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[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]As a Man Thinketh<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

The main idea of the book As a Man Thinketh is that our thoughts can greatly influence our personality. In fact, our mind is the best vehicle for success when we understand how to use it. However, once we lose control of it, we fail at everything we do. Hence, it’s better to keep controlling it through creative and innovative thoughts because they will definitely lead us to the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. A person is literally what she thinks, her character being the complete sum of all her thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n

I totally agree with this statement, as I was once that bad person in my own eyes just because I thought so. I constantly had negative thoughts about myself throughout the day. You may wonder how thoughts have this magical power. I realized it the very day I started replacing these ideas with kind and gentle thoughts about myself. Surely, it wasn’t that simple because, at first, I was only faking it. For instance, I wrote beautiful affirmations about myself that I found in Louise Hay’s and Wayne Dyer’s books and tried to read them daily. Step by step, I replaced bad thoughts with positive ones. In the end, we are what we think.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. A noble and Godlike character is not a thing of favor or chance, but the natural result of continued effort in right thinking; the effect of long-cherished association with Godlike thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n

An example from my life for the first idea: I once thought that I was ugly, and everyone around me seemed to think the same; even telling me so. But the day I told myself that I was a beautiful princess, I never heard the word \u201cugly\u201d again.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. A man\u2019s mind may be likened to a garden, which may be intelligently cultivated or allowed to run wild; but whether cultivated or neglected, it must and will bring forth. If no useful seeds are planted in it, then an abundance of useless weed seeds will take root and continue to grow.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is indeed continuous work; something you must do throughout your life to strengthen your mind and allow it to flourish with great ideas. For instance, I believe I have had this mindset for more than ten years. I remember the day I was fed up with my colleagues\u2019 behavior and wanted to quit my job because of a conflict I had. But in the end, I stayed at the job for more than ten years.<\/span>
\nOne morning, I told myself that I would remove the thought that my colleagues hated me and instead, I would adopt affirmative beliefs. Every single morning, I started repeating to myself: I love my friends, and they love me. Certainly, there were times when I felt differently, but I kept up the good work until I made it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nowadays, I feel like everyone at my job appreciates something about me. Even when I hear through the grapevine that they are talking behind my back, I let it go and keep a big smile on my face. I still have a long way to go before I reach my milestone\u2014my secret, beautiful garden with flowers in every spot. But I believe that, with all the effort I am putting in, those negative thoughts will eventually fade away.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. As a progressive and evolving being, man is where he is that he may learn that he may grow; and as he learns the spiritual lesson which any circumstance contains for him, it passes away and gives place to other circumstances explained to me this idea<\/span><\/p>\n

I remember that I was renting a home that I hated as hell, and always tried to alter it, but in vain. Back then, I used to read a bunch of self-help books, where I found always the idea that you should always love your things, treat well even though they are without feeling behaving with them and especially thinking about them in a good way is essential to move to another step in your life. Indeed, I started to fake the feeling that I loved my home, and even tried to buy beautiful furniture for it, clean it and even I thought about painting it. I think that a few more months after I change my mindset and thinking about that place I moved to a better one, and to much better one, and nowadays I own my own stunning apartment that I cherish a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. Calmness of mind is one of the beautiful jewels of wisdom. It is the result of long and patient effort in self-control.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever I think about calm and a peaceful mind, meditation comes to my mind. I believe that the times I meditated or focused while praying were the moments when I could truly connect with myself. During these times, I could reflect on how connected I am to my ideas and decide how to approach the most difficult problems in my life. I began to see them as challenges or steps toward a better period in my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. The body is the servant of the mind. It obeys the operations of the mind, whether they be deliberately chosen or automatically expressed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Indeed, everything that comes across our mind can become a reality. I think about illness and how it reflects what we think about ourselves. I am no expert in science or medicine, but I have witnessed many cases where people attract sickness because of their thoughts. However, I can give an example from my own life. I remember when the Corona virus first appeared, it was all around the world, but only those who were constantly thinking about it; even though they took all the precautions got sick. I have no explanation, but talking about myself, I was like, \u201cYeah, the pandemic is here, so what? I will only wear my mask, wash my hands as recommended, and that\u2019s all.\u201d Trust me, I never had it, even though it was around me. This is not the only instance; I was near people with tuberculosis, hepatitis, and even respiratory illnesses but never got them. In my mind, I focus on the best, not the worst.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. Circumstance does not make the man; it reveals him to himself.<\/span><\/p>\n

This idea emphasizes how circumstances can teach us who we really are. That\u2019s why sometimes we only know our true selves when we are nervous; it can be a test of all our past experiences. Patience cannot be tested on beautiful days, but it is revealed in harsh, tough moments. It shows us whether we have grown enough to survive or if we still need to work on ourselves and experience life\u2019s lessons.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your <\/span>daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I completely agree with the statement that we are what we think. In the future, I envision myself becoming the person I truly want to be by actively cultivating positive thoughts. I know that my mindset will be the key to achieving personal growth and success. Instead of letting self-doubt and negative thinking take over, I plan to nurture a mindset full of kindness, self-love, and optimism. With time, I believe I\u2019ll notice that my inner transformation will directly impact how I see the world and how others perceive me as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

As I reflect on the future, I see that developing a noble and Godlike character won\u2019t happen by chance, but through consistent effort in thinking positively and aligning my thoughts with higher ideals. I anticipate that the more I consciously choose to think kindly and nobly, the more these qualities will naturally shape my character. It will be a continuous journey of refining my thoughts and building the person I aspire to become, not just through actions, but through the way I think and approach life\u2019s challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n

The idea of my mind being like a garden resonates with the future I\u2019m aiming to create. I understand that cultivating positive thoughts is an ongoing process. In the future, I\u2019ll be intentional about planting seeds of growth, self-improvement, and gratitude. I know that, just like any garden, my mind will require consistent care, attention, and effort. There will be moments when negative thoughts try to take root, but I\u2019m determined to replace them with empowering beliefs that support my growth and vision for the future.<\/span>
\nLooking ahead, I see challenges and circumstances as opportunities for learning and growth. Instead of resisting or resenting difficult situations, I aim to approach them with an open mind, ready to discover what lessons they have for me. Each experience, whether positive or negative, will help me evolve into a better version of myself. I believe that the more I learn from life\u2019s lessons, the more resilient and adaptable I\u2019ll become, ready to face new challenges with wisdom.<\/span><\/p>\n

I also foresee that calmness of mind will be one of the treasures I continue to cultivate. I plan to integrate practices such as meditation, mindfulness, and reflection into my daily routine to maintain inner peace. These practices will help me stay focused, grounded, and clear-headed when facing future obstacles. I envision that by mastering the art of self-control and patience, I will be able to approach life with a calm and steady mind, no matter what comes my way.<\/span><\/p>\n

The connection between the mind and body will continue to play a pivotal role in my health and well-being. I know that the thoughts I harbor can directly influence my physical state. In the future, I plan to keep my mind focused on health and vitality, visualizing myself as strong and capable. I believe that by maintaining a positive mindset, I will continue to enjoy good health and avoid unnecessary illness. The mind-body connection will be a powerful tool I\u2019ll use to create the reality I desire.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lastly, I am confident that I will always try to lead people to adopt the same mindset, at least those who believe in me, remembering that change starts with ourselves and spreads step by step.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cThe soul attracts that which it secretly harbors; that which it loves, and also that which it fears.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

I think this quote should be a motto for successful people. This quote is the most important to me because it represents a mindset that those who thrive in happiness, a good life, and beautiful things should adopt as it is. For instance, we only get what we think about. Thoughts are alive they circulate in our environment and create our best life.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear <\/span>about or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I totally agree with every single idea in the book.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you <\/span>complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

The book does not contain explicit exercises. However, you can draw inspiration from its ideas to create exercises that help change your thinking, monitor your thoughts, and meditate on key aspects to discover your inner self. From there, the whole transformation can begin.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good <\/span>and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Jonathan Livingston Seagull<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

The book emphasizes that everyone can be a leader, and that leaders create leaders, not followers. Every one of us can be a Jonathan. However, it is up to us to nurture the Jonathan within us and fly high in the sky or suppress it the day it is born. Flying high can represent a skill we dream of mastering, such as public speaking. For example, all of us started as babies; speechless creatures and we learned step by step. Mahatma Gandhi, for instance, continued to develop this skill until his voice became immortal. Even though he has passed away, his name resonates as strongly as when he was alive. Indeed, Jonathan sometimes faced weakness and nearly gave up on his dream, but he maintained his motivation until the end. Not only did he achieve his dream, but he also helped others follow his remarkable path. Hence, we can create the leaders within us and help others follow in our footsteps.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. Livingston Seagull was highly practicing to fly<\/span><\/p>\n

Practice is the key to success. No matter how difficult or tricky the skill you’re practicing, it becomes easier with time. The more you practice, the more familiar you become with it. This reminds me of the first day I decided to take the IELTS exam at Band 7. In the beginning, practice felt like a heavy burden, and I had to force myself to read an article from the New York Times or listen to an Easy English podcast for even five minutes. However, through persistence, I managed to pass the IELTS at Band 7. Along the way, I transitioned from a B2 intermediate to a C1 level. The icing on the cake was that I became addicted to English; now I can’t go a day without reading, writing, listening, and speaking it.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Most gulls don’t bother to learn more than the simplest facts of flight.<\/span><\/p>\n

This idea implies the tendency to remain ordinary in order to stay within your comfort zone. I used to be happy sitting in front of the TV, scrolling through nonsense channels just to kill time, not realizing that I was actually killing my skills and becoming accustomed to laziness. Many people nowadays prefer simple tasks over innovative ones, so they don’t bother themselves with learning new skills or improving the ones they already have. Hence, if everyone among us thinks only about simple things, who’s going to get up and take action to boost our world?<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. For the next few days he tried to behave like the other gulls.<\/span><\/p>\n

Feeling depressed or demotivated can be a phase that you accept sometimes, but it\u2019s not a problem as long as you keep going and motivate yourself. I remember that last year I was a little disappointed when the office decided not to upgrade me, even though I was doing a lot of work. As a result, I stopped learning and ended up doing the same mechanical job every day without enhancing my skills. In the end, I reminded myself that it was just a period of depression, and that I needed to get back on track and continue doing good work.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Jonathan Livingston Seagull loved to fly<\/span><\/p>\n

This emphasizes that we need to start doing the things we love. Jonathan loved flying, and that\u2019s why he kept doing it and improving even at the price of being alone and isolated from others. However, in the end, he managed to bring other gulls to his side, inspiring them to follow his passion and become leaders themselves. As a result, choosing a goal that we love always leads to fruitful outcomes.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. I Just Want to Know What I Can Do in the Air and What I Can\u2019t<\/span><\/p>\n

This point highlights how successful people use the SMART method to achieve their goals. Furthermore, I can give you an example from my own experience. Two months ago, I set a new professional goal to become a project manager. I decided to pursue a certification that would allow me to both learn project management from scratch and certify my knowledge. Instead of starting directly with the PMP certification, I chose to take the CAPM first and then work toward the PMP.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. We Can Lift Ourselves Out of Ignorance; We Can Discover Ourselves as Creatures of Excellence, Intelligence, and Skill<\/span><\/p>\n

I recently discovered that I was criticizing people without limits, always thinking I was right. I realized that this behavior was pure ignorance, and thank God I am now working on changing it. Conversely, I try to focus on my own weaknesses, improve myself, and uplift my skills and knowledge.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. Fletcher, you lost forty miles an hour in the entry! You have to be smooth! Firm but smooth, remember?<\/span><\/p>\n

I apply this approach at work because being smooth and at the same time firm means being objective and flexible. I also use the sandwich method to apply this approach: I start my conversation by complimenting the colleague, then I try to be strict about the instructions, and in the end I finish with nice words highlighting my confidence in the person to do the best they can. It indeed depends not only on the person but also on the situations.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your <\/span><\/strong><\/em>daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Indeed, we know many things theoretically, but when it comes to practice, we need regular reminders. This book served as a strong reminder for me, acting as a summary or takeaway from all the self-development books I’ve read so far. It taught me that no matter how distant my goal may seem, I can reach it through practice and by dividing it into small steps.<\/span><\/p>\n

Furthermore, it highlights the drawbacks of getting too comfortable in our routine \u2014 merely eating, sleeping, and waiting. I also understood that depression and fatigue can be part of our success journey. While we need to accept them, we must ensure they don\u2019t become parasites that make our dreams impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n

The same applies to our loved ones. Yes, we must respect and teach them, but we should remain mindful if they unintentionally hinder our progress. We need to deal with such situations smartly. Loving our dreams, knowing exactly what they are, and being aware of our weaknesses can be vehicles for epic success. Finally, being both smooth and strict is key to leading a great and balanced life.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that <\/span>particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as <\/span>to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cYou have the freedom to be yourself, your true self, here and now, and nothing can stand in your way.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

This highlights the fact that we don’t have a stronger enemy than ourselves. If we want to improve our skills and achieve our personal goals, we can do it no matter what happens. However, if we limit ourselves to a small distance, no one can help us.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear <\/span>about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yeah, I was actually asking myself whether it was necessary for the author to explain the human path using an animal or a bird. However, he could simply give us a real story about many role models in life who had succeeded, even though their stories might be more epic than that of a gull. Imagination is a good thing, especially when explaining the impossible, but I think that humans are not comparable to any other creation. Furthermore, humans are smarter; hence, I ask myself, what is the wisdom behind choosing a gull to represent the human path?<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you <\/span>complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment <\/span>on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.
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\nNothing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one is poor.
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\nA. How interesting was it to read? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 6<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 6<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 7<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 7<\/strong><\/span><\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]PsychoCybernetics<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Dr. Maxwell Maltz emphasizes in his book PsychoCybernetics that taking care of our self-image is a crucial step to holistic success. He also highlighted that we are neither superior nor inferior creatures; we are simply ourselves. Furthermore, he stated essential techniques to correct or reprogram our self-image through a success mechanism called PsychoCybernetics, similar to the one integrated into computers. He gave many stories as examples and provided detailed exercises to start succeeding effortlessly. In a nutshell, throughout the book, he helped us build a nostalgia for the future, not the past.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. Our errors, mistakes, failures, and sometimes even our humiliations, were necessary steps in the learning process.<\/span><\/p>\n

Impact on my life: This idea is the most relevant first step to any success because, contrary to what we used to think about failure and its synonyms mentioned in these two sentences, failure is not the opposite of success. In fact, they are friends; they complement each other. Failure is a step toward success if we use it as a learning process. No one was born a successful person. Well-known successful people built their amazing or epic success from scratch. For instance, in 2012, I was working with X organization, and the project I was working on was closed. However, the manager told us that we could still work with them even though we were laid off from that project. But in the end, they couldn\u2019t do anything, and that\u2019s when I found myself jobless. I refused to see it as a failure and tried to tell myself that this was a beginning for a better life project. What was awaiting me was far more than what I was expecting because I believed that losing a job can sometimes be a blessing in disguise. Indeed, my journey began with the UN.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Remember the fairy story about the Shoemaker and the Elves? The shoemaker found that if he cut out the leather and laid out the patterns before retiring, little elves came and actually put the shoes together for him while he was sleeping.<\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why this idea reminds me of the saying, \u201cIf the student is ready, the master appears.\u201d Whenever we are prepared or let me borrow Doctor Maxwell\u2019s words when our self-esteem is in its place, neither superior nor inferior, we keep reaching our goals. We only need to prepare our mind through visualization, relaxation, and self-awareness, then our subconscious will not make the difference between reality and imagination, just as the elves in the Shoemaker story. At the end of the day, we will fulfill our dreams easily.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. Consciously practice the habit of “taking no anxious thought for tomorrow,” by giving all your attention to the present moment.<\/span><\/p>\n

This idea is reflected in how I\u2019ve started living in the present. Instead of worrying about the future, I focus on doing now what I would do if I were already living my dream career. I only think about the future when I\u2019m visualizing success or making concrete plans. Otherwise, I stay grounded in the now.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Develop what one of the automobile manufacturers calls “the forward look. \u201cDevelop a nostalgia for the future instead of for the past.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve shifted my mindset from seeing past experiences as failures to viewing them as lessons that contribute to my future success. Rather than longing for the past, I\u2019ve begun to feel excited about the future and use that motivation to move forward in both my personal and professional life.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. An emotional scar to protect their ego. This scar tissue, however, not only “protects” them from the individual who originally hurt them; it \u201cprotects\u201d them against all other human beings. An emotional wall is built through which neither friend nor foe can pass.<\/span><\/p>\n

As I\u2019ve read the book more deeply, I\u2019ve begun recognizing old emotional scars that shaped my reactions and self-image. Instead of letting them build walls around me, I try to validate those feelings, give them meaning, and release them. This healing helps me stay open to others and frees me from letting past pain block my success.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. Being too big to feel threatened. One idea from PsychoCybernetics that I found valuable is \u201cBeing too big to feel threatened.\u201d The book explains that people with low self-esteem are easily hurt by small social slights, while those with healthy self-worth don\u2019t take things personally.<\/span><\/p>\n

Impact on My Life: This idea made me reflect on how I handle feedback. Recently, I shared this paragraph with my friend and asked if he thought it described me. He strongly agreed. At first, I felt defensive and started thinking that maybe he was projecting his own traits onto me. However, I quickly realized that his opinion doesn\u2019t define me. Instead of trying to prove or disprove his point, I reminded myself that I am actively working on self-improvement. This shift in perspective helped me not take his words personally and reinforced my commitment to growth.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. The mind as a goal-seeking mechanism.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve started using my mind intentionally by setting clear, positive goals for both my personal and professional life. Instead of focusing on past mistakes or negative thoughts, I now visualize myself living a successful life and take daily actions toward that vision. This shift activates my mind as a goal-seeking tool; directing my thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to align with who I want to become. Whether it\u2019s calming myself with exercises or reframing past failures as steps forward, I now train my mind to work for me, not against me.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I think that the whole book shifted my personality. Let me explain what exactly happened. As Dr. Maxwell said, I found my real personality; the inner one. Indeed, it\u2019s just the beginning of the journey, but so far, so good.<\/span><\/p>\n

In my personal life, I stop myself whenever I start belittling myself or falling back into old habits. I use the exercises from the book to take a step back \u2014 either I count to ten, visualize myself at peace in the relaxation room I created, or I keep repeating that a bad idea about myself, born from a single mistake or someone else’s opinion, does not define me. Nadia is always her beautiful self-image. The scene or the event is simply there to teach me something; a step toward success, not failure.<\/span><\/p>\n

In my professional life, I\u2019ve started changing how I see any step I once considered a failure or meaningless in shaping my experience. Now, I redefine those moments to help me grow further in my professional projects. Whenever I think about the future, it\u2019s either to visualize myself living a successful life or to plan for it; that\u2019s all. I live in the present and already do what I wish I\u2019d be doing if I were in that career.<\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, I began to remember events that were awakened as I started deeply understanding the book; especially those emotional scars. I try to validate them, give them meaning that helps me offer forgiveness, and release them; to heal my past and prevent it from standing in the way of my success.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your; attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cMan is not a machine, but he does have a machine which he uses.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

I like this quote because it carries a subtle but powerful meaning; that we, as humans, are the most remarkable creatures on Earth and can never be compared to anything else. We can use the “machine” (our mind and body) to become more efficient and to understand our real value, but it can never replace who we truly are.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cHappiness is not something that is earned or deserved. It is simply a choice that must be made.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Indeed, we should not determine whether we deserve to be happy based on who we are or the mistakes we’ve made. We are not machines or calculators; we are human beings. We just need to take that very first step; to choose happiness and that\u2019s enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cIs it fair for a child to adopt a certain attitude just because they are the child of a man or woman with low self-esteem? I\u2019m also wondering why some nations remain trapped in poverty, war, or ignorance; sometimes the entire country. Is it just a coincidence, or could it be that many people within those nations subconsciously believe they don\u2019t deserve peace, wealth, or happiness?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yes, the book contains several exercises such as visualization, relaxation techniques, and self-affirmations. I tried most of them and found them helpful. Visualization and mental rehearsal, in particular, have made a noticeable difference in how I prepare for new achievements in my life. One exercise that I try to apply every time I catch myself thinking negatively about myself or letting my mistakes define me is telling myself, \u201cCancel! this doesn\u2019t define me.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Other small but powerful exercise is going to bed without thinking about the future or making any plans. I just try to be at peace mentally, and then I visualize myself already doing the thing I\u2019m dreaming about. I even added a personal touch by using AI-generated pictures that represent my goals, and I wrote powerful scenarios that describe literally every single step in my plan. I keep repeating the scenario out loud every single night while looking at those visualized pictures. Let me share a little secret: since I started these exercises, I\u2019ve already seen huge results in my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve read many personal development books, but this one stands ahead of the curve because it was written by a doctor who acknowledged that beauty and peace start from the inside, not the outside. Not just any doctor\u2014but one who helped people get new faces and hide visible scars. What if he could change everything without performing that very surgical operation? That\u2019s exactly what he tried to prove in this book, and that\u2019s what makes it so unique and powerful.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

A. How interesting was it to read? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt was so interesting that I read it three times, listened to it twice, and still can\u2019t get enough of it. I even suggested to myself to use it as a daily guide because it addresses almost every issue in life. I recommend it to every loved one I cross paths with. It\u2019s the best book I\u2019ve ever read so far.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt transformed my personality by 90\u00b0, shifted my behavior toward myself, and completely changed the way I see myself and the world.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 8<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt is definitely reader-friendly for adults like me. However, I would suggest a simplified version for teenagers and children. I tried sharing some helpful content with students, but I wish they could read it themselves or have it as part of a training program to fully benefit from it.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 8<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nDefinitely, yes! I have recommended it to almost 10 people so far. If there were a child-friendly version, I would buy it for my children and younger siblings.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9.5<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Think and Grow Rich
\n<\/strong><\/span>Assessment by Nadia Echchiki (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

A Burning Desire is definitely the secret the author was trying to share since the beginning of the book. I can\u2019t imagine how many times he repeated the magic word Burning Desire throughout the book with several meanings: persistence, perseverance, strength… and it has indeed a magical effect on the reader. Even if it is not the secret, it is still the main idea the author was trying to explain to us from the beginning of the book till its end, where he insisted on squeezing our minds and bringing up the giant within us through 28 questions that have an amazing meaning whenever you ask them to yourself to indeed further grow the burning desire, which is the ultimate solution to gain not only material riches but also richness in all aspects of life.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. No one is ever defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality.<\/span><\/p>\n

At the moment, I am living this truth. I haven\u2019t yet achieved my goal, but I never told myself that I failed. Instead, I consider every single challenge as a stone I use to build the ladder to success. On my way to it, I improve many aspects of my life and read between the lines of my future success.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Faith is the head chemist of the mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

This ties directly to the previous one. I have a clear goal: to work remotely with one of my dream companies. I believe with all my heart that this is possible. That faith grows day by day. On this path, I have already achieved something I am proud of: I was offered a remote volunteering position without even applying. They contacted me and the offer aligned perfectly with my long-term goal. It\u2019s a sign that faith truly activates the mind\u2019s creative chemistry.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. Thoughts which are mixed with any of the feelings of emotions, constitute a magnetic force which attracts from the vibrations of the ether, other similar, or related thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is where the burning desire lives. Let me be honest and share a bad experience to show the reality of this idea: I once had a painful sore throat. Recently, I remembered how hard that time was and just by thinking of it intensely and emotionally, I attracted the same experience again. I had to go to the emergency room before it got worse. This shows how powerful our thoughts are; they can even call back pain. That\u2019s why we must watch them, reorient them, and fill them with healing energy instead.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Life\u2019s battles don\u2019t always go to the stronger or faster man… but sooner or later, the man who wins is the man who thinks he can.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything starts in the mind. As Napoleon Hill himself included the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) among the successful people, I thought immediately of the Qur’anic verse:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cIndeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is within themselves.\u201d (13:11)<\/span>
\nIt\u2019s proof that success and change are personal matters; no one else can do it for us, not even God. We have to take the first step with our mindset.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. Knowledge will not attract money, unless it is organized and intelligently directed, through practical Plans of Action, to the Definite End of accumulation of money.<\/span><\/p>\n

This hits home. A family member of mine (may Allah have mercy on him) accumulated a great fortune. He was an orphan from an early age, never went to school, and moved to a new city without knowing a single person. Yet he built successful businesses, had over 30 employees, and passed away while owning properties and having significant savings. That was not school knowledge; it was organized action.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. An educated man is one who has so developed the faculties of his mind that he may acquire anything he wants, or its equivalent, without violating the rights of others.<\/span><\/p>\n

Here I\u2019ll proudly mention my journey with the English language. My organization only required a B2 level, but I challenged myself and said, \u201cWhy not aim for C1?\u201d I had time, passion, and nothing to lose. I followed a plan, sought advice from experts, spoke with native speakers, and searched for helpful programs. Surprisingly, I found amazing free resources. The result? I got C1; without stepping on anyone else\u2019s rights. Because I believe in Karma: what you give, comes back.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. The fear of criticism robs a man of his initiative, destroys his imagination, limits his individuality, takes away self-reliance, and damages him in a hundred ways.<\/span><\/p>\n

This was a moment of truth for me. I realized this is the only fear I truly carry. Recently, I\u2019ve been dedicating time to overcome it and replace it with courage and inner peace.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

These ideas already started shaping my life from the very first chapter. Every morning, I remember that I have the power to control my thoughts, and that burning desire will take me anywhere I want to go as long as I feed it with faith, positive emotion, and persistent action.<\/span><\/p>\n

In my personal life, I use the techniques from the book to:<\/span>
\nWrite and repeat my vision statement twice daily.<\/span>
\nSurround myself with people who uplift me; my own mastermind circle.<\/span>
\nApply visualization and imagination in everything, even in how I raise my child or plan my career.<\/span>
\nRecognize negative thoughts (especially fear of criticism) and gently reprogram them with truth and encouragement.<\/span>
\nIn helping create a better world, I started by sharing these ideas with colleagues, family, and even people I mentor. I raise awareness around the danger of negative talk, and I always encourage people to believe in their ability to change their own lives, just as I\u2019m doing.<\/span>
\nOne step at a time, by changing myself, I\u2019m already helping to change the world around me, and I believe that\u2019s exactly what Napoleon Hill meant.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em>
\n\u201cUnfortunately, there is no legal protection against those who, either by design or ignorance, poison the minds of others by negative suggestions.\u201d This is a strong statement that may summarize many dramatic lives, but on the other hand, it tells us how much being negative to others, and sometimes to ourselves, would be the worst behavior we could adopt. So without waiting for any legal penalty, we can fight this by avoiding it ourselves and raising awareness about such poisons spreading in our societies.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

No, everything in the book was crystal clear. All you have to do is read it many times.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

The book contained several exercises that are linked to each other. So I am trying to fully prepare for each exercise before moving to the next one. Some of them were as follows. Setting clear goals, writing a detailed statement, and reading it twice a day out loud, alongside visualization, can be considered the first exercise in the book. Another exercise I started is reading out loud my vision on a daily basis.<\/span><\/p>\n

The mastermind group is an exercise that tells us how surrounding yourself with like-minded people helps you reach your goal, as they can complement whatever you do not have or help you acquire a certain skill or knowledge. Ford was an example. He indeed surrounded himself with people that could do whatever he could not do, in a sort of delegation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, the imagination and visualization exercises can be done alongside the statement repetition or alone. As he says, success could be an idea, but these two skills can make it succeed and come to the real world. The exercise of defining our fear that holds us from being persistent and achieving our goals is another one. You have to answer twenty-eight questions truthfully to know yourself better than anyone else, and then acquire the wealth and success you chase. Also, repeating positive affirmations is a strong exercise that you have to adopt during the journey.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

What I did not like about the book was its speech directed only to men and also addressed to Americans in chapter seven and eight. I felt a little bit like my place was not there, but I tried to just learn as if it was destined to me. However, I considered looking for another book to complete it, and to my huge surprise, I found a similar book inspired by it and addressed to women, \u201cThink and Grow Rich for Women.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from one to ten. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt was a mind-shift for me. I think that I will read it several times to be able to grasp all the richness it contains. It is a life bible and a full guide that contains every single step to succeed and grow rich.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nA hundred percent. It helped me take quick decisions about many aspects of my life, especially my financial life.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nI fully understood it. Above all, whenever I read it another time, I discover new ideas or maybe further understand them.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nWithout a doubt. Think and Grow Rich is a must-read for every human being. Napoleon Hill even suggested that students, or even children before starting school, should be taught decision-making, definiteness of purpose, self-confidence, initiative, accurate thinking, and a positive mental attitude, as these are the real foundations of success. I wholeheartedly agree with my dear Napoleon Hill and suggest that every parent teach their children Think and Grow Rich before enrolling them in school.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nBecause it is a real success for anyone who reads it. It has stood the test of time, so it is definitely the best self-help, financial planning, life planning, and overall positive book I have ever read. Let me share a little secret. I read it like a novel in 2011 without really doing any of the exercises seriously, and it felt like something new to me, but still, I benefited from its magic. At that time, it shifted my finances.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Success through a Positive Mental Attitude<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Positive Mental Attitude is the main idea of the book, and its antonym is Negative Mental Attitude. The author suggests that we always have to look at ourselves in the mirror; thus, we would find a solution to all our problems. The only person who can really help us is ourselves. The author inspires her thoughts from her co-author Napoleon Hill, especially his book \u201cThink and Grow Rich,\u201d and it was one of the three must-read books she suggested at the beginning of her book.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. You are what you think.<\/span><\/p>\n

Indeed, I was thinking about a personal experience, and why what happened to me was happening to me, although I hated it. Then I thought my mind was the one creating this experience to let me fulfill another desire. I am unable to share the experience for the moment, but it proved to me that no one can control my life other than me. It\u2019s a choice: whether you choose to think positively and live the life you wish, or to choose to think negatively and live the life you hate at the end of the day it\u2019s your decision.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. When you are faced with a problem that involves a misunderstanding with other persons you must first start with yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

I think that I\u2019ve learned this lesson. I started to apply it this morning. I will not confirm that in every single argument I start with myself, but I am trying to involve it in my improvement mechanism. This morning I discussed a subject with my husband, it turned bad and we ended the discussion with a bad communication style. After he left, I thought, if I had reason, why am I feeling bad? It ended that part of my argument was not wonderful, and it was something I was trying to work on: judging people. Yeah, I was judging someone without having any proof, and whenever my husband tried to correct this I refused. Actually, it wasn\u2019t me it was the roadmap I was working on, how I am trying not to judge people. Yet I judged them and was waiting to feel okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. Recommending Think and Grow Rich, to read until you grasp its principles.<\/span><\/p>\n

I started reading Think and Grow Rich which, by the way, I first read back in 2012. It was one of the books that helped me get my job at the UN, so I\u2019m feeling quite nostalgic. I still need to read it for the fourth time to see whether I would know its secret. If needed, I will read it more and more times.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Day by day, in every aspect of my life, I am getting better and better.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is an affirmation suggested by \u00c9mile Cou\u00e9, a French psychologist. In my personal experience, I was having hard moments with some people in my life. I tried to say to myself that these people are nice people and that I would have a great day with them. I tried to repeat this affirmation on a daily basis until one day the experience shifted from a nightmare to the best experience in my life. Back then, I learned this method of autosuggestion from Louise Hay, but I never knew that it was autosuggestion.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. Learn to see: A problem can be your life shift key. Just learn to see far away from your nose; our brain sees first, not our eyes.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. When you don\u2019t understand something, ask yourself why.<\/span><\/p>\n

Brilliant method, and I\u2019ve also heard from my coach that we have to ask, after each why, another one, until they become 5 whys. It helps a lot with many issues. I used this method once, but while reading the book, I thought that it is worth using whenever needed.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. The money given to others is the one which stays.<\/span><\/p>\n

The only wealth you truly keep is the wealth you give away. Coincidentally, or maybe not, in my religion Islam we have the same principle. Aisha, the spouse of the Prophet (PBH), narrated: They had slaughtered a sheep, and the Prophet (PBH) asked, \u201cWhat remains of it? She replied, Nothing remains except its shoulder. He said, All of it remains except its shoulder.\u201d The moral is that the piece they gave away as charity is the one that remained, not the one they hadn\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

All in all, the idea is that we are responsible for what happens in our life, because we choose to start now or to procrastinate. Even hard moments can be the tunnel to great changes in our lives; we don\u2019t have to blame anyone on earth for what happens to us. In reality, the examples, stories, and all the experiences I read throughout the book have switched my way of seeing things and people. While reading the book, and at the end of it, I made several decisions, wrote many goals, and decided to never go back to the old Nadia. I don\u2019t dare think in NMA; there is a voice that tells me every now and then: \u201cHey, remember, you can do it, there is a way, keep reading self-help books.\u201d I noted every single book that seemed related to my journey on Goodreads | Meet your next favorite book, and shelve it as \u201cwant to read,\u201d so I can go back to it during my IIGL journey.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I love the fact that the writer kept repeating to us that we have to read the Bible or any other religious book. And I couldn\u2019t agree more, because religion, for those who believe in it, is not just about spirituality or being attached to God, but it is something that will help us in every step in our lives. God doesn\u2019t need anything from us humankind; He is the one who gives us anything we ask.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

None.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yes, I practiced almost all the exercises, and also did the final one. However, I need to read the book again to repeat them and be more familiar with them. Some exercises, such as positive affirmations, need to become a habit at every moment.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I loved that the author suggested the reading of many books throughout the book\u2014not randomly, but to fix some of the principles of the book and fulfill the goals we aim at correctly. It suggested a library of books that help in building a PMA. I noted some of them to include in my future IIGL reading, because they seem to be powerful books.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from one to ten. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 9<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nIt literally completes Think and Grow Rich and the seventeen \u2026 However, some stories were repeated, which made me jump to the next page, especially since I have read Think and Grow Rich more than three times, which made me know them by heart.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nVery practical with proven successful stories. I was happy about one that is the same as mine one of the readers of Think and Grow Rich couldn\u2019t find Napoleon Hill\u2019s secret of wealth until reading it for the fourth time. So I will keep reading it until finding the secret from my side.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nVery easy, especially since I\u2019ve read two other books of N.H and know literally what he\u2019s trying to share.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\n10. Definitely, as a bundle with Think and Grow Rich and the 17 success principles.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9.5<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nA great book but it will never exceed Think and Grow Rich.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Keys to Success<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a detailed guide for fulfilling all the criteria for someone who can truly achieve their definite purpose. It gives you all the tools to become a brand-new person, the things you should tell your inner self, and even the people you should surround yourself with. It\u2019s a guide you should follow step by step without needing any other books. You should read it several times and absorb all the content. I don\u2019t know if I am the only one, but this book pushed me to improve my thinking and helped me continue the journey toward my definite purpose, even on days when I feel lazy or unmotivated. Napoleon Hill\u2019s ideas are truly worth living by forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. Apply tests to information you encounter<\/span><\/p>\n

I always believed that advice should only be given when asked for, but this book changed my mind through the idea of creating initiative. Without even thinking about it, I found myself calling someone who had moved to another country and offering help not with money or material things, but by advising them to join a program and connecting them with someone I knew there. That person was happy to receive this information. Maybe it will help a lot, maybe a little, but what caught my attention is that the person was waiting for any light in that new country. Maybe what I did was the light at the end of the tunnel and the hope she was waiting for, through PMA.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Enthusiasm as gasoline<\/span><\/p>\n

I was surprised to learn that enthusiasm can also be used for negative purposes. Even leaders like Hitler and Saddam succeeded through PMA, but the result was catastrophic. The lesson I learned is that PMA should never be applied to hurt others, because there is always an end to evil.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. Create initiative<\/span><\/p>\n

This gave me a new way to interpret the information my mind receives. Always check the information, who is spreading it, and their motives. The book suggests a list of questions we can apply to any kind of information. I started applying this principle, and it really changed the way I receive information. It even helped me grow my critical thinking, which is essential nowadays when so much can be fake.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. If you would plant for eternity, plant ideas<\/span>
\nIdeas are the core of a person\u2019s life because they are everywhere, and if supported by imagination, they can fulfill any goal. I often ask myself how I was able to fulfill a dream, and when I look back, I realize that I was imagining it happening. By concentrating more and only keeping the ideas I love in my mind, I know I will reach my definite purpose.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. Mastermind Alliances<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s actually a brilliant idea that works really well, especially nowadays when you can connect with many mindsets from different cultures without leaving your place. It made me think about all the areas I want to improve in my life and look in my environment or online for people who can help me, while I can also help them improve an aspect of their lives. So far, I have joined a parenting mastermind, I am planning to create a spiritual mastermind, and I still need to join an investment (trading) mastermind.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. Success is something we build, not luck or a gift<\/span><\/p>\n

I like this idea because, unlike some other authors who suggest that simply sitting in your place and attracting things can make you a better person, Napoleon Hill emphasizes that success requires effort. He highlights this \u201cmagic skill\u201d not as a substitute for work, but as a way to accelerate the process of achieving what we aim for. So yes, I dream big, but I also put in consistent and determined effort to truly experience success.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. Time management<\/span><\/p>\n

I liked how Napoleon Hill compared time to money; once it\u2019s gone you can never bring it back. He advised that we should plan it very carefully and use it for important things, even classifying activities by their importance. The amazing thing is that I finally decided to plan my days before starting them, so I can use my time productively. For the moment, I only use traditional time management: writing activities on paper, assigning time to each one, and checking them off when they are done. This way, I feel the productivity of my day. I also try to write in a detailed manner about each activity, and I remain flexible if anything unexpected happens, I adjust the timing and switch tasks when necessary.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

As I mentioned earlier, the initiative idea already pushed me to act in a new way. I reached out to someone in need, and maybe I gave them a small light of hope. That experience showed me how important it is to act, not just think. Another lesson I use daily is testing the information I receive. By questioning the source and motives, I avoid blindly accepting everything. This has sharpened my critical thinking and helps me protect myself from false information, which is so important in today\u2019s world. I would definitely adapt my style of life to these principles alongside the others to improve my thinking and also to help others with these brilliant ideas. All these ideas are really core to every successful person, so I\u2019m planning to share them with my friends, colleagues, and family to make them spread and build good habits and attitudes.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cSuccess is something we build, not luck or a gift.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

I like this idea because, unlike some other authors who suggest that simply sitting in your place and attracting things can make you a better person, Napoleon Hill emphasizes that success requires effort. He highlights this \u201cmagic skill\u201d not as a substitute for work, but as a way to accelerate the process of achieving what we aim for. So yes, I dream big, but I also put in consistent and determined effort to truly experience success.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Everything is crystal clear.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yes, there were many exercises. They helped me refine my Definite Purpose, and I also answered the 17 commitments. I noted the questions Napoleon Hill suggested to test whether one has a PMA or not, so I can answer them later on my path to life transformation with PMA. I also started joining mastermind groups to realize my commitment and learn from others who share the same goals.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Since IIGL has many graduates, I wonder if there is a platform where I can connect with mastermind groups directly. This would save time and effort, instead of always searching for new ones or creating my own. For the moment I need an investment mastermind group.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from one to ten. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt was a great book, with detailed guidance for anyone who wants to adopt a PMA mindset. My advice: to get the bigger picture of such a mindset, read it alongside two other books: Think and Grow Rich and Success Through PMA. They complement each other perfectly.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nVery helpful. The best proof is that I started joining mastermind groups, rewrote my statement of Definite Purpose, and began planning to fulfill it. I also started taking time management seriously. I now plan to organize my week day by day using pen and paper. I used to plan only in my mind.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nCrystal clear. Napoleon Hill\u2019s books are very easy to understand, and whenever you read them multiple times, you keep discovering new ideas that can help with anything you are planning to succeed in.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nDefinitely. It\u2019s a key book, realistic, and has stood the test of time.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt\u2019s a book we need to use as a guide until we fully develop a PMA, and then review it often.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Awaken the Giant Within<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

This book is focused on taking action. From the very first pages, the author encourages readers to take immediate action instead of waiting for the \u201cright moment.\u201d He also introduces a ten-day challenge to either begin a new habit or break an old one. He believes that planning without action is simply a waste of time.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. Action beats inaction<\/span><\/p>\n

Since page one, the writer warns readers against just planning and waiting; action is his motto. Indeed, if we don\u2019t connect action to planning, vision, and multiple consistent steps, then we are only dreaming instead of working toward fulfilling our dreams. In the past, I used to read self-help books like novels, applying exercises only for fun. That changed when I applied Atomic Habits\u2019 principles while preparing for IELTS C1, and the magic happened; it worked. Since then, I vowed to read books with a structure, not just to show off. Three months later, I joined the IIGL program.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Values drive decisions<\/span><\/p>\n

This reminds me of a saying: \u201cBad things are bad even if everyone is doing them, and good things are good even if only one person is doing them.\u201d When our values are clear, our decisions become easier to make and more aligned with who we want to be. Whenever you have a value, you don\u2019t think twice when taking a decision.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. Questions truly stimulate thinking<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead of just wondering, \u201cWhy is this happening to me?\u201d We can ask empowering questions that help shift us from a negative state to a more productive and hopeful one. Good questions stimulate thinking, but negative questions, if not addressed, can stimulate blaming, bring back bad memories, and link bad emotions to experiences, creating unconscious files that can create problems in the future. Hence, we have to ask wise questions.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Emotions are life\u2019s drivers<\/span><\/p>\n

If we use them wisely, we can achieve everything we aim for. However, if we allow negative emotions to control us, we might end up destroying our motivation and confidence. Happiness comes from within: It doesn\u2019t need any external factors to exist. It begins with gratitude for what we already have instead of constantly chasing what we don\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. Raise standards<\/span><\/p>\n

This principle reminds me of people who say \u201cwe always did things like that.\u201d Whenever something new comes, it is a fixed mindset, because a flexible mindset would always try new things and raise their life for good. If you don\u2019t raise your standards, you will be archived, at work or in personal life, and the world will keep moving with or without you. I used to question why I would learn Spanish, French, English, German, Chinese, and later Russian, instead of focusing on Arabic. One day, I realized I had a fixed mindset, pointing out others and forgetting the benefits of learning languages: opening to networking, learning cultures, and being able to read any book I wish. Now, before staying in my comfort zone, I ask what stops me, not what stops others.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. Beliefs shape destiny<\/span><\/p>\n

Our beliefs can be either the ladder to success or the swing to failure. We have to choose them and correct their paths to fit our plan. I noticed that whenever I adopt a positive belief, even without strategy or prior knowledge, and start taking small actions, I can achieve my objectives smoothly.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. Daily Actions<\/span><\/p>\n

I used to listen to Spanish telenovelas daily, and within a year, I could understand all dialects from Latin America, Spain, and Equatorial Guinea. I even expanded this skill to understand Portuguese and respond in Spanish, integrating it smoothly into my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Being in contact with hundreds of people from the UN, refugees, and asylum seekers every week due to my work is an opportunity not everyone has. Using these ideas to discuss, heal, and learn from others\u2019 experiences gives me the chance to spread this knowledge, encourage people to take action, not only blame their environment, and raise standards, as there is always room for improvement since we are still alive. Also being a mom of two kids, I will teach my children what is like raising their standards, the true happiness is within and that change begins from inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cIf you don\u2019t have a plan for your life, someone else does.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

It is true: either you raise your voice, or someone will use it to raise their own because you let them. In a positive or negative way, if you don\u2019t make that plan and take action, you will be part of someone else\u2019s plan.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Nothing. However, the writer reminded readers that we don\u2019t have to apply all exercises in the book; we can choose those that fit our plan. Later, reading the book again can help tailor exercises to the plan we\u2019re following at that moment.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

One exercise I applied involved writing down actions I kept postponing, linking them to emotional pain, potential relationship consequences, and the negative experiences that could result from inaction. Then I wrote what my future would look like if I took action. I have only worked on one action so far, but I truly enjoyed the process and will continue with the remaining actions.<\/span><\/p>\n

Raise Your Standards: I already do this exercise, but slightly differently. When working on limiting beliefs, I write the first one, then all related beliefs until they are clear. Then I write their empowering opposites, meditate on them, and repeat them so new ideas replace old negative patterns and help me adopt the habit I aim for.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tony Robbins is the kind of person who not only motivates and encourages you, but also pushes you to finally take action on something you\u2019ve been procrastinating on for a long time. After reading his work, I started thinking seriously about launching my own business, and I already have a clear idea of what it could be. Since I\u2019m already familiar with Tony Robbins\u2019 voice, I can almost hear him guiding me with wisdom, telling me that I can do it that the old pattern is fading away.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from one to ten. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nReally interesting. As mentioned, he kept his promise and acted like a coach to the reader. Every reader, even those who feel they have already achieved their dreams, will find something to work on after finishing it.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nThe content is not only helpful but very practical. You feel the urge to put the book down whenever Anthony asks you to apply an exercise so you can fully experience what he is talking about.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nCrystal clear.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nNot everyone can handle the intensity and many exercises he suggests. It requires time and multiple readings to fully benefit. It is truly a complete guide to huge changes if we are disciplined readers.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nIt is a must-read book. Following Anthony Robbins on LinkedIn also gives further clarity about his ideas and putting them into practice.<\/span><\/p>\n

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How to Win Friends and Influence People<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Dale Carnegie described 30 principles to win friends and influence people, every principle contains positive examples as well as negative ones that he mentioned just to show us the correct way to tackle them. The examples were taken from his own life, from famous people’s experiences such as Benjamin Franklin, Charles M. Schwab, and so on, and sometimes even from ordinary people. It is said: never judge a book by its cover; this book may seem at first like a professional guide. However, to me it\u2019s not only practical for professional life, but also for our private and personal lives, even parents can still benefit from this great and immortal book.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. The principle of saving face was really a good one and proved to me that whenever I\u2019m implementing it in my life I am not a hypocrite, but I am helping someone else to improve while preserving their ego.<\/span><\/p>\n

I am not saying that I always do it, at the end of the day I am a human being, and sometimes I lose control and still point out mistakes. However, with all the principles in the book connected there are many ways that can help one guide others without humiliating or embarrassing them. Actually, we have a saying in Arabic: \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0635\u064a\u062d\u0629 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0644\u0623 \u0641\u0636\u064a\u062d\u0629 \u201cAdvice in public is humiliation.\u201d That matches exactly Dale Carnegie\u2019s principle. An example from my life would be: whenever my son got a bad mark, he came to me really sad and said he was stupid. I thought, how could a little 5-year-old say this? It was hard to think how I could handle his feelings, and I was like, you know my son, mommy one day got a 0, yes a 0 in French. He said really? Yes, also mommy was one day a kid and she got 0. He was interested in the story and said and then? Then I tried to improve myself and now I speak French really well. \u201cDoes Mommy speak French very well?\u201d He said yes and then forgot his bad feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Remember that a person\u2019s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.<\/span><\/p>\n

It needs no explanation, just hear someone saying your name and you will know the power of telling someone by his name. I will give an example from my own life. I had someone in my life always telling me another name. It seems normal, but this person was someone I had known for several years, and you would never imagine how I feel whenever they change my name. I was always like, what happened? Is it that difficult? I kept repeating, \u201cNadia, Nadia is my name.\u201d So this is an art that everyone can try to learn, but not force it.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.<\/span><\/p>\n

Indeed, it makes sense whenever you admit your errors, because every one of us can make mistakes, but not acknowledging them makes things worse. Obviously, our ego sometimes makes us feel inferior if we say we were wrong, but let\u2019s be sincere if you don\u2019t admit your shortcomings, how would you fix them or how would you advance in life? I remember whenever I talked to someone in a bad manner or said wrong information, I would keep telling myself in my mind: let\u2019s talk to the person, let\u2019s say sorry. It feels hard, but guess what? You are more respected and loved when you are honest with yourself and others.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely.<\/span><\/p>\n

I guess that everybody on this earth has positive traits, so that\u2019s the point: we are not required to say something that isn\u2019t true about the person, but we may do a little effort to praise a good thing they do at least 1% better, so they can have a small hope and improve it. Let me share with you that in the beginning of learning Spanish I was trying hard to engage myself in conversations and also go to events with Spanish-speaking advanced people, and also native people. There are people that can neglect you because you\u2019re not fluent as well as they are, and others avoid conversing with you, but I still had hope to become fluent in it. One day I crossed paths with a native speaker from America Latina, she was a colleague of mine, and one day she told me how surprised she was that I could speak all the languages I do speak, and that I am really fluent in Spanish. You know, she\u2019s the expert in the language and she was still praising me. After all, I still haven\u2019t discovered until now whether she was just saying it to encourage me, or for her as a non-Spanish speaker I was making a lot of effort to really communicate in the language. Whatever the reason, from that day on I believed that I am fluent in Spanish and never missed any conversation to show myself that I can do it. It never ended in conversations, I decided to have my master\u2019s degree in migration and refugee care in that language, and also do all the exercises, the interventions in classes with well-known people in the field, and also give my graduation speech in that same language. Takeaways: please give people hopes, you would never know how your kind words would end with the person who receives them.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. Dramatize your ideas.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s about making your story or anything you say compelling. I would say that this principle can be a good one for public speaking and attracting others\u2019 attention for networking. Actually, I can\u2019t remember examples from my life, but I definitely want to use it and share it with others.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. Don\u2019t criticize.<\/span><\/p>\n

I would say that this is the worst thing one can do, because destructive criticism, the kind that tears down instead of builds up, has to be eliminated from our speech. However, one should immunize himself against such behavior, because after all, not everyone on earth has read Dale Carnegie\u2019s book to steer clear of such bad habits.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. Don\u2019t complain.<\/span><\/p>\n

To be honest we all complain. I complain, let me start with myself. But I think that the author means those people who live their life complaining, and for not being thankful for what they already have. They see those better than them and are never aware that there are people really poorer, sicker\u2026 than they are. Also, don\u2019t condemn people. We can never be completely sure\u2014sometimes we think we\u2019re 100% right, but it turns out the other person is correct. That\u2019s why we should avoid condemning without strong proof and always give the benefit of the doubt. For example, people once believed the Earth was flat.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I would say that combining all these ideas and putting them into practice would help not only me, but also my own mission, which is helping others to grow, discovering their beautiful sides, and, while improving myself, trying to see the beauty in people would be steps toward a more beautiful environment that surrounds me and beyond.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I loved his story with his cousin Josephine and how he talked to himself before pointing out her mistakes; it really helped emphasize the Saving Face principle very well.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I\u2019d say that this principle, \u201cThe only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it,\u201d is not entirely clear, because it really depends on the person you are dealing with, the circumstances, the culture, and also your own principles.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I would say that there are no exercises, but principles that can be implemented in our everyday life while interacting with friends, colleagues, family, and even strangers:<\/span><\/p>\n

Smile at people, even during phone calls.<\/span>
\nPraise people before giving them criticism or bad news (Sandwich method).<\/span>
\nSpeak about people in your conversation their hobbies, what they like, and show interest in what they say.<\/span>
\nAs I read it in the past, I found myself already applying some of the advice he gave. I loved the Save Face method, and I\u2019m implementing it more and more in my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

In my point of view, the principles in the book are directed from some kinds of people toward other kinds of people. However, in this life, we can sometimes cross paths with individuals who feel challenged, or the reader himself may be one. I\u2019d rather complement it with another book to be fair to every reader. For instance, an annex to it or coaching sessions can help clarify some other aspects that are not covered by this book.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from one to ten. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nYou can\u2019t put it down without finishing at least the principle you are reading; it\u2019s a compelling book.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 9<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 9<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nDefinitely. It\u2019s a key book, realistic, and has stood the test of time.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nI would repeat the same answer as for question 7: I would say that the principles in the book are directed from some kinds of people toward other kinds of people. However, in this life, we can sometimes cross paths with people who feel challenged, or the reader himself may be one. I\u2019d rather complement it with another book to be fair to every reader. Maybe an annex to it or coaching sessions can help clarify some other aspects that are not covered by this book. I would add that it cannot be a kind of bible in our lives, as we need to be careful while using its principles.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]<\/p>\n

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[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Creating your Path through Leadership<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I feel compelled to stand up and applaud everyone who contributed to Creating your Path through Leadership is full of positive energy from the exceptional contributors of IIGL. It offers a clear summary of the ideas that IIGL aims to share. It is truly a mission-driven book. It begins with the story of the founder of this amazing program, who chose to be a hero rather than a victim. He used the challenges he faced especially being fired from his company as a stepping stone to build his own life. Today, he continues to positively impact the lives of many others.<\/span><\/p>\n

What is brilliant about this book is that everyone who contributed to it is a leader, yet none of them is the same. Each one has their own personal leadership style. For me, the main message is that leadership is not something we are born with; it is something we develop, improve, and grow into and then pass on to others.<\/span>
\nThese individuals turned low-priority problems into high-quality challenges, which led them to achieve extraordinary goals. Each of them also helped others reach their goals, a quality that is essential for thriving in our own journey.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. Turning problems into Solutions<\/span><\/p>\n

This something amazing I learned through all the books I have read so far, yes turning problems into solutions is a gift in itself and sometimes it goes beyond you and helps others solve their own problems. I think about Oprah Winfrey who turned all her suffering into a power that helped millions of people throughout her life. She inspires many people through her powerful transformation of her hard problem especially the rape she underwent in her childhood into a strength. IIGL indeed helps you to understand yourself first and then shine without limits such as all the contributors to this book.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Our Dreams and Goals are within us<\/span><\/p>\n

I came to realize that I had incredible creative powers to determine my future within the framework of the collective belief system and sometimes outside it. This reminds me that all our solutions, keys to our dreams and goals are within us ; we just need guidance to strive.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. Mentors<\/span>
\nA mentor can teach you in a single moment what could have taken a lifetime to learn. This idea builds on the previous one: the mentor guides us and gives us shortcuts to fulfill whatever we dream, and sometimes even if we don\u2019t achieve the goal we aim for, we still flourish during the process and shift our mindset. I remember when I was looking for a remote job to switch my current role I was not sure which path I had to take, and I looked for many programs to help me stand out and achieve that goal.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Guidance<\/span>
\nOne day I asked chatGpt this question and he recommended the IIGL program to me and I couldn\u2019t believe my eyes when I read the curriculum; it was exactly the kind of guidance I was looking for so long. It\u2019s that I haven\u2019t continued looking for a remote job because I found my real burning desire while having this nice journey with IIGL.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. IIGL is a Mastermind Group<\/span><\/p>\n

We (IIGL) have the same vision for the world and many of the same values related to peace-building and leadership. This is indeed a pure mastermind leadership group that anyone can dream about. I\u2019m really proud of myself that I belong to it.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. Changing Myself First<\/span><\/p>\n

I then realized that I needed to change myself before I could change the world. I will confirm this through a verse of the Qur\u2019an we have in Islam that says the same thing: \u201cIndeed, Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.\u201d This is a realization I had too, but it really needs a lot of continuous work, watching your ideas, your emotions, and then changing your perception and you will see the big change in your life, not people changing or circumstances changing, but your mindset shifting.<\/span>
\nThe IIGL assessment of 1500 words made me believe that I could even become an author. I am really inspired by this, as one of my goals is to write a book ; this is a sign and I found later another contributor saying almost the same thing, so this is for me the beginning of my author journey. An example from my life that helped me learn a habit and fix it is when I decided to read 200 books in one year, because I refused that people tell me that whenever you will be married and have kids, you will never read or travel or enjoy life. I wanted to prove to myself and push myself to quit the comfort zone for this noble skill or hobby. Since then I\u2019ve become addicted to reading which really made my IIGL journey easier.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. SWOT Analysis<\/span><\/p>\n

I had read about the SWOT analysis but never understood it until I joined IIGL. The same thing for me : IIGL made a lot of things in my life easier through all the books I\u2019ve read so far and the best is yet to come.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world? If so, how?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

These lessons will help me practically in my daily personal life because they taught me that all the solutions and keys to my dreams and goals are already within me; I just need guidance to strive. They also remind me that I need to watch my thoughts, emotions, and perceptions because when my mindset shifts, my entire life changes. I learned the importance of turning problems into solutions, which is a gift that allows me to grow stronger every day. The habit I developed of reading 200 books showed me that when I step out of my comfort zone, I can build powerful habits that make my journey easier and more fulfilling.<\/span>
\nThese lessons also guide me in creating a better world, because I realized I need to change myself before trying to change anything around me, just as the Qur\u2019anic verse says. Understanding myself first allows me to shine without limits and help others more effectively, just like the mentors and contributors in IIGL who turn challenges into opportunities for themselves and for others. The IIGL program taught me that mentors can give us shortcuts to growth, and through the journey I found my real burning desire, which is the first step toward contributing meaningfully. Being part of a mastermind leadership group that shares values about peace-building and leadership strengthens my belief that I can positively impact the world by growing, inspiring, and guiding others, just as others did for me.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cLeaders are lifelong learners; there is no two ways about it. This is a nice reminder to people who seek perfection to stop learning. Now imagine you reached the top of the tallest mountain in the world and you have no other skill to develop or learn what would you do? Either you will look for a new skill or search for a similar one to improve and thrive in. But if you tell yourself, \u201cI\u2019ve arrived this far, so I should stop and rest,\u201d the burning desire will no longer be a burning desire, and you will go back to your comfort zone.<\/span>
\nLeaders are readers and influence others only to the level of their own competence. This is a great idea, as books, but not just any books, can serve as tools to teach you whatever you want. Furthermore, with the guidance of IIGL, you will not only read a book once; you will read it many times and never tire of the knowledge it shares.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cI was created to be an original, not a photocopy.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Such a strong idea; yet not everyone can reach this level of knowledge; only someone who works on their ideas and emotions can. From this point, they become an inspiration to anyone they meet, showing the secret behind their self-confidence, which never turns into arrogance<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Everything was crystal clear and felt close to my heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t exposed to explicit exercises. However, throughout the book, you find plenty of food for thought. It encourages reflection, imagination, reading, and goal-setting, making it a practical guide for developing leadership in your own way.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I loved the two experiences that clearly mentioned how IIGL became their driving force to start writing books. By being exposed to assignments that required reading powerful, life-changing books, they subtly developed the skill of writing. This eventually helped them achieve extraordinary goals, such as publishing and selling their own books on Amazon.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from one to ten. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nIt was really helpful, especially since I am invited to open a new website in Morocco to promote the IIGL mission. I found Felix Iziomoh\u2019s idea of opening an International Center for Leadership Development in Nigeria, being affiliated with IIGL and recognized by ECOSOC, a brilliant concept that could be replicated here in Morocco. Sometimes we don\u2019t need to reinvent the wheel; it is enough to repeat a successful story. I would be really happy to contact Felix once we launch the Moroccan website.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nDefinitely, it\u2019s easy to read but at the same time informative, containing rich ideas about leadership. It can serve as a shortcut for much of the learning any other leader would seek. It\u2019s a full guide of inspiration and real success stories, from the introduction all the way to the end.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nYes, and hopefully we will have it soon in Moroccan libraries, because Amazon ships it at a high cost.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This is a great book that truly covers every aspect of our lives. Stephen Covey said that he had read many books before sharing all the valuable advice he offers. Furthermore, he did not only share theories, but also provided detailed explanations and examples, as well as real-life stories about himself and his clients. This is not an author who simply shares written advice; he clearly proves that it works. The Seven Habits is truly effective for everyone in this world, from young children to adults. At the end of each chapter, he gives three or four actions to take in order to apply the knowledge he shares. Without applying it, the reader will not experience any real impact, because practice is at the core of everything he teaches.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. Begin at the end in mind<\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever you have an issue to achieve something, do not see the problem itself, but look for the final result and then start searching what is real in your situation. This is a great explanation of the model used in coaching GROW, the G is the goal which definitely begins with the end in mind. In my actual journey to be an international coach, I started first to visualize myself in 5 years; this is the first thing I did.<\/span>
\nSeek first to understand, then to be understood. This is 100% the equivalent of understanding the perception of the other, and by the other we mean every single person outside the circle of your control; the latter is only you. When I started using this concept, I witnessed a shift in others\u2019 behaviour toward me, especially when I reflect first and do not react instantly. While I thought they changed and became nicer, they indeed haven\u2019t done so; I tried to understand their maps.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Win-Win principle<\/span><\/p>\n

I love the story of the man who, to make his wife lose, forgot that he would lose too, when he decided to sell every single property at a cheap price, forgetting that he would drink from the same glass. It made me think that everyone can win, and there is always a third alternative and a synergistic way to see conflicts or any other challenging situation.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. We began to realize that if we wanted to change the situation, we first had to change ourselves. And to change ourselves effectively, we first had to change our perceptions.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is something really easy to understand, but it took me a long time to implement it in my life, as we always have to sharpen it through reading and learning; if we stop, we will go back to the old pattern, which is a human character.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Re-Scripting<\/span><\/p>\n

Because we already live with many scripts that have been handed to us, the process of writing our own script is actually more a process of re-scripting or paradigm shifting of changing some of the basic paradigms that we already have. This can be practical if you define your roles, goals, mission, and values, review them every now and then, and focus on the internal change.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. Avoid Blame!<\/span><\/p>\n

Do not blame others because everyone is doing things, even the worst things, from their perception and map, thinking that they are doing good; the same context applies to us. The more we can see people in terms of their unseen potential, the more we can use our imagination rather than our memory, with our spouse, our children, our coworkers, or employees. good example of this is that someone can describe another person as an angel, the best person in this world, while another describes them as a challenging person. Sometimes this is not because of hypocrisy; in fact, the first one sees them this way and this is what they get, while the second sees them that way and that is what they get.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. Look at the half-full cup<\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone has beautiful things within, while others focus on the bad sides.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. Diagnose before you prescribe<\/span>
\nI appreciated the example of the doctor who gave the patient a pair of glasses and started praising them. When the patient said that they could only see blurrily and that the glasses didn\u2019t fit, the doctor refused to understand and kept showing off his glasses. This is definitely what happens when we refuse to see others\u2019 perceptions and how they see the world. So let\u2019s start diagnosing before any further steps.
\n<\/span>
\n3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you to create a better world?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

As I gained clarity about my burning desire through reading the first-level books, I realized that these ideas would be the best possible beginning for coaching myself. Applying them in my own life, without trying to give advice that no one has asked for, would be a powerful strategy. Instead, the change will be reflected in my behavior and attitude. Then, people will naturally ask about the source of this shift. This will be influence rather than forced advice or an attempt to change others, beginning with my close family.<\/span><\/p>\n

Later on, I will apply this as a coach. Yes, this is the burning desire I have been searching for a long time. In fact, the IIGL program helped me discover it through deep reading and reflection. Hence, this book will be my best companion throughout my long and meaningful coaching journey.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cFor our purposes, a simple way to understand paradigms is to see them as maps. We all know that \u2018the map is not the territory.\u2019 A map is simply an explanation of certain aspects of the territory. That\u2019s exactly what a paradigm is:<\/span>
\nThis is all about our perception and interpretation of others\u2019 styles: from our perspective, we are right; from theirs, they are right. Sometimes it isn\u2019t about being right or wrong. It\u2019s about whether we can find synergy in a win-win situation. That is what this book is all about.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Everything was crystal clear and related to me.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

At the end of every chapter, you will find a very structured set of exercises.<\/span>
\nThe mission statement example and the advice Stephen gave helped me refine my own mission. I also decided to hang it on the wall and read it on a daily basis.<\/span>
\nI try to identify the words used when someone speaks, and also when I speak. You would be shocked by the number of them, and by how much pressure we sometimes put on ourselves, even in things we love.<\/span><\/p>\n

I realized that I had already done the exercise on roles. However, I needed to update it, as it dated back one or two years, and since then I have added new and impressive roles to my life. I also worked on the exercise about seeing things from the perspectives of others and their maps, and tried to apply the \u201cthird alternative\u201d principle. As I had only one month to read the book, it was not possible for me to complete every exercise. However, I plan to read it again and enjoy doing all the exercises, as some of them need to be fully understood before being put into practice.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

This is a book that should be taught to every human being. It could be adapted to make it easy and fun for children, turned into training on platforms such as Udemy or Coursera, and included as a must-read for any coach, mentor, or therapist.<\/span>
\nEmployees should also read it before integrating into their jobs. I know that it has been translated into many languages, and within my circle, it is well known among people who read books.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nThis is a great book that truly covers every aspect of our lives. Stephen Covey mentioned that he had read many books before sharing all the valuable advice he offers. At IIGL, we share a core value with Stephen: readers are leaders.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nDefinitely. It\u2019s easy to read, yet informative, containing rich ideas about understanding both people and ourselves.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nYes, especially since it is available in many languages.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Goal Mapping: 7 Simple Steps to Fulfilling Your Dreams<\/span><\/strong>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This is a very practical and amazing book and a must-read every time you decide to set or update your goals. Felix Iziomoh, who wrote this book, writes from pure knowledge. First of all, he is a coach, and goal setting and exploration are purely coaching processes. Second, he is an IIGL graduate, which makes him someone who has truly grasped goal mapping and mastered many techniques. Therefore, he chose the seven most practical steps to help readers fulfill their dreams. Last but not least, he is a certified goal mapper from the Brian Mayne Foundation, and he forwarded this great guide, which further proves that Felix\u2019s book is a must-read.<\/span><\/p>\n

What makes the book particularly practical is the fact that it walks you step by step through the goal-mapping process, encouraging you to take a pen and start tracing your goals alongside Felix\u2019s explanations. In addition, the book is supported by goal-mapping templates. I thought that there was only one way to set goals: write goals, cut images, and then take action. But this book stressed the point that goals are flexible. You can always update and follow them, and there is no specific time to set them or make a new resolution. You can set new objectives whenever you wish.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one, using personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. My philosophy of life has always been: the more you put into what you do, the more you get out of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Indeed, if you focus on something and immerse yourself in it, you will definitely achieve your goal. I always give this example because it truly relates to this idea: I moved from a B2 level of English to C1 in less than one year, passed the IELTS, and achieved the results I wanted. Not only did I reach the level I aimed for, but English also helped me open new doors that would not have been possible otherwise. Thanks be to God.<\/span>
\nI recently started an exercise called the dump mind, where I sit before going to bed and analyze one thought in a 15-minute process. This helps me change my idea or feeling and not blame others for my bad feelings. Within less than one month, even when I\u2019m not consciously doing the exercise, I can go through the same process automatically without effort.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Empowering people increases knowledge and confidence, which in turn increases curiosity and leads to further development.<\/span><\/p>\n

Helping others is one of the most empowering tools one can use to move forward. A simple yet powerful example is that whenever I share knowledge with someone, I tend to remember that information forever. Yes, the idea of starting to coach people helped me a lot in understanding myself. Also, their experiences made me try my best to not be judgmental, even toward myself, which is a strong mind shift.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. If you have a dream that you let grow cold, re-ignite it. Fan the flames.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cSharpen the saw,\u201d in Stephen Covey\u2019s words. I call it preparing for the next goal before achieving the one you are currently working on. This way, you stay motivated and keep moving forward.<\/span>
\nYes, back in 2013 I had the idea to start my own business. Then in 2021 I started a business, but it was challenging, and I reignited it. This year, I\u2019m focused on starting it by the end of the year, and it will be a full success by the help of God. I acknowledge that the two previous attempts were never failures or procrastination, but key learnings that will lead to a great result by the end of the year.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. When you reach your goal and start living your dream, make sure to enjoy it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Live in the present moment. The best approach is to learn from the past, live in the present, and plan for the future. Honestly, I sometimes struggle with this. Whenever I achieve a dream, I immediately start planning and living in the future. Therefore, my focus is to work on this and make a conscious effort to enjoy the present moment.<\/span><\/p>\n

I must acknowledge that it is still challenging for me to focus on the present moment because I am always planning for the future while living the present. It\u2019s something I\u2019m still working on by focusing on my prayer, seeking to be grounded, avoiding multitasking, and being present. I also purchased two nice books by Eckhart Tolle to develop this core value.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. Use your dream to better the lives of others.<\/span><\/p>\n

This can be part of your mission. At the moment, I have started coaching some clients for free, and I am already feeling that while helping them, I gain a lot of knowledge. They benefit, of course, but the benefits I receive are immense.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. Mental preparation is essential: read and study in areas of your greatest interest.<\/span><\/p>\n

Reading, studying, and practicing together form a homogeneous combination that brings great results. Reading and studying topics you are passionate about can significantly enhance your skills and move you closer to your goals. My best example is my involvement with IIGL; reading self-help books I love and completing the assessments has made a great difference in achieving the goals I aim to fulfill.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. The first step in setting any intention is to dream.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBegin with the end in mind,\u201d in Stephen Covey\u2019s words. I can also relate this to the GROW coaching model. The \u201cG\u201d stands for Goal, and when you can already see yourself having achieved your goal, it gives you all the elements you need to return to the \u201cR\u201d (Reality) and start the journey toward your big dream. Before starting anything related to coaching, I closed my eyes and visualized myself coaching people online. Then I went back to 2025 and started evaluating my reality.<\/span><\/p>\n

It was a little bit against my values, as I believe that telling others, even through your loved ones, about a brand-new goal may take away your sense of accountability. But I told myself maybe it makes sense in terms of making it real, and I always think, \u201cI said it as a vow, and I will do it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

I loved the new idea of drawing your goals instead of cutting photos or images from magazines. It relates to me very much. In fact, I was always wondering why I would cut a photo of someone else and link it to my own dreams, then look at it every day while knowing it was not really mine. I kept asking myself what I could do instead. Drawing your own goals truly resonated with me and answered those old questions. Even though I am not a great artist, I can relate to my own drawings and say, \u201cYes, this is me.\u201d Whenever I look at my goal mapping with my own drawings and labels, I feel that it fits me completely. Yes, because it’s an original and unique way. No one can draw the same thing you do. It comes from within and is an artistic way that stimulates the creative part of us.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you create a better world? If so, how?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

These ideas will help me clearly define my goals and apply structured steps to achieve them. I have already started using them while coaching my clients, as they offer very practical steps for mapping a goal. Felix\u2019s journey also inspired me and clearly reflects what I am planning to do. If I were asked which author, among the nine authors I read during IIGL Levels One and Two, inspires me the most, my answer would definitely be Mr. Felix Iziomoh. His path makes me say, \u201cYes, this is the path I want to follow.\u201d<\/span>
\nBy the end of the book, I also made a brand-new decision: to subscribe to the Goal Mapping certification facilitated by Brian Mayne. This action is planned for December 2026. Drawing my coaching goals and following all the steps Felix suggested brought this sub-goal to life and will strongly support my mission as a coach.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I loved the new idea of \u201cdrawing your goals instead of cutting photos or images from magazines. It relates to me very much. In fact, I was always wondering why I would cut a photo of someone else and link it to my own dreams, then look at it every day while knowing it was not really mine. I kept asking myself what I could do instead. Drawing your own goals truly resonated with me and answered those old questions.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Even though I am not a great artist, I can relate to my own drawings and say, \u201cYes, this is me.\u201d Whenever I look at my goal mapping with my own drawings and labels, I feel that it fits me completely.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, because it’s an original and unique way. No one can draw the same thing you do. It comes from within and is an artistic way that stimulates the creative part of us.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Everything was crystal clear and deeply relatable to me.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

The book contains several exercises. I especially enjoyed drawing the diagram to define my three priority goals: Family\/Self-Care, Coaching, and Spirituality\/Connection with God.<\/span>
\nI also enjoyed using the templates to write my main goal, define all its components, and then draw it along with its related elements. I truly enjoyed this exercise, even though I am not usually a fan of drawing. This activity put me in a state where my inner child felt great joy. I also tried to imagine how my goal would look visually, and the results were really amazing.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Thanks to this book, I was able to join Brian Mayne\u2019s annual Goal Mapping workshop, which was a great complement to the book.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nA complete goal-mapping guide that walks you step by step until you create your final version of goal mapping.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nVery Straight forward.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nDefinitely; Simple yet rich language that anyone can understand.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nYes, I talk about it with all my friends and family. Also I will recommend the steps to my clients, as they are easy and practical.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Goals<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This book feels like a continuation of ideas from Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz, and Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins. It connects the importance of mindset, facing fears, and taking immediate action. However, it is not a repetition of these books, but rather a practical continuation with a clear step-by-step structure.<\/span><\/p>\n

The writer insists that writing goals is the first and most important step to achieve them. He refers to studies from universities such as Harvard University and Yale University to show that written goals increase the chances of success. But writing goals is not enough. The difference between successful and unsuccessful people is that successful people act immediately, even if it is only one small step that brings them closer to their goal.<\/span><\/p>\n

He also explains that one main goal can become the core of our life, especially if it is something we truly love and are not forced to do. Visualization is presented as a powerful tool to activate the subconscious mind and move us toward achievement. At the same time, he repeats that effort is the only thing we truly control, so we must work hard, learn continuously, develop new skills, and review our goals daily by rewriting them to make sure they still align with what we truly want. Therefore, the main idea of the book is that by clearly defining and writing our goals, taking full responsibility for our lives, and acting consistently with discipline and effort, we can intentionally create our own success.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one, using personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. The starting point of all goal attainment is desire.<\/span><\/p>\n

I personally find it very difficult to continue doing something I do not truly love, even if everyone around me is doing it. Last year, I decided to learn something new to completely change my career. After a lot of research, I thought Project Management could be the right path for me, especially since it is a trending and well-paid field. I invested significant time and money: I interviewed experts on LinkedIn, spoke with colleagues, watched many YouTube channels, enrolled in a Coursera course, and even planned to take a well-known certification exam.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, deep inside, I kept feeling that this was not something I wanted to do for the rest of my life. I was pushing myself because it seemed like the \u201csmart\u201d choice, not because it was my true desire. Eventually, I decided to continue learning it as a skill, but I accepted that it was not my burning desire. When I later identified what I truly wanted, I felt relief and clarity. This experience taught me that without a real burning desire, it is almost impossible to stay committed long-term. Desire gives energy, direction, and meaning to effort.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. You must determine the price that you will have to pay to achieve it, and then get<\/span>
\nbusy paying that price.<\/span><\/p>\n

In 2018, I decided to read a great number of books (200) not novels or short books, but real, deep books that challenge the mind. I took this decision because I wanted to make reading a lifelong habit and never finish a year without learning something new. I knew clearly what I wanted: growth, knowledge, and self-development. To be honest, it was not easy at all. The real price I had to pay was discipline. I had to reduce social media, stop binge-watching YouTube videos, and avoid scrolling through Shein and other distractions. It was tempting to choose comfort and entertainment, but I understood that growth requires sacrifice. Committing to reading opened opportunities for me and expanded my thinking in ways that wasting time online never could. This experience taught me that once you know what you want, you must be willing to pay the price for it.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. I later learned that when you accept complete responsibility for your life, you take the giant step from childhood to adulthood.<\/span><\/p>\n

This year, I completely shifted from blaming circumstances to reflecting on my own reactions. I started journaling daily to analyze my thoughts and feelings, and to consciously transform them into thoughts focused on what I can achieve with the help of God. Instead of asking, \u201cWhy is this happening to me?\u201d I began asking, \u201cWhat can I do about it?\u201d I moved from surviving, blaming, and feeling like a victim to thriving and looking for solutions. This shift changed my perspective in my job and in my personal life. As a mother, daughter, wife, sister, and friend, I became more aware of my responses rather than reacting emotionally<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. You must be brutally honest with yourself and your point of departure.<\/span><\/p>\n

This idea is one of the most important principles in coaching. It represents the \u201cR\u201d in the GROW model, which stands for Reality. After defining the \u201cG\u201d (Goal), you must honestly assess where you currently stand in order to identify the gap between your goal and your reality.<\/span><\/p>\n

I once tried to build a project without doing a proper diagnosis of my starting point. I believed that having the money and giving it to experts would be enough, and that I would simply receive returns without much effort. I was wrong. I gained nothing and eventually had to put the project aside. Everything seemed to be available, but I had not clearly defined where I truly was, nor was I clear about where I wanted to go. Looking back, I understand that I did not measure the gap between my current situation and my desired outcome. This experience taught me that honesty about reality is not optional. It is the foundation of any sustainable success.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. When you made the decision or commitment, it was probably a good idea, based on the circumstances of the moment.<\/span><\/p>\n

I definitely refuse to continue something just because I invested money, time, or both in it. I have a principle in life: we work hard to earn money, so we deserve to invest it in things that are truly worth it. If I discover later that something is not worth continuing, I believe we must be brave enough to question that decision.<\/span>
\nFor example, with Project Management, I realized it was not the career I wanted to pursue. However, instead of abandoning it completely, I chose to benefit from it differently. I decided to continue learning it as a skill that can support my coaching business. In fact, I am currently in the last course. This way, I transformed what could have been a \u201cwrong\u201d decision into something useful.<\/span>
\nThere are situations where stopping completely is the right choice, even if money was invested. What matters is learning from the experience. Whether we continue or stop, the decision must come from clarity and intention, not from fear of losing what we already invested. Personally, I prefer to continue only when there is love and a burning desire behind the effort<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. Look around you and identify people who are earning the kind of money that you want to earn.<\/span><\/p>\n

Recently I decided to follow and study my coach, who was a lawyer herself and quit her field to become a coach. Since I am planning to quit my career as well, I decided to follow her pattern. The nice thing is that she will help me with that. Even though she is in England, which is very different from Morocco, I decided to look for the common ground between us. The first thing I am doing is shifting my mindset, which was also the first thing she did. Then I am training as a coach, and finally I plan to build a prosperous online business. This kind of pattern works very well because you are already seeing the results. You only need to take action and adapt it to your own context<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. If you can see it in your mind, you can hold it in your hand.<\/span><\/p>\n

I totally believe that visualization is one of the strongest tools to get what you want and also to clarify ambiguous choices and decisions. However, I struggle while doing it. I sometimes see blurred images, and other times I even fall asleep while practicing. It actually works, but it requires a huge effort. I am planning to practice it more regularly so I can develop it as a skill and tool, and also master it before suggesting it to my clients.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you create a better world? If so, how?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I think I can summarize that all these ideas are core to every aspect of my life. They help me balance my personal, family, and professional life, and they serve as principles guiding me toward my ultimate goal. This way I can contribute to a better world. I realized that I need moments of silence and calm to review my ideas and thoughts without judging or criticizing myself. I am learning in the process, and I feel that I am gaining the confidence I have always dreamed about. I also discovered that God must be the only one in my heart, and that everything I do has to be linked to His power. This awareness helps me stay focused, grounded, and aligned with my values. By reflecting in this way, I feel more clarity about the steps I take, and I am proud of the growth I am experiencing. These moments of self-reflection strengthen my ability to make conscious choices, remain responsible for my actions, and positively influence those around me.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

One quote that deeply resonated with me was: \u201cYou are completely responsible for everything you are, everything you have, and everything you become.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

This quote felt very aligned with my personal journey this year. Recently, I was sick, but the experience felt completely different from before. Instead of complaining or resisting it, I accepted it, took the day off, and allowed myself to rest without guilt. That simple reaction showed me how much I am shifting internally. In fact, while writing this assessment, I realized that I truly moved from surviving to thriving. I no longer see circumstances as something happening to me, but as situations I can respond to consciously. During a coaching learning session, I heard that coaches must constantly work on themselves beyond formal training. I felt proud and happy because I am already doing that work through journaling, reflection, and self-development. For me, taking responsibility does not mean controlling everything. It means choosing my attitude, my reactions, and my growth. This quote reinforces my belief that personal development is not optional, it is a continuous commitment to becoming better in every area of life.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

From now on, resolve to get up one hour earlier and get going immediately. Work through lunchtime and coffee breaks. Stay an hour later to get caught up and ready for the next day. These additions will double your productivity and put you onto the fast track in your career. I believe that this advice could affect the \u201cwheel of life\u201d for anyone who has responsibilities outside of work. For example, if I applied it to my life, I would no longer cook for my kids, help them with their homework, or pursue other personal goals. Moreover, working long hours can lead to burnout and make people more introverted. In fact, research shows that working long hours especially beyond a standard 40-hour week is linked to increased stress and higher risk of burnout, as well as negative effects on sleep and overall health (Cambridge University Study). Additionally, contexts differ from place to place, and there are people who can achieve success without pushing themselves to extreme hours or going beyond their limits.<\/span><\/p>\n

As Emmet Fox once said, \u201cIf you must be rude, be rude to strangers, but save your company manners for your family I fully disagree with this idea. Actually, I don\u2019t know how the author could have borrowed it from that person, especially since it doesn\u2019t fit the context of the book, which is all about being honest and improving ourselves. In my opinion, the saying \u201ctreat people as you wish people to treat you\u201d is a better guiding principle than this quote. However, I\u2019m not sure what the author\u2019s real intention was. Maybe he was trying to defend one side and missed the other; as we always tend to be more direct with those who are closer to us than with strangers, he might have been attempting to balance things\/<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yes, the book contains many exercises. However, I only chose the exercise about writing ten different goals every night without looking back to the previous goals. Hence, you can be sure what are your real goals.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

No.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nFull guidance on how to write and discover goals, and also how to achieve and track them.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 8<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt was like a full review of all the previous books.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nVery practical, especially for someone who doesn\u2019t know about goal setting.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nFull guidance on how to write, discover, achieve, and track goals<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 9<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\nPractical, motivating, and actionable advice.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Nonviolent Communication<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

The author believes that most conflicts happen between people because of the way we learned to communicate. In fact, people hurt each other mainly because they try to solve problems for others instead of only listening or empathizing with them. Violence, in Rosenberg\u2019s view, is not only physical but also emotional. Moreover, even when we try to be nice, our thoughts can be the opposite, and as a result, the other person often reacts to what is inside us rather than only to our words. For this reason, Rosenberg\u2019s teachings propose that instead of blaming, judging, or criticizing, we need to empathize and listen. Indeed, judging is harmful because it can trigger intense emotions depending on the person\u2019s emotional state, and furthermore, it can stop them from doing many things in their lives; in some cases, repeated judgment can even lead to trauma. Therefore, feelings and needs are the compass of effective communication, not to persuade the other person to do what we want, but to live in harmony and reduce conflicts. In this sense, the book suggests that by focusing on understanding others instead of projecting what we think about them, communication can change. Ultimately, the main purpose of Nonviolent Communication is to help people live in harmony and be understood instead of judged. Finally, Rosenberg invites the reader to take responsibility for their thoughts and feelings rather than blaming others.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why? List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each as to why it was important to you. Use personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. When we are entangled in critical, blaming or angry thoughts it is difficult to establish a healthy internal environment for ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

Criticism, blame, and anger are unhealthy feelings; they destroy our inner self and can spread to other people. A healthy internal environment is something that brings all the good in my life. I was first introduced to this concept when a mentor told me this ayya: \u0648 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0646\u0641\u0633\u0643\u0645 \u0627\u0641\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u0628\u0635\u0631\u0648\u0646 (\u201cAnd in yourselves do you not see?\u201d). This simple ayya has a deep meaning, directly related to Marshall Rosenberg\u2019s teachings: the only thing we can control is our inner self; we influence the outside, but we never control it. Definitely, blame and anger always affected my mood and my decisions because they always led me down the worst path. Moreover, lack of patience is the worst enemy of good relationships because it always points a finger at the other person rather than at ourselves. Since I started controlling my reactions and doing exercises to improve my inner dialogue, many things have changed in my life, especially my relationships. The first time I learned about NVC, especially the Giraffe effect, was through Marshall\u2019s book on raising children. I tried to apply it with my son: I first explained the Giraffe Effect to him and told him that whenever he sees someone nervous, he should try to think about the reason behind their anger instead of assuming it is about him. Then, whenever the person is calm, we can explain our feelings and how we felt when they were shouting, without judging or blaming. I was surprised that he not only applied it, but also came to me whispering whenever someone hurt me and I started nagging, saying, \u201cMum, apply the Giraffe Effect.\u201d This completely shifted my thinking and made my day 100% better.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. Empathy<\/span><\/p>\n

I was pleased that my attempt at empathy had kept me from honking the horn or engaging in my customary tactics of displaying displeasure toward people whose driving bothered me. Empathy, or let\u2019s call it the Giraffe Effect, is the best solution to anger and negative feelings toward another person\u2019s behavior before judging or blaming. I can relate to this idea because I would always honk at the first mistake of another driver, or if they did not move fast enough. However, the other day I thought that maybe the driver was slow because he was feeling some pain, or perhaps he feared going fast due to a previous accident, and this literally kept me from touching the horn as a reaction to his actions. I simply told myself, \u201cHe\u2019s slow, that\u2019s all,\u201d without judging or blaming, and it worked. I realized that if I can do this in such a small situation, then I can try to apply it in even bigger problems.<\/span><\/p>\n

iii. Ask for Information<\/span><\/p>\n

If we do decide to ask for information in this way, however, I\u2019ve found that people feel safer if we first reveal the feelings and needs within ourselves that are generating the question. Thus, instead of asking someone, \u201cWhat did I do?\u201d We might say, \u201cI\u2019m frustrated because I\u2019d like to be clearer about what you are referring to. Would you be willing to tell me what I\u2019ve done that leads you to see me in this way?\u201d NVC allows us to ask difficult questions safely and even to handle challenging situations without anyone being hurt, just like the example of a lady who was about to be attacked and, by staying in empathy with the person, was able to save herself. It is important because we first express our real needs and our own feelings to show the other person something within our control, what we feel, rather than suggesting that they made us feel that way. Then, we try to understand the other person\u2019s feelings; we may guess them correctly or not, but at least we keep exploring. When we do not blame the other person, we influence them to adopt the same calm, empathetic state. I always thought that guiding a person through a hard situation, and also praising them with kind words or gifts, was the best thing I could do. However, recently, in a harsh situation, I tried something different: I focused only on feeling empathy toward the person, listening to them, asking whether they felt anger, and waiting until they confirmed this was their feeling. It was like magic; I didn\u2019t need to praise, hug, or do anything except listen and empathize. It was definitely a powerful and effective tool.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. In NVC, we consider praise and compliments a violent form of communication.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because they are part of the language of domination, one is passing judgment on another. What makes it more complex is that people are trained to use praise as a reward, as a manipulation to get people to do what they want. Another important idea from the book is that praise and compliments, as we usually give them, can be a form of violent communication because they are judgments and can manipulate or control people. Rosenberg explains that when praise is used as a reward, it becomes part of the language of domination, separating people instead of connecting them. This idea reminds me of a concept I learned in my coaching journey called \u201cevidence effective.\u201d I\u2019m not sure if it\u2019s exactly the same, but it works similarly: you first paraphrase the coachee\u2019s story. For example, if they tried to create an online school to reach people who can\u2019t afford transportation and succeeded, you repeat their story back to them. Then you show how this story reflects their qualities, like turning problems into extraordinary goals. This way, you aren\u2019t praising them out of nothing; you are using their own experience to highlight their strengths. I have used this technique four times, and it works: their faces show that this tool isn\u2019t fake but an exceptional NVC tool.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. NVC can help in all aspects of life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Rosenberg shares a story about a parent\u2013teen interaction where the father discovers his son took a car without permission. Instead of reacting with anger, he reflects on his own feelings and needs and then approaches his son with empathy, asking if the son was worried about punishment rather than accusing him. This story shows how NVC can help in all aspects of life, allowing its users to practice empathy even in extreme situations. However, Rosenberg never suggests that it is an easy path. The point is that the only communication most of us have learned is violent communication. Even in this story, the father struggles internally to apply NVC, trying to stop himself from reverting to the old, easier pattern. I can\u2019t say that I am fully practicing NVC, but I relate to this father: sometimes I apply it with difficulty, and other times I find myself slipping into my old patterns. Still, I try to analyze these moments and learn from them so that I can gradually grasp this beautiful way of communicating.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. We can say \u2018no\u2019 to an action while empathizing with the need behind it.<\/span><\/p>\n

This idea explains that we can still set boundaries while using NVC. It emphasizes that NVC is a complete method, moving from our thoughts to empathy with our interlocutor. As the saying goes, charity starts at home, so for now I am applying and testing this concept with my child. I first ask about his feelings regarding the situation for example, not being able to watch TV for long hours then I explain why this is not possible and the reasons behind it. I also make it clear that this decision has nothing to do with my love for him or my feelings toward him as my son.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. When people feel safe and understood, they are far more willing to contribute to our well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also this can directly help us help the person in front of us to express their needs. This leads me to my journey as a coach, whenever I end the session without any judgment or blaming or suggesting solutions it feels like the person I\u2019m coaching could benefit from the session. Empathy isn’t just about to be nice it’s a structure to further improvement and thriving so it is the NVC.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you create a better world? If so, how?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

As I mentioned before, I would use it first of all with my family. Mainly with my 6-year-old son. As a manner to communicate, but also as a teaching. By knowing his feelings, even though I guess some may be false feelings, it gives me more space to train myself in the process. Therefore, I can ask and sense his needs. Then, I can try to help him fulfill them. At the same time, I can remain empathetic, even in the worst scenarios.<\/span><\/p>\n

In addition, I will also apply it in my coaching sessions. This way of communication fits coaching values 100%. Consequently, I am fully convinced it will elevate my coaching skills and help my clients thrive.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

The book in its all is an inspiration to me.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or are there ideas which you disagree with and, if so, why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Everything was crystal clear and deeply relatable to me. I fully agree with his ideas.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Yes, the book contains many exercises, especially those about agreeing with the statements the author suggests to help differentiate Nonviolent Communication (NVC) from violent communication (VC). These exercises were very helpful in teaching the difference between expressing feelings and needs versus blaming or judging, as well as in learning how to listen effectively. Another part of the book that inspired me was the practice of applying NVC in real-life situations. I tried to use NVC once I was in a difficult situation, and it helped me stay calm, understand my own feelings, and respond with empathy rather than reacting with judgment or anger.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

No.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt provides full guidance on a concept that is entirely new to me.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nDefinitely. I\u2019m planning to adopt NVC in my coaching, as suggested by a friend. It will be a powerful tool to explore clients\u2019 goals.<\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nCompletely clear and straightforward.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 10<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nYes, even for children. There\u2019s a great book for parents who want to teach their children this concept.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 10<\/span><\/strong><\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]The Power of Intention<\/strong><\/span>
\nAssessment by Nadia Echchikhi (Morocco)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

1. What is the main idea that the author is trying to convey in the book?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This book is a mixture of a religious approach but, at the same time, is intended for those who don\u2019t follow any religion. Actually, it really depends on the reader and how they use it because it contains many metaphysical ideas. In some parts of the book, the author tried to provide some scientific evidence to support what he wanted to convince the reader about; however, this evidence seems artificial. For instance, the main idea of the author is that our intentions, which mainly stem from our thoughts, can be a driving force in creating the life we desire, and it really depends on how we use this power to shape our lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. What were the seven ideas which were personally most important to you and why?<\/span>List these seven ideas followed by an explanation after each one, using personal examples from your own life.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

i. In simpler words, \u201cAll things whatsoever ye pray and ask for, believe that ye have received them, and ye shall receive them.\u201d (Mark 11:24).<\/span><\/p>\n

Though this idea is not the author\u2019s own idea, I decided to choose it because it summarizes the whole book. It also confirms that being attached or close to God is something powerful because He who created you is the only one who can support you in anything, even things that seem like miracles. Moreover, He gives you things without expecting anything in return. Recently, I decided to be closer to God because He\u2019s the only one who can give you anything and everything without any benefit, and even though you commit sins, He still gives you what you ask for once you are honest about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

This idea that you believe you have already received something is really a great one because once you have the confidence that you already have that thing and behave as if you have it, it creates the right atmosphere to receive it. I remember when I started thinking about coaching as my new reality, I started acting like a coach from the very beginning, even without being registered at The Coaching Academy. I also offered coaching to my relatives, and I even reached the point of coaching a group of people who were planning to go to Spain. I did that in Spanish; I had no clue how to do it, but I did it, and I know that God\u2019s force was behind this, because if it had been about my skills, my confidence, or anything related to coaching, I wouldn\u2019t have even thought of coaching that way confidently.<\/span><\/p>\n

ii. When you’re unkind, you’re blocking the face of kindness. You’re moving away from the power of intention.<\/span><\/p>\n

I always believe that if we were perfect, we would be angels in the sky. So being unkind can sometimes be a part of my life with kids, my husband, family, or friends. However, since I have begun my improvement journey, I feel that something is abnormal, and it can be explained by this idea of moving away from the power of intention, even in my inner thoughts. I really feel that something is wrong. Although the other person may say something hurtful or unnecessary, I still tell myself: do I have to mirror them, or should I look for the nicer response this feeling is guiding me toward? Sometimes, I also tell myself that maybe this behavior, event, or experience is telling me something deeper than it seems, and I need to learn a lesson from it or discover something new perhaps an aspect I\u2019ve been looking for a long time.<\/span>
\niii. \u201cYour imagination allows you the fabulous luxury of thinking from the end.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Let me explain this idea from a coach\u2019s mindset. The smart idea behind starting with the end in mind instead of starting from reality is that if we focus on the problem or the issue, we will still search for solutions, means, and tools. However, if we already see our new reality as having achieved our goal, we will draw from it all the things we need to do to achieve that new reality, and we will be inspired by that future self, as I love to call it. Then, using imagination will already show us what it looks like, so we will know how to feel the gaps between our present self and our future self. Then, everything we need becomes a question of learning and research.<\/span><\/p>\n

For instance, I recently used this approach, which I love, to coach a client through imagination, especially by asking her to imagine herself as having already achieved her goal. Her goal was to make a decision between two choices. This exercise not only helped her decide which option to choose but also shaped how her life would be three years after the session. She imagined everything, and at the end of the exercise, her face showed everything she had experienced, which proves that seeing things from the end is the best way to start achieving our goals.<\/span><\/p>\n

iv. Treat yourself with kindness when you eat, exercise, play, work, love, and everything else.<\/span><\/p>\n

Kindness is paramount. I remember taking the decision to be kind to myself, even though I sometimes don\u2019t respect my diet (without gluten, sugar, and lactose) and still eat these foods occasionally without restrictions. This worked, and now I\u2019m no longer attracted to them. I don\u2019t feel the same desire as I did when I used to blame myself.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you eat them and then become attached to them, you go back to old patterns, and you know that if you return to a habit, it can become worse and you may lose discipline. I stopped being harsh to myself, and instead I tried to cut this spiral of thoughts that catastrophize things before they even happen. It really worked from within, not from the outside.<\/span><\/p>\n

v. You can\u2019t always control what happens to you, but you can control how you respond.<\/span><\/p>\n

This idea resonates with me, especially after attending a coaching skills session called Coaching the Inner Self. The presenter described a healthy ego. Indeed, Wayne Dyer didn\u2019t explicitly state it in this idea, but if we reflect on it, when something happens outside of our control, we can either choose a healthy response or one that disintegrates us from what God created us for. So here is the real control we can manage 100% if we decide to.<\/span><\/p>\n

vi. When you feel connected and in harmony with intention, you sense a major difference in how other people react to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

I believe that we can only change ourselves, and we can influence others. Imagine all the great leaders in history; they never tried to change others by force. If they had done so, they would not be leaders but dictators. All great leaders inspire change by first changing themselves. Even though they passed away long ago, they are still remembered as leaders. As for me, I am still working on myself first to change my inner dialogue and to control only myself in order to raise my awareness and use a healthy ego to change myself first.<\/span><\/p>\n

vii. True nobility isn\u2019t about being better than someone else. It\u2019s about being better than you need to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

This leads me to the previous quote. The thing is that we are on this earth not to compete but to complete. Every human being is unique and can achieve many things, while others can also do the same. We do not need to belittle others to be great; we only need to focus on ourselves. Since I started telling myself, \u201cNadia, focus on what is in your control,\u201d everything feels enough in this world because everything has been created with precise balance and wisdom.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. How will these ideas or lessons help you in a practical way, both in your daily personal life and in helping you create a better world? If so, how?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

As I stated in the sixth quote I would implement these ideas to first change As I stated in the sixth quote, I will implement these ideas to first change my inner dialogue and focus only on what I can control. This will help me raise my awareness and use a healthy ego to become a more effective and conscious coach. It will also allow me to participate in the transformational journey of my clients and apply the same approach in my personal life so I can positively influence my environment.<\/span><\/p>\n

I used this book as part of my learning journey in The Coaching Academy, where I used it as a tool to learn how to stay focused on the client\u2019s agenda instead of trying to decide for them or suggest solutions, even internally while they share their experience.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quotes: Are there any statements which the author made that particularly got your attention? If so, please quote them and comment as to why they were important to you.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

None other then what I shared in Question 2!<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Is there anything in the book that you do not understand or are unclear about, or any ideas you disagree with? Why?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

In Chapter One, Wayne Dyer borrowed some scientific ideas to support what he wanted to say, especially when he mentioned Lynne McTaggart and her book The Field. I think he did this to gain credibility without spending too much time explaining his ideas. The issue is not whether he uses scientific evidence or not, because I have read many books without scientific proof and still applied their ideas in my life. What disturbed me was the use of incomplete science, which made me question whether to continue reading the book. After doing some research, I found that Lynne McTaggart is a journalist and author who writes about connections between consciousness and quantum physics. However, many of her interpretations are considered controversial and are not widely accepted by mainstream scientists.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Did the book contain exercises for the reader to complete? If so, did you complete all of the exercises and did you find them helpful?<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I applied the exercises from the first chapter but aligned them with my religion, mainly because what the author calls \u201cuniversal power\u201d or \u201cdivine power\u201d is, for me, 100% Allah, who created this universe. After reading the whole book, I found that the exercises are easy to implement in our lives, especially since at the end of each chapter Wayne Dyer provides simple points to follow, which makes them easier to remember. However, I still need to reread them to fully integrate them into my life and benefit from them more deeply.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Was there anything you read in the book that you would like to comment on that was not covered in the previous questions? If so, please comment.<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

No.<\/span><\/p>\n

Please rate the following questions on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten is good and one is poor.<\/span><\/strong>
\nA. How interesting was it to read? 9<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nIt was really interesting, and I decided to apply the ideas in many aspects of my life.<\/span>
\nB. How helpful were the contents? 8<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nC. How easy was it to understand? 7<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nA little heavy for people who have never read in this field. I have read in French and now in English, but I still feel there is a lot to discover.<\/span>
\nD. Would you recommend it to others? 6<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nNot for everyone. I would recommend it to people with a religious background who can read it through a spiritual lens.<\/span>
\nE. What is the overall rating you would give it? 7.5<\/strong><\/span><\/span>
\nA useful book to change inner dialogue and build a positive mindset.<\/span>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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