conscious and the sub conscious minds.  If you want to be philosophical, you may prefer the left and right brain reference. No matter what description you choose, it boils down to the same thing.  You must have the two principals your inner and outer personalities working together in synch and harmony if not you’ll be no more than Internally Displaced Personality (IDPs).

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world?  If so, how?

“I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, not his seed begging for bread.”

Psalm 37:25 – God’s Greatness

No one knows God’s faithfulness and provision like I do.  In diverse ways when situations seemed utterly hopeless, God intervened and injected new life and vitality into my being.  When discouragement and despair sought refuge in my heart, His love lifted me up.  Thrice, God pulled me out of the jaws of death, set my foot upon solid ground and gave me reason to carry on. When daily supplies dwindled and worry crept into my soul, God miraculously provided in ways unimaginable.  God has faithfully sustained me physically, spiritually and psychologically all my life. If that isn’t reason to celebrate his faithfulness, then I don’t know what is.  Reading Gandhi’s autobiography has brought great joy to my heart.  The book has also challenged me to write one of my own and share the unique experiences I have lived through in my life.  Perhaps someone out there will have the opportunity to read the book and glean from the thoughts like I have done with Gandhi’s autobiography.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention?  If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

A number of quotes in Gandhi’s autobiography stand out are pivotal were relevant then just as they are today.  The following one appealed to me more.

“I have nothing new to teach the world.  The truth and non-violence are as old as the hills” Gandhi said.

“Our repertoire of word for calling people names is often larger than our vocabulary of words to clearly describe our emotional state.”  This observation on human language and use by Rosenberg in the book Non Violent Communication – A Language of Love,” clearly indicates the importance of identifying and expressing your feelings to achieve desired goals in life. Gandhi didn’t only choose the right vocabulary to use in different situations good or bad, he lived a life commensurate with his beliefs.  In true sense of the quote, he did nothing different except discipline himself to be consistent and the result was an overwhelming victory of a life well lived.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

This book gets a perfect score of ten from my rating.  Nevertheless, there are a number of issues I have trouble accepting.  First and foremost is Gandhi’s approach to spirituality.  Although the belief in a supreme being is shared, my own view towards achieving spirituality is different.  I believe “Jesus is the way the truth and the life.”

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

Rating

A. How interesting was it to read?                             10
B. How helpful were the contents?                            10
C. How easy was it to understand?                            10
D. Would you recommend it to others?                     10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it?        10

Thinking for A Change – 11 Ways Successful People Approach Life and Work

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea in this book is on the value of good thinking for change.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

Pull of the Past

Making a clean break from past to present life in anticipation of the future isn’t easy.  You’re likely to experience pain in the process of detaching yourself from the accustomed to adopt the adventurous.  You’ve lived so long attached to someone and some things.  First, it’s hard to imagine your life complete without the other. You rather endure the hardships.  You’d suffer in silence because the pull of the past is so great you’re held captive by it. Second, you’re not sure how to encourage your fragile heart to adjust to this new situation in life.  This shift in paradigm presents a huge challenge in many peoples’ lives.  Third, you’ve bouts of doubts if this is the right decision for the moment. You wonder that perhaps you should be a little more tolerant, persevere and patiently wait a little longer for the outbursts of the other person to cool down. Deep inside, you’re vaguely aware how much more beating of the heart you can take. Your soul craves for solace. The urge to give in and hit back is on full speed. But, you’d rather cling to the creek of the past life than make a clean break to a life of freedom by choice.

Big Picture

Everyone wants to think big.  No one sets out to narrow minded thinking. But only relatively few succeed in thinking with the big picture in mind.  The Big Picture helps you,

Visualize the Outcome

For years, Olympic Games were dominated by Western nations. That changed with Africa’s dramatic arrival on the international scene by Kipchoge Keino, John Akibua, and Filbert Bayo among other greats from the African Continent.  The one common denominator among these athletes, each of them visualized victory long before setting foot on the track, won and made history.

No one sets on a journey without visualizing the destination. Toiling on any activity, personal, professional, business, marriage relationship, finances and health among others, is of no use unless you are able to visualize the outcome long before hand. The activity doesn’t have to be earth moving like breaking Olympic record.  You can draw examples of victories from everyday simple life activities such as house chores, gardening, exercising the body, and such like. Creating mental picture of the end result is the beginning of good thinking or change for the desired outcome. Other aspects include but not exclave to,

– Verify the situation.

– Validate the motive.

Putting yourself in the right place will shape and strengthen your thinking capacity.

Motivation, “motive in action,” someone said. Motivation comes with good thinking.  Thinking comes naturally to everyone.  But not everyone’s thinking is productive.  The process also varies with each individual different person.  Anthony Robinson, the author of “Unlimited Power” refers to this process of good thinking as “Mastering Your Mind.”  John C. Maxwell in his book “Thinking for Change,” elaborates on the process of good thinking for productive outcome.

Awasi: Border Town that no Longer Booms in Business provides Mountain Top

Experience for Writing.

Nothing beats the cool breeze flying over Muhoroni Settlement Scheme lowland from Nandi hills to Awasi border town.  If for nothing else but change of scenery, I’d come here again and again.  It’s also cheap and not travel weary.  Sometimes, I don’t quite get 100% expectation.  But never once have I come and gone home not refreshed and reenergized.  The mountain top experience in Awasi helps me brace up for weeks of confinement cooped in the office.

Awasi Breeze Resort my choice venue for mountain top experience in Awasi provides the comfort and freedom to indulge in the love of my life, writing.  Breeze Resort presents irresistible mountain tip experience with trees spread out in the yard for shelter. This makes it ideal for writing, my kind of pass time.  Every time I pay this place a visit, writing ideas come easily mind.  Hardly do I labour writing in this place.  Putting pen to paper comes naturally in Breeze Resort than anywhere else.

Walking through the Gate In Your Mind.

In all airports the world over, passengers must pass several gates coming and going out of the country.  There’s the gate to the main lounge you go through to sit in the lounge and wait for confirmation of your flight departure. You also must go through the last gate onto the runway.  Here’s where your luggage, unaccompanied and accompanied are scanned and you’re frisked for anything unwanted in the plane like drugs and guns.  In going through this gate, you’re certain of taking the plane.  Should anything go wrong at this point, you won’t be allowed to board the plane, ticket all paid for in hand, visa, passport and whatever else you carry for the journey.

Becoming a good thinker.

Shifting your mind to live on purpose is the same as walking through an imaginary gate in your mind.  This gate in your mind is always open.  You’re welcome to walk through it any time you wish, want and choose.  However, every time you’ve made the move to walk through this gate in the past, something on the other side of the divide held you back.  Whatever it’s that distracts and diverts your attention to go through the shift in your mind stand in the way of living on purpose.  Your freedom in life is guaranteed once you marshal the courage to walk through the gate in your mind.  No more uncertainties will besiege you.  You’ll enjoy stress free atmosphere living on the top level of your life.

Becoming a good thinker requires you keep on reading good books, magazines, listen to tapes, interact with good thinkers, retrieve good thoughts from the archives of your mind, run your mind on good thoughts, rely on emotions to create and not derail good thoughts.  In the words of the apostle Paul in Philippians 4:8 “Whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report…think on these things.”

Putting the Big Picture into Perspective

In the book “Thinking for A Change, are a number of suggestions for putting The Big Picture into Perspective.

Rate Yourself.

You are aware of your capability to make a change in your thinking.  You’re also in a better position than anyone else to rate yourself in monitoring your progress during the change process in a particular area.  This helps you to gauge improvement.

Pick Past Problems

You can think of problems you solved in the past to solve present challenges through thinking for a change. You do well to go into your mind and relive past victories to help you with the present problems at hand.  In the Old Testament story of David and Goliath in First Samuel 17: 36 David recalls to memory in answer to King Saul’s apprehension  over the young man’s resolution to go against Goliath the Philistine giant.  David said unto Saul, “… thy servant slew both the lion and the bear, and this uncircumcised shall be as one of them…” I Sam 17: 36

Learn from other experts in the field.

In this regard, the author poses an important question.  “How often do you engage other experts in the various fields to gain knowledge for change?” In the process of preparation for a task, you do well to seek advice from experts in that field.  The advice you receive becomes invaluable tool in preparatory planning, during the change process and after the change has taken place.

Learn from your own past Experience.

Mom had no formal education, but she acquired distilled wisdom from the school of life. Every day of her life as long as I can remember, mum went to the farm.  Her favorite admonition to us kids in Luo dialect, “Puodho ok mak ng’ato,” (the farm doesn’t hold anyone prisoner permanently).  Mum taught us kids by doing.  If it wasn’t her love for farm work and setting exemplary example by doing, farming would have been tedious exercise for us kids.  But she was able to feed us from sweating on the farm and loved doing it so much we too learned to love and continue doing it long after she’s passed on.

Act the Part

Tears of joy stung my eyes because of the ingenuity of untapped talent Kenya has in theatre arts left to go to waste. During the audition of “No Longer Together,” television program, (the only one I have ever written and was a member of the crew as an artistic director during its production).  One couple greatly impressed all of us 4 panelists.  Each of us returned a perfect score of ten on their performance.  This couple acted their part so brilliantly.  It was hard not to cast them in the play as main and supporting characters.  The couple breathed real life making the characters in the script come to life.  Their own personification assumed the new roles in such perfect harmony with the characters in the drama, it was hard to know where one left off and the other took over. During shoot, the couple repeated the same high energy level effect of performance in the drama.  If your mind is stayed on achieving set goals, you’ll act like you’ve already achieved.  Your thinking capacity will change and so will your personality and the result, guaranteed desired outcome

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?  If so, how?

Reading John C. Maxwell’s book, “Thinking for A Change,” has opened the eyes of my understanding to embrace the value of good thinking in tackling challenges in life for improving my serve in the local community I live in and those I interact with in other fields.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention?  If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

On the value of good thinking, John C. Maxwell quotes George State University Professor David J. Schwartz “Where success is concerned, people are not measured in inches or pounds or college degrees or family background; they are measured by the size of their thinking.” Maxwell Maltz in his ground breaking book on self-improvement “Psycho -Cybernetics” Wrote,

“Each of us carries a mental blueprint or picture of ourselves.  In fact it may not be consciously reconcilable at all.  But it’s there, complete down to the last detail.” In the New Testament book of James, the author says,

“A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.” I couldn’t agree more with the sentiments expressed by these renowned authors on the value of good thinking.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

Yes

Rating

A. How interesting was it to read?                             9
B. How helpful were the contents?                            9
C. How easy was it to understand?                            9
D. Would you recommend it to others?                     10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it?        9

Beyond Civilization: Humanity’s Next Great Adventure

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book

Main idea – Humanity’s Next Great Step Beyond Civilization.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

a. Food Sufficiency and Security

Third world countries in particular Africa aren’t poor because of unpaid debts, they owe the West. Africa’s poverty problem is largely her own making. We don’t seem to get a grip on resource management. Part of our poverty problems stem from the West, but most of it is our own doing.

Africans, (not in diaspora) are a people who have chosen to be poor and the West is cashing in on our vulnerability. Many tend to believe that international aid will solve the African food insufficiency problem. Nothing could be further from the truth. The heart of the matter is, we have never as a nation figured out how to exist without donor funding. Suppose the World Bank and International Monetary Fund (IMF) for some reason or rather decided to cut off funding to Kenya for the next 50 years, will we as a nation fizzle out? Of course not, when we find ourselves in such a tight spot between a hard rock and a stone, we’ll think of an alternative way to survive. Making noise running to the international court may be a complete waste of time and available meager resources. Until African comes to a time of hunger strike, fasting and praying to think of tangible plans to grow enough food to live on, we shall remain Nations of Beggars.

b. Pull of the Past.

“Escape for thy life; look not thee behind, neither stray thou in the plain, escape to the mountains,” the angel of the Lord commanded Lot and his family. The instructions had been clear and precise. However, pull of the past was too strong. Lot’s wife couldn’t resist.

“But his wife looked back from behind him and she became a pillar of salt.” vs 26. Apparently, Lot’s ‘wife was not in step with her husband and children. She was trailing instead of walking side by side with the rest of the family members. Lot’s family had been instructed to find refugee in the mountains. by the angel of God. It was up to individual member to get there. God provided away for escape. He also gave them the strength to carry on, provided they heeded His instructions. Lot’s wife took a detour from the main main road to safety by looking behind.

Success is assured in life, the honors is on you the individual to achieve whatever your heart desires now and beyond civilization. Lot’s wife didn’t follow God’s instruction to the letter. She alone didn’t make it to the mountain. Lot and his two daughters made it  to port. You wonder what was so special back in the city of Gomorrah, which presently was up in smoke? Lot’s wife had her family, yet that wasn’t enough. She still looked behind contrary to God’s command.

c. Nature Shows the Way.

Outside the main living room window is a complete span out spider web. It must have taken this small creature a great deal of time getting the raw materials, putting it together and hanging it all out for the purpose of trapping other insects that it feeds on. This web is an artistic work for a creature like the spider to accomplish. Certainly it took the spider some doing. Bit by bit, the creature gathered the raw materials and added to the foundation in the middle. It then works outward from the inner circle in the middle of the web to accomplish the task. The repetitive work of spinning the threads one at a time and joining it to the body takes time and patience. But that is nothing compared to the dividends that awaits it upon finishing. Finally, it is finished and the purpose for which it’s spun is the payback deal.

Taking cue from the spider’s continuous consistency, you too can accomplish any task if you set your mind to it. Its overnight but the end is assured if you keep at it day in day out until you reach the goal. Magnificent as it is and difficult to accomplish, it’s done with finesse. The impact didn’t register in my mind until many months later. Suddenly the thought hit home. This spider’s web became a big object lesson.

Every incident, difficult as some of them are in life, are not accidents. Today, I see my life journey as a tapestry, where every event is a link interwoven in the chain that is my life story. The spider’s web is nature’s object lesson God put in place to help me reflect on this thought. Connectivity and interconnectivity, exists within creation. The two are so often taken for granted that little is learned from nature. Each strand of the web is separately produced then weaved in place to fit the two arm length web held together in the four corners secured to the wall of the house. Concentric circles of strands run the width and length of the main frame of the web separates yet is part of the many partitions of the whole web. These circles not only give the spider’s web its strength, they are also the steps the spider uses to scale the height of its masterpiece. Ingenious yet so common place I hardly ever noticed it all before.

d. Circus Attitude.

In “Everyday with Jesus,” Selwyn Hughes quotes one writer saying,

“Modern man is homesick. He is going on a hand to mouth existence day by day, and what he does and thinks does not seem to be related to the whole. This is made life empty and jittery because it’s insecure.” In the same page he also cites the Chinese saying,

“In a broken nest there are no whole eggs.” These two quotes portray a picture of disharmony in the universe. However a close examination reveals otherwise. The existence of an invisible strand of power holds and maintains all things in perfect harmony. You don’t need scientific proof to believe there is a harmony in existence. Simply watch the circus attitude how each participant in the group is a vital part of the act on stage. Your eyes of understanding will capture and present to you pictures of a universe beyond your wildest of dreams – beyond civilization. You’ll discover the sky isn’t the limit but a limitation which your physical eyes stretch. Your spiritual “eye of understanding,” is capable of penetrating the deep blue sky to bring to your brain living sounds and sights of a world beyond civilization.

e.  Upward Mobility.

Have you met anyone who’s content living a life of defeat? Perhaps there are some, you may be one of them. But the number is few. Majority of people desire to improve in one or all aspects of life. No one is content to stay at the bottom of the ladder in life. Everyone strives to reach the top. But not all succeed very well. Enthusiasm and zeal is inherent in everyone, you included. The difference comes in the method you adopt to climb the ladder of success into your next life even beyond civilization.

Zig Ziglar, one of the best selling authors of science of self improvement, in his book “See You at The Top,” echoes similar sentiments of upward movement. It seems everyone is inclined to move upward than stay at the bottom of the ladder of life. Living on the bottom level of life is like consistently fighting against the force of gravity.

“This is the man who will dwell on the heights whose refugee will be the mountain fortress,” the Bible admonishes.

Isaiah 33: 16 (NIV)

f.  Military Approach to Life

“We deeply believe in a military approach to problems. We proclaim a “war” on poverty. When that fails, we proclaim a “war” drugs. We “fight” crime. We vow to “defeat” AIDS,” Quinn writes.

Most poverty projects in the African continent revolve around a mechanical mind set. Food insufficiency and insecurity problem is viewed in terms of a broken down machine that needs fixing. The tendency is to come up with problem statements to get the right part of the broken machine and fix it. In Kenya the government starts several, “Njaa marafuku,” (Poverty Eradication), “Kazi kwa Vijana,” (Work for the Youth), all with military connotations. None of these projects have had a marked impact on the effect of poverty in this country. In taking the military approach, most projects aiming at food sufficiency and security hinge on a mechanical way of thinking. While a lot has been achieved through such efforts, more needs to be done.

It’s not enough for citizens of any country to have basic human needs provisions. No amount of money and food will be sufficient in the case of Poor self-image and low esteem . “Give a man fish and you feed him for a day. Teach him to fish and he’ll feed himself for life.” Instead of focusing on the military design, our approach should be one of nurturing to maturity, helping individuals become self-sufficient in food production. This is the “inside out,” approach that will work in addressing Africa’s poverty problems, particularly with regard to food sufficiency and security now and beyond civilization.

g.  Putting Life into Perspective.

Scarcity wasn’t part of God’s plan of provision to human beings. Perhaps part of the reason God delayed the creation of man till the end is so that man would come in on plenty. For five days, God said, “Let there be…,” and there was. “And God saw that it was good…,”also meaning sufficient, enough. On the sixth day, God said, “Let’s make man in our image, after our likeness….” Once everything man needed was in place, the almighty embarked on making a special kind of creature in His own likeness. Adam and Eve in their perfect state knew not they were walking around naked. This suggests completeness, confidence. But as soon as the ego came into sharp focus of their being, scarcity began to rear its ugly head. You can rediscover and live in that innocent state by putting your life into perspective.

3. How will these ideas or lesson help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so how?

In many ways adopting the method of nurturing is both helpful and is in harmony with God’s creativity. These ideas present me with the day today easy to follow approach to tackling issues of food insufficiency and insecurity. Hopefully, the ripple effect will spread in the community and that will definitely be a plus.

4. Quotes. Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and as to why they are important to you.

The one quote that overrides others in this book, also has relevance and significance in our context of being an agricultural country,

“When a farmer clears a field and puts it to the plow, he doesn’t think of …taking that field away from all the wildlife….He isn’t stealing it, he’s putting it to the use God intended from the beginning.” This quote echoes similar sentiment expressed in the book of Genesis in the Bible.

“And the Lord God took the man and, put him into the garden of Eden to fill it and keep it.” I can’t add or take away from this statement which rand true then as it does today.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

1. How interesting was it to read?                                 8
2. How helpful were the content?                                 8
3. How easy was it to understand?                                7
4. Would you recommend it to others?                         8
5. What is the overall rating you would give it?            7

The Power of Intention

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea the author is trying to convey in the book?

Intention, the main idea in this book is the power behind all creation also sustains it and links all creatures in one way or another.

2. Seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why are:

i. Unity in Diversity in Human Beings Anatomy

Dr. Wayne’s example of the dead Japanese women in the opening pages of the book whose cause of death was drowning triggered two incidents in my life that have had a significant impact in my relationship to the Power of Intention.

First, in the first year of high school, I took beauty. During such times, I felt peace flooding my heart being alone surrounded and immersed in God’s creative work of nature. Once I walked for so long in the sun and had to sit under shade for a while. Instead of coming straight up, my knees buckled, the head span, eyes clouded, the ears rang as the body slumped backwards hitting the ground in full force. Hard to estimate how long the episode lasted, but what followed has since then become a significant factor of the Power of Intention in my life. On the scene were three separate entities, two watching from up above in the air at the helpless body lying on the ground lifeless. One of the two, (I believe the soul), hovering above had remote connection to lifeless body, while the other had no form. The two entities above were not limited by space or time (spirit). Years later, two separate incidents occurred to me in, which a similar scenario was played back in the memory of my brain more than convinced me of the separateness of the body, soul and spirit in the make up of a human being. It takes the intervention of the Power of Intention (to realign oneself with this state of life).

Chapter two of ‘The Power of Intention summarizes what the author refers to as Faces of the Power of Intention, which I choose to call God’s Attributes. Following are a few of them that complete the list of seven ideas which were personally most important in this book and why.

ii. Creativity

“Creativity is the mother of invention,” the old adage goes. But that is only as far as human beings go. Creativity originates from God, it His nature as is illustrated in several passages in the Bible. Genesis, the Book of Beginings, chapters one and two, outline the account of God’s creative acts in revealing Himself to mankind through general and special revelations respectively.

Psalm 19: 1 – 2 declares,

“The heavens declare the glory of God, and the firmament showeth his handiwork. Day unto day uttereth speech, and night unto night showeth knowledge.”

In the New Testament book of Ephesians 2:10 we read,

“For we are his workmanship created in Christ Jesus unto good works,” proving the point human beings are creative creatures owing to our origin – Power of Intention if one chooses to tune into and connect to God given skills.

iii. Kindness

Kindness is one of the attributes of God (The Power of Intention), and with many other scripture references God’s attribute of kindness is one, one can use to reconnect to this Power of Intention to fulfill God’s eternal purpose of in and through an individual. Here is one that speaks volumes.

Psalm 36: 7 – “How excellent is thy loving kindness,” the Psalmist declares.

iv. Love

“God is Love,” The Bible asserts. In line with this is Ralph Waldo’s observation on the word love,

“Love is our highest word and the synonym of God.” I couldn’t agree more. Without love, there would be no life. Fairly simple, straightforward and spot on, and love originates from God – The Power of Intention. Time and space would not allow us to indulge in looking at scripture passages in support of this attribute of God – love.

v. Beauty

A lot of folk, in particular African ladies go to great lengths to improve on the outward appearance. Obviously, a lot of African ladies are not contented with what they have or how they look. But whether spending time, energy and resources on making one beautiful takes away from or adds to the natural God given beauty is a matter of debate. Sounds ridiculous that a woman can preen in front of a mirror for hours on end adjusting this or the other just to look beautiful, despite the fact that she is an original of God’s creation therefore beautiful by nature. But the truth of the matter is if one could spend as much time to improve on the outward appearance, looking inside out to appreciate beauty as the gift of God, thinking beautiful thoughts and doing beautiful deeds, there would be no or little time spent on appearance. “Beauty,” as they say wouldn’t be “in the eye of the beholder,” but the originator – The Power of Intention who is God.

vi. Expansion

Life must be very boring for those who do not believe in life beyond the grave after physical death, however, the spirit lingers and lives on. This suggests the proposition that life expands, the very suggestion in this book one of the faces of ‘The Power of Intention.’ From the twelve disciples, grew a revolution of Christianity around the world, the only true religion with an upward trend.

Paul the apostle in the book to the Thessalonians admonishes the believers to embrace faith in Jesus that guarantees a life yet to be lived beyond the horizon in I Thessalonians 4:13 -17, summarized in one word – rapture is the transformation of lives from one state to the other – suggesting expansion.

vii. Unlimited Abundance

Throughout the Bible, one story after another illustrates God’s unlimited abundance for all creation, humanity included. In the book of Exodus is the account of the ‘Promised Land’ – Canaan, a land flowing with milk and honey. The Prophet Elijah’s encounter with King Ahab and his wife Jezebel causes friction and Elijah has to flee for his life. During this time he is on the run, God providentially supplies his needs, first through a widow, later on we read that the man of God is fed by Ravens. We read these two exemplary accounts of God’s unlimited abundance to Elijah in the Book of I Kings 17. In the New Testament in the gospel of Jesus according to Mathew 14:15 -21, is another thrilling account of the feeding of five thousand from two loaves of bread and three fish from a small boy’s lunch box. Again and again, God’s unlimited abundance is demonstrated, the same is available to us today if we choose to and want to tap into river that never runs dry. “Seek ye the kingdom of God and all these other things shall be added unto you,” is all that is required of you and me.

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way.

It is one thing to know that everything is subject to the ‘Power of Intention- God, and there exists order. It is another thing to allow that ‘Power’ work in and through you as part of the master plan of the originator. This book ‘The Power of Intention’ has helped to clarify; a number of issues which are God given talents in using the seven attributes outlined in the book benefit of others and creation. I intend to fully utilize these seven principles in the day to day interaction with others through writing, speech and otherwise to enhance God’s Kingdom.

4. Quotes

Although I am not a disciple of any of the human spiritual gurus, I find thoughts and sentiments expressed by these men and women inspiring. Some of their insights indicate that all of God’s creation, really and truly connect in that spiritual sphere, this book advocates, as the Power of Intention. Here are a few if the quotes that stood and out and meant a great deal to me as part and parcel of God’s creation.

i. “To be empty, completely empty, is not a fearsome thing; it is absolutely essential for the mind to be unoccupied…for only then can it move into unknown depths,” says J. Krishnamanti as quoted in the ‘Power of Intention.’ There is a sphere that can only be reached through meditation by the emptying of the mind. This is a special moment in the life one when one connects to world that exists in the mind of those who know and practice meditation. It is hard to describe in words, the feeling one gets or goes through in that state because it solely revolves around emotions. Described in one word, it’s awesome.

ii. Shakespeare declared, “Our doubts are traitors and make us loose the good we often might want by fearing to attempt.” Selwyn Hughes in ‘Everyday with Jesus,’ One Year Devotional Book refers to these traitors as ‘deep disturbing doubts.’ So many miss out on God’s unlimited abundance of supply simply because many are not receptive to what’s available to them from the ‘Power of Intention.’ Instead of enjoying the bounty graciously provided, many doubt even where the next meal is going to come from, or what to drink because they are not connected to river that never runs dry

5. Is there anything in the book that you don’t understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so why?

None at all

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so did you complete all the exercises and did you find them helpful?

Yes, plenty the ten point program exercises did truly enrich my life.

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so please comment.

None at all.

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 – 10. Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read? 10
B. How helpful were the contents? 10
C. How easy was it to understand? 9
D. Would you recommend it to others 10
E. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10

Beyond Civilization: Humanity’s Next Great Adventure

Assessment by Collins Odhiambo Aballa (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book

Main idea – Humanity’s Next Great Step Beyond Civilization.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

a. Food Sufficiency and Security

Third world countries in particular Africa aren’t poor because of unpaid debts, they owe the West. Africa’s poverty problem is largely her own making. We don’t seem to get a grip on resource management. Part of our poverty problems stem from the West, but most of it is our own doing.

Africans, (not in diaspora) are a people who have chosen to be poor and the West is cashing in on our vulnerability. Many tend to believe that international aid will solve the African food insufficiency problem. Nothing could be further from the truth. The heart of the matter is, we have never as a nation figured out how to exist without donor funding. Suppose the World Bank and International Monetary Fund (IMF) for some reason or rather decided to cut off funding to Kenya for the next 50 years, will we as a nation fizzle out? Of course not, when we find ourselves in such a tight spot between a hard rock and a stone, we’ll think of an alternative way to survive. Making noise running to the international court may be a complete waste of time and available meager resources. Until African comes to a time of hunger strike, fasting and praying to think of tangible plans to grow enough food to live on, we shall remain Nations of Beggars.

b. Pull of the Past.

“Escape for thy life; look not thee behind, neither stray thou in the plain, escape to the mountains,” the angel of the Lord commanded Lot and his family. The instructions had been clear and precise. However, pull of the past was too strong. Lot’s wife couldn’t resist.

“But his wife looked back from behind him and she became a pillar of salt.” vs 26. Apparently, Lot’s ‘wife was not in step with her husband and children. She was trailing instead of walking side by side with the rest of the family members. Lot’s family had been instructed to find refugee in the mountains. by the angel of God. It was up to individual member to get there. God provided away for escape. He also gave them the strength to carry on, provided they heeded His instructions. Lot’s wife took a detour from the main main road to safety by looking behind.

Success is assured in life, the honors is on you the individual to achieve whatever your heart desires now and beyond civilization. Lot’s wife didn’t follow God’s instruction to the letter. She alone didn’t make it to the mountain. Lot and his two daughters made it  to port. You wonder what was so special back in the city of Gomorrah, which presently was up in smoke? Lot’s wife had her family, yet that wasn’t enough. She still looked behind contrary to God’s command.

c. Nature Shows the Way.

Outside the main living room window is a complete span out spider web. It must have taken this small creature a great deal of time getting the raw materials, putting it together and hanging it all out for the purpose of trapping other insects that it feeds on. This web is an artistic work for a creature like the spider to accomplish. Certainly it took the spider some doing. Bit by bit, the creature gathered the raw materials and added to the foundation in the middle. It then works outward from the inner circle in the middle of the web to accomplish the task. The repetitive work of spinning the threads one at a time and joining it to the body takes time and patience. But that is nothing compared to the dividends that awaits it upon finishing. Finally, it is finished and the purpose for which it’s spun is the payback deal.

Taking cue from the spider’s continuous consistency, you too can accomplish any task if you set your mind to it. Its overnight but the end is assured if you keep at it day in day out until you reach the goal. Magnificent as it is and difficult to accomplish, it’s done with finesse. The impact didn’t register in my mind until many months later. Suddenly the thought hit home. This spider’s web became a big object lesson.

Every incident, difficult as some of them are in life, are not accidents. Today, I see my life journey as a tapestry, where every event is a link interwoven in the chain that is my life story. The spider’s web is nature’s object lesson God put in place to help me reflect on this thought. Connectivity and interconnectivity, exists within creation. The two are so often taken for granted that little is learned from nature. Each strand of the web is separately produced then weaved in place to fit the two arm length web held together in the four corners secured to the wall of the house. Concentric circles of strands run the width and length of the main frame of the web separates yet is part of the many partitions of the whole web. These circles not only give the spider’s web its strength, they are also the steps the spider uses to scale the height of its masterpiece. Ingenious yet so common place I hardly ever noticed it all before.

d. Circus Attitude.

In “Everyday with Jesus,” Selwyn Hughes quotes one writer saying,

“Modern man is homesick. He is going on a hand to mouth existence day by day, and what he does and thinks does not seem to be related to the whole. This is made life empty and jittery because it’s insecure.” In the same page he also cites the Chinese saying,

“In a broken nest there are no whole eggs.” These two quotes portray a picture of disharmony in the universe. However a close examination reveals otherwise. The existence of an invisible strand of power holds and maintains all things in perfect harmony. You don’t need scientific proof to believe there is a harmony in existence. Simply watch the circus attitude how each participant in the group is a vital part of the act on stage. Your eyes of understanding will capture and present to you pictures of a universe beyond your wildest of dreams – beyond civilization. You’ll discover the sky isn’t the limit but a limitation which your physical eyes stretch. Your spiritual “eye of understanding,” is capable of penetrating the deep blue sky to bring to your brain living sounds and sights of a world beyond civilization.

e.  Upward Mobility.

Have you met anyone who’s content living a life of defeat? Perhaps there are some, you may be one of them. But the number is few. Majority of people desire to improve in one or all aspects of life. No one is content to stay at the bottom of the ladder in life. Everyone strives to reach the top. But not all succeed very well. Enthusiasm and zeal is inherent in everyone, you included. The difference comes in the method you adopt to climb the ladder of success into your next life even beyond civilization.

Zig Ziglar, one of the best selling authors of science of self improvement, in his book “See You at The Top,” echoes similar sentiments of upward movement. It seems everyone is inclined to move upward than stay at the bottom of the ladder of life. Living on the bottom level of life is like consistently fighting against the force of gravity.

“This is the man who will dwell on the heights whose refugee will be the mountain fortress,” the Bible admonishes.

Isaiah 33: 16 (NIV)

f.  Military Approach to Life

“We deeply believe in a military approach to problems. We proclaim a “war” on poverty. When that fails, we proclaim a “war” drugs. We “fight” crime. We vow to “defeat” AIDS,” Quinn writes.

Most poverty projects in the African continent revolve around a mechanical mind set. Food insufficiency and insecurity problem is viewed in terms of a broken down machine that needs fixing. The tendency is to come up with problem statements to get the right part of the broken machine and fix it. In Kenya the government starts several, “Njaa marafuku,” (Poverty Eradication), “Kazi kwa Vijana,” (Work for the Youth), all with military connotations. None of these projects have had a marked impact on the effect of poverty in this country. In taking the military approach, most projects aiming at food sufficiency and security hinge on a mechanical way of thinking. While a lot has been achieved through such efforts, more needs to be done.

It’s not enough for citizens of any country to have basic human needs provisions. No amount of money and food will be sufficient in the case of Poor self-image and low esteem . “Give a man fish and you feed him for a day. Teach him to fish and he’ll feed himself for life.” Instead of focusing on the military design, our approach should be one of nurturing to maturity, helping individuals become self-sufficient in food production. This is the “inside out,” approach that will work in addressing Africa’s poverty problems, particularly with regard to food sufficiency and security now and beyond civilization.

g.  Putting Life into Perspective.

Scarcity wasn’t part of God’s plan of provision to human beings. Perhaps part of the reason God delayed the creation of man till the end is so that man would come in on plenty. For five days, God said, “Let there be…,” and there was. “And God saw that it was good…,”also meaning sufficient, enough. On the sixth day, God said, “Let’s make man in our image, after our likeness….” Once everything man needed was in place, the almighty embarked on making a special kind of creature in His own likeness. Adam and Eve in their perfect state knew not they were walking around naked. This suggests completeness, confidence. But as soon as the ego came into sharp focus of their being, scarcity began to rear its ugly head. You can rediscover and live in that innocent state by putting your life into perspective.

3. How will these ideas or lesson help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so how?

In many ways adopting the method of nurturing is both helpful and is in harmony with God’s creativity. These ideas present me with the day today easy to follow approach to tackling issues of food insufficiency and insecurity. Hopefully, the ripple effect will spread in the community and that will definitely be a plus.

4. Quotes. Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and as to why they are important to you.

The one quote that overrides others in this book, also has relevance and significance in our context of being an agricultural country,

“When a farmer clears a field and puts it to the plow, he doesn’t think of …taking that field away from all the wildlife….He isn’t stealing it, he’s putting it to the use God intended from the beginning.” This quote echoes similar sentiment expressed in the book of Genesis in the Bible.

“And the Lord God took the man and, put him into the garden of Eden to fill it and keep it.” I can’t add or take away from this statement which rand true then as it does today.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

1. How interesting was it to read?                                 8
2. How helpful were the content?                                 8
3. How easy was it to understand?                                7
4. Would you recommend it to others?                        8
5. What is the overall rating you would give it?          7

The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership

Collins Odhiambo  (Kenya)

1. What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea Laws of Leadership.

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

I have picked seven of the twenty one irrefutable laws in this book for this exercise

a.  Law of Navigation.

“Nothing is as powerful as an idea whose time has come,” Hugo Victor wrote. Indeed servant leadership style is one such idea. The idea of servant leadership is deeply rooted in the work of an individual for the cause of common good.

Mohandas Gandhi is one in a million who embodied a vision for the common good. Through his words and actions, Gandhi exhibited the true marks of servant leadership. He lived what he preached.

“We shall never be able to raise the standard of public life through laws. Only if the lives of leaders …are perfect will they be able to produce any effect on the people,” Gandhi said. Gandhi sought to serve through offering quality leadership to his followers. Gandhi’s humility in serving his people raised him to become of hope. He was able to rally the country behind him, agitate and attain political freedom in India using the Law of Navigation.

b.  The Law of Addition.

In his ground breaking book Servant Leadership, Robert K. Greenleaf gleans on the example of Jesus Christ to explain the model of a servant leader in the gospel of John chapter thirteen.

In this account, Jesus sets the example by washing his disciples’ feet. A servant leader is first a servant then a leader. However servant leadership goes beyond providing leadership skills and guidance. The ultimate purpose of servant leadership and indeed any leadership ought to be in serving others. In this book, John C. Maxwell makes reference to this type of leadership in the Law of Addition.

c.  Inner Voice – Law of Intuition.

The car functions well if the engine is tuned up, its body parts, fuel in place and joints/gears oiled. Same is true with your body. God has set in motion harmony between human body parts and the brain. But you’ve to tune it up by listening to your inner voice. That is the system alert mechanism which tells you the body is tired, you need to take a rest. Your stomach is rumbling, says you’re hungry and need nourishment. Other times, your body will cry out loud with pain, ignore it at your own peril. Your inner voice will not only warn you of impending dangers, it will also prompt you to take appropriate action to avert the same. The same inner voice also guides you to make decisions to improve your personal and professional life. This inner voice acts on the law of Intuition.

d.  Law of Connection.

“In a broken nest there are no whole eggs,” Chinese proves says. This quote portrays a picture of disharmony in life. However a closer examination reveals otherwise. The existence of an invisible strand of power which hoods and maintains all things in perfect harmony is undeniable. You don’t need scientific proof to believe there is a harmony in existence. Simply watch plant and human life. The same principle is applicable in leadership. No leader is capable of accomplishing tasks of an organization without the help of subordinates. In this sense the leader depends on the contribution of subordinate staff in to steer the organization to greater heights of prosperity. The leader and subordinate staff are thus brought together by the law of connection.

e.  Law of Empowerment

Most Orphan and Vulnerable Children projects revolve around a mechanical mind set. These projects view the problem in terms of a broken down machine which needs fixing. The tendency is to come up with the right part of the broken machine and fix it. In so doing, most of these projects hinge on a mechanical way of thinking. While a lot has been achieved through such efforts, there’s need to adopt agricultural mind set in which seeks to nurture these kids to grow into responsible citizens hence integrate them into the national grid for community development.

It’s not enough just to provide basic human needs to these children. If poor self image and low esteem are not addressed, no amount of money and food will do in nurturing a child to growth and maturity. This is only possible by adopting the law of empowerment outlined in this book.

f.  Law of the Picture.

Learning to drive a car is both humbling and helpful experience. You just don’t jump onto the driver’s seat from day one and away you go. No instructor will allow you anywhere near the vehicle except as a passenger. In driving school, you’re taken through different stages from being taught the basics in car parts, their significance, road signs, before you sit in the car after many hours, days, sometimes months of practice. Sounds silly and slow but its significant. None of these steps is scuttled because once you’re on the driver’s seat; it’s a matter of life and death for you and other road users.

It doesn’t matter that you set to achieve one, two, three or more goals in life. Equally, it is not enough to concentrate and gain success in only one area of your life and neglect others. Your whole life fits together as parts of jigsaw puzzle to complete what the big picture. This is what John C. Maxwell refers to as the Law of Picture in this book.

g.  Law of the Lid.

In today’s world of sophistication, no one is spared from pressure of life. Pressures come from all sides, the media, the economy, and the contemporary success image. However, you do well to identify areas in your life which are the cause of defeating beliefs in your life. A number of factors precipitate doubt in self which lead to failure. Some of the more common ones come from three areas: physical, mental and emotional exhaustion. But the biggest blunder is to,

Stop Believing in Yourself.

Instances of unbelief in self are often caused by circumstances in life. If and when this happens, as indeed it does in moments of doubt, you must try and call to memory those times you were at your best frame of mind. It’s based on facts. However, the temptation to distrust your ability and capability to marshal courage particularly in dealing with others and the importance of your work tips the balance more to doubt than believe in yourself. In recalling the fine moments you were at your best, you will be able to avert falling into the temptation of distrusting yourself. This is exemplified in the example given in the first chapter of this book on the Law of the Lid. The two brothers Dick and Maurice failure to take their business to the next level was their own doing.

3. How will these ideas or lesson help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world? If so, how?

Putting these ideas into practice at the place work where I continually interact with people is the first step towards internalizing them to develop my own leadership skills through interaction.

4. Quotes. Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you. 

“It’s not the position that makes the leader; it’s the leader that makes the position,” Stanley Huffy …

Throughout history there have been men and women who exhibited exemplary leadership qualities, the very sentiments expressed in the above quote.

Gideon, in the book of Judges in the Bible, presents a typical example of a leader who created a winning team. Although there is divine guidance involved in this narrative, nonetheless as a person, Gideon had before that exemplary leadership ability. He took charge to stamp in out the worship of ‘Baal’ among God’s chosen nation, he elicited the cooperation of ten men to do the job.

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

No.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

Yes

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

How interesting was it to read?                                                          8

How helpful were the content?                                              8

How easy was it to understand?                                             9

Would you recommend it to others?                                      7

What is the overall rating you would give it?                         8

Principle Centered Leadership
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1.    What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea principle centered leadership.

2.  What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.

i.  Foreshadowing.

“Then cometh Jesus with them unto a place called Gethsemane, and saith unto the disciples, sit here while I go and pray up yonder.”Mathew 26: 36 – 54, foreshadows Jesus’ crucifixion and death. Jesus and His disciple passed by Gethsemane many times as they crisscrossed the countryside during his earthly three year ministry. Jesus knew what’s ahead in God’s redemptive plan for the salvation of mankind. He set to experience it live long before the actual incident happened by being in the exact place to contemplate on the event yet to come.
“O my father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from; nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt,” Jesus said.

Jesus also wanted Peter and the two sons of Zebedee to have a glimpse of what is in store. He took the three with him to Gethsemane. However, it was clear the three couldn’t fathom the event vividly as Jesus did. They were fast asleep most of the time. Athletes, cooks, fisher folk, writers, actors do this all the time. But the one area that could do with foreshadow of the outcome is leadership. It is not enough for a leader to push through the ultimate experience of the outcome of a company’s goal, the leader must to succeed share the same vision with the followers. Its only as the followers internalize the vision of the organisation through wise leadership will they help in implementation of the origination’s mission.

Day of Rest
“And he rested on the seventh day from all his work,” Genesis 2:2 God set aside one day of rest not because God was tired. First, it was so I believe to break the routine of monotony of doing the same thing day, day out. Second, God had accomplished what he purposed to achieve in creation. Third, and more importantly, God only shifted efforts from creation to maintenance. This shift as you would imagine required lapse of time. However you know God didn’t take like a complete bed rest recommended to patients recovering from sickness. God’s rest program simply meant shifting gears. In the case of automobile, gears are shifted several times to main speed. On a downhill, the case is a little different. Although the shift in gears is necessary, the car continues to move on. Matatu drives in Kenya cut off car engines on a downhill run expecting save on gas. What these drivers are unaware of is that a car needs a lot more power to start than to continue in motion with the engine running. It is equally important for a leader in real life to take off some time to rest, review and reevaluate his strategies to stay relevant and on course.

Living on the top Level of Life.
No one is content staying at the bottom of the ladder of success in life. Everyone strives to reach the top. But not all succeed very well. Enthusiasm and zeal for success in life is inherent in everyone, you included. The difference comes in your resilience to stand firm in the face of challenges and climb to the top level of success.

Zig Ziglar, in his book “See You at The Top,” echoes similar sentiments of upward movement. It seems everyone is inclined to move upward rather than stay at the bottom of the ladder of success. This upward movement requires the knowledge and skills only a principled leader offers to his followers. This is the essence of the principles of leadership outlined by Dr. Stephen Covey. In the words of the prophet Isaiah, “This is the man who will dwell on the heights whose refugee will be the mountain fortress.” Isaiah 33: 16 (NIV)

Future Focus.
In a previous exercise, I touched on the subject of pull of the past in respect to change in personality. In this book the account of Lot’s wife comes to mind in respect to leadership and future focus.

“Escape for thy life; look not thee behind, neither stray thou in the plain, escape to the mountains,” the angel of the Lord commanded Lot and his family.

“But his wife looked back from behind him and she became a pillar of salt.” Lot’s ‘wife was not in step with her husband and children. She was trailing instead of walking side by side with the rest of the family members.

A principled leader must be able to focus ahead than get distracted by past failures in the organization.

Obstacles and Opportunities

Its true there are many obstacles a leader must overcome to steer the ship to shore. Equally, true are numerous opportunities life provides for the individual leader to navigate the tough unfamiliar territories in personal, professional, business and marriage life among others. Majority of obstacles can’t be solved by quick fix solutions. That is not to suggest, these obstacles are unsolvable. Many times, it isn’t the magnitude of the obstacle as it is the method used which presents great challenges to the leader. It also good for a leader to be aware there are natural laws and principles governing the solution to problems in life. One such is the law of the farm. A leader expecting good returns must in the same manner prepare the ground, lay aside excess baggage and nurture his followers in the process to attain maturity. In this way the team is able to achieve the goals set together. Throughout this book, Dr. Covey emphasizes the need for team spirit in principled leadership.

Cutting Corners.
Joe had been eying promotion to a new position that fell vacant when Kamau left the firm for greener pastures. Competition for this position became hot and so stiff with others in Joe’s job group joined in the hunt for the promotion. Contestants were forced to go out of their way to succeed in getting the promotion.

Everyone did everything from sabotaging to slandering others in trying to get close to the hierarchy. This took a dangerous turn to the extent of boot licking, just to get superior’s ears. Others finding themselves in a similar situation between a hard rock and as stone turned into workaholics (if there be such a word in the English language vocabulary). You know how demoralizing, failing to get promoted gets to you. Some people get depressed.

Suddenly, Joe lost interest in his job and chose to leave the company altogether, because he didn’t clinch the promotion. Joe isn’t the only one who takes such news badly. There are cases of people who upon failing to secure a new position at the work place turn to the bottle for consolation. The trouble is booze won’t take away your problems. Instead, it will only add to your sorrows. You may feel better for a while as the liquor lulls your pain. But your problems will be waiting for you where you left them in your heart and mind. In most cases going after success the wrong way, only adds to your frustrations in life leading to more failure.

Blind Spot.
Everyone has a blind spot. A blind spot could be a stop downhill or simply an area on the road wild animal’s jump straight in front of your car from the bush unexpectedly. While every effort is made to warn motorists of blind spots on the road, all the warnings can’t compensate for disaster preparedness. You can’t take chances on the road, not even with fellow motorists, some of whom drive under the influence of something else. But no matter the situation, however volatile the blind spot. A leader must be able to acknowledge and accept the shortfalls to forge ahead. Instead of explaining it away and giving excuses to justify the blind spot, in personal, professional, business, marriage, health and fitness, a leader must be prepared to analyze the situation if indeed the situation requires adjustment to ease tension in the organization. Principle centered leader also recognizes the inadequacy in human being and accepts their own blind spot and those of followers. Only then is a leader capable of providing quality leadership skills devoid of pretense to the followers. It takes courage, scrutiny and honesty to acknowledge and adept you too have blind spots as a leader.

3. How will these ideas or lesson help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world? If so, how?

It goes without saying that leadership entails more than just being in front of others, rather one also needs to inspire all that are behind them. This in turn will give a unity of purpose to the subjects being led. This are some of the skills that I intend to apply in my work place and even society at large.

4. Quotes. Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“Give a man fish and you feed him for a day; teach him how to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.” This quote on the cover of Dr. Stephen Covey’s book “Principle Centered Leadership,” sums up the concept of leadership the author advocates throughout this book.

5.  Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

None.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

No

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.

No

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10.  Ten is good and one is poor.

A. How interesting was it to read?             9
B. How helpful were the contents?              9
C. How easy was it to understand?              9
D. Would you recommend it to others?         10
E.  What is the overall rating you would give it?      10

The Mediator’s Hand Book
Assessment by Collins Odhiambo (Kenya)

1.  What is the main idea that author is trying to convey in this book?

Main idea in this book is mediation or conflict resolution.

2.    What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?  List these seven ideas followed by an exploration after each one as to why it was important to you.  Use personal examples from your own life.

i. Premier of Conflict
Conflict is as old as humanity.
Today, many marriages are on the rocks due to lack of effective communication.  Most troubled
marriages are not caused by lack of money, in laws or sex, as many couples would have you believe.  Failure to communicate effectively with each other is the main cause of trouble in marriage/relationships. Communication in the home involves husband and wife; parents and children; family and God.  Leave out one aspect of this triangle of communication in the home and some features of your marriage relationship are bound to suffer. Each of these three areas of communication in the home, comprise three levels: the physical, the mental and the spiritual. All the three levels provide a complete and satisfying situation in a marriage relationship.

ii.  Process of Conflict Resolution
“Conflict,” is the …fundamental element of friction, necessary because in literature, only trouble is interesting,” Janet Barroway said.  Without conflict, there would be no story to tell and life would lack its lustre.  Conflict and struggle give the story its energy.  There are as many conflicts as there are possibilities in the world between people. But the hardest conflict takes place within you the individual.  Inner conflict builds or breaks character.  This inner conflict is between your two natures, conscious and the sub conscious, (inner and outer person).  These two natures within an individual are constantly engaged in internal dialogue.      

iii.  Procedure of Conflict Resolutions – Traditional Vs Modern
One of the reasons for the recent delay in processing and prosecuting cases has to do with scrapping off of the traditional legal framework for conflict resolutions.  Presently, every case, trivial or otherwise must go through the country’s legal system.  With the lawyers craving for better pay and representation of personalities of higher cadre in society, some cases are neglected.  Others are forgotten leaving the accused to languish in the cells for years without trial.  Then there are case of national interest like Goldenberg, post-election violence in the Hague, given so much hype by the media that the who is who law firm wants to stake a piece of the of the culprits s in this case.

Traditional legal system “village baraza,” had little room for corruption which plagues today’s judiciary. Issues which came up for prosecutions in “village baraza,”were dealt with quickly and swiftly. Transparency was adhered to at every level in dealing with matters of community members’ conflict resolution.  Cases were heard by a group of village elders appointed to the bar whose lifestyle was beyond reproach in the respect to community.  Since there was no moratorium attached to these appointments, only the chosen few volunteers presided over community conflict cases.  The weekly frequency of meetings helped in processing and prosecution of these cases with uttermost speed and accuracy.

iv.  Building Bridges.
“Everybody needs good neighbors”. These are the lyrics of the signature tune of the popular Australian Soap Opera ‘Neighbors’. However, most neighbors don’t get along well. But, however hard neighbors find it hard to cope with one another, there is nothing you or anyone can do except learns to live and coexist with each other through constant mediation from time to time.

Neighbors
Some neighbors choose to barricade themselves within self-imposed prison walls around their homes to enjoy a little privacy. You may not see each other, inside the fortified territory, but you can hear your neighbors yelling and screaming at each other all the time. Obnoxious neighbors will make it a point you realize they too exist. This kind of neighbor will play music at the highest decibel in the wee hours of the night, bang on the wall around your compound shriek unnecessarily from time to time.

If none of these methods work, this neighbor will sharpen the tools of trade against your wall at night. This time round your instinct will jump to alert because your security is at risk. The only way around the problem is through mediation, holding hands if that’s what it calls for just so that you co-exist.  The same is true on a wider scale of the sphere of life.  And that’s the reason for the importance of mediation of conflict resolutions.

v.  Political Purgatory
Elliot’s, the moribund bakery company of the late sixties, early seventies wound up without ever considering making half a loaf of bread.  Perhaps, it’s because, Elliot’s had the monopoly in baking and supplying bread that the thought hardly ever crossed the minds of the sales and promotion department team of this company.  Only much later would the idea of making half a loaf of bread come  to the market and sales department of some bakeries due to increased demand and inflation, coupled with the market being flood, thus becoming a case of too many business entrepreneurs chasing the dwindling consumer market.

Lately, the phrase ‘half a loaf’ has crept into politics in juxtaposition to the disputed 2007 general election with regard to presidential election results, which resulted in the loss of life and property of unknown value.  But can we genuinely say the two political parties PNU and ODM; each has half the control of the government today?  Better still, how does this half a loaf translate and trickle down into tangible items to Atieno and Wanjiku?  Is there a chance, politicians and in this case, the Prime Minister is cleverly hiding behind the phrase ‘half a loaf’ for the benefit of a select few, him included?  What of those innocent voters who paid with their dear lives?  Any possibility they too will someday benefit from this half a loaf arrangement between the two principals?  How about their next of kin, in which way(s) will this half a loaf reach them?
‘Half a loaf’ wasn’t the original intention of bakers the likes of Elliot’s and certainly not the voters’ anticipation in the run up to 2007 general election.  Voters went out in droves for the sole purpose of getting the full loaf.  The political ‘half a loaf’ situation touted in Kenya today can therefore be likened to the doctrine of purgatory, a middle ground for those whose intention of entering heaven is halted for a while, until the priest  intervenes and prays them through.  Although this doctrine is revered by our catholic brothers, nonetheless, it is not biblical.  The destination of a dearly departed loved one is either hell or heaven as the good book indicates. Instead of conceding defeat as Uhuru Kenyatta did in 2002, the leaders of PNU and ODM settled for political purgatory of ‘half a loaf’ through Mr. Koffi Annan led team that mediated between these two warring parties.

vi.  Pride – Problem of Conflict Resolution
“If Joe expects me to forgive him, and forget what he put me through these past few years, he’s in for a rude shock,” Jacinta tells the marriage counselor trying to mediate between the two to avert a ten year marriage breaking down.

“Pride comes before a fall,” the old adage goes.  It is natural to be remorseful when offended by a spouse like in Jacinta’s case.  She was badly hurt to discover that Joe had another wife besides her.  Jemima, Joe’s other wife was kept a secret all those years, even though the law prohibits bigamy.  But however discreet the two were, the truth has a way of surfacing.  Jacinta would not even hear a word of forgiveness from the marriage counselor.  Her pride stood in the way of putting herself in Joe’s position.

“If he could do that to me once, he will do it again and again.  There’s no use forgiving him,” Jacinta reminded the marriage counselor, tears stinging her eyes.

vii.  Obstacles and Opportunities of Conflict Resolutions
It’s true there are many obstacles in life to overcome to stay at peace within and with each other.  But equally are opportunities available to over these obstacles, if you look long and hard enough.  The goal of mediation is to help people improve their future relations through effective communication.

Perfect Partners
There is no such thing as perfect partners in real life.  Perfect strangers; ah yes plenty of them around alright. Perfect partnership, is a utopia, a fantasy in the mind of escapists by psychologists.  Perfect strangers, are around you all the time.

Many of those you come across in different places in life are basically perfect strangers. Kids are the only exceptional group of human beings to this rule.  Kids portray a picture of the closest human beings can get to being perfect partners in relationships.  Kids have no hang ups like adults in getting to know one another.  They may not freely want to share their food with the other kids, but they certainly have time to play together and communicate effectively.
Inner and Outer Man

Existence of the inner man makes individual transformation change elusive.  Unless you make a conscious effort to change your way of thinking, changes made on the outward man will amount to nothing. The good news is transformation of the inward man is possible, if you want and choose.  But there’s a second “dichotomy,” of change in the two human natures.   Unless you understand connectivity between these two natures, you won’t resolve personality conflicts within.  And unless you understand and master your mind, it would be difficult to deal with conflict situations round about in your life.  These conflicts come from all sides of life spectrum.  Pressures come from the media, the economy, and the contemporary success image.

3.  How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you t create a better world?  If so, how?

Ideas expressed in this book are a gem in resolving first individual conflict and conflict inherent in a society such as ours with multiple conflicts zones from tribal, political and social strata.  But that is on the outside, the real conflict comes from within the individual.  Conflict within must be dealt with first, before conflict without can be tackled with any degree of success.

4. Quotes.  Are there any statements, which the author made that particularly got your attention?  If so, please quote them and comment as to why they are important to you.

“People get discouraged.  You have doubts too but it is important to say … It’s a miracle to see at the end of the session how it has come together.”  This along with other quotes from this book echo sentiments of positive outcome which is at the core of mediation 

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are thee ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?

None at all.

6. Did the book contain exercise for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful.

Yes

7.  Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?  If so, please comment.

No

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10.  Ten is good and one is poor.

A.    How interesting was it to read?            7
B.     How helpful were the content?            9
C.     How easy was it to understand?         8
D.    Would you recommend it to others?         10
E.     What is the overall rating you would give it?    8